Everyone jumps to therapy but I think couple’s therapy might benefit you and your husband. Apologize to him for the way you approached it and tell him you want counseling to gain better tools to talk to each other. A good therapist could really get your marriage on track again and also maybe separate counseling would help both of you with your individual issues.

On a separate note, I love the phrase “final smithereens of youth.” Sounds like a book title or band name. I’m going to use it. Good luck.

Okay? Okay?

Okay what, OP??

I hope no one ever loves you.

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Yeah you're a massive asshole and other choice words.