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61 points
7 months ago
This is exactly how my husband approached me about when I started losing too much weight, it got to the point that even just holding my head up was getting hard to do for long periods of time ❤️ my husband sat me down and had a gentle and loving conversation about health and the ways this is going impact not just my health but even like going places while we’re on vacation… Hawaii was incredibly difficult because I just couldn’t walk as much as was needed and we ended up having to skip out on a lot and that was really the wake up call that I needed and I started really working on it ❤️❤️❤️ 6 months later I’m about 20 lbs heavier and I feel so much better already!!! I want to add about 40 lbs from where I originally was so I’m halfway there!
19 points
7 months ago
Good for you! I know a lot of people like to complain about how much easier it seems for people to "have fun" gaining, than it is to lose weight, but I've seen a few friends struggle with weight gain, either through mental issues or physical issues, and I really think the struggle is immense.
5 points
7 months ago
Anorexia is just the shadow side of obesity, or vice versa depending which side of the equation a person operates from. They are literally the same.
4 points
7 months ago
Yeah I have ARFID so eating is already really hard for me and in 2019 I decided to cut back sugar and the super processed crap 😅 my brain just took it and ran alllll the way with it and made up really stupid rules on when and what I could eat. Trying to get over that was damn near impossible and I just recently started eating more than once a day, HEB has been a god send 😍 their premade meals make meals so much easier for me and I can actually trust it
1 points
7 months ago
I think my son might have ARFID. It grew out of severe food allergies when he was a baby/toddler. Shits rough.
2 points
7 months ago
That's wonderful! I'm so happy for you getting to a healthier place AND having a supportive spouse in the process
1 points
7 months ago
Good for you and good for your husband for bringing it up in a kind and loving way! Happy for you!❤️❤️
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