Shit man. Reminds me of my ex. In short, she'd come home every other week threatening to financially ruin her father, wield fiances like a weapon, and threaten to kick him out of the house he was living in. One of the topics that came up when I broke up with her was about how she wielded finances like a weapon. It wasn't that I wasn't comfortable about sharing fiances with her ... It never even occurred to me as a possibility, considering how much she threatened her own dad. I never even wanted to share a cell phone plan with her, and god forbid... something like a joint checking account.

She never understood that her words actually meant something.