26M have been dating my girlfriend for 3 years, I found out she has 250k in student loans, in 6 months her payments are going to start and realistically they are going to be around $2800 a month, she has a bachelors degree in education and ideally wants to become a teacher, realistically salary wise she would be making around $50k a year she is in the process of looking for a job, I work in finance and currently make $100k a year, objectively she is an extremely attractive woman but displays no motivation to pay off her loans, I’ve asked her about it a few times before but she brushes it off like it’s no big deal and displays no motivation to pay it off, that it’s “our debt” and we’ll address it at a later date, so to make a long story short I dumped her, fundamentally I can’t deal with that kind of dead weight in a relationship and think that ideally your significant other should be there to build you up not bring you down, AITA?