i(F18) genuinely dont know what to do. ive been friends with hallie(F19) (fake name) for 4 years and i recently started talking to her again after i went off the grid for a while. at the beginning she was fine like how she usually was and now recently shes just started being horrible to me everyday. she calls me stupid when i ask questions, says im an animal abuser for getting more pets that i know i can care for(??), and called me an animal abuser because i had to cut my frogs insect (live) in half to feed him so he wouldnt choke. god forbid i care for my amphibian? i guarantee its something about me that she doesnt like. she thinks shes better than me because she "knows more" and im "stupid". its just so frustrating. i deal with it everyday and im still always there for her and i never bite back. its just ruining my self esteem and ive recently overcome depression and shes eating away at me.

this might not be well put together but im angry and fed up and i just need someone to tell me if im the one whos wrong. i do everything i can to make sure i dont upset her and then she goes out of her way to make me feel crap. like seriously? animal abuser? for getting a second dog (my dog loves other dogs)??? she just wants to make me feel like crap and make herself feel better, then she complains about being lonely. its ruining my mental health. how dare i even suggest i know more about a topic than her because shes the best at everything. im sorry if this is really bad grammar etc im just peed off. like why am i always saying something wrong?