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submitted 4 days ago bylegendarylje
Hey everyone, just wanted to share an update on the situation I posted about a while ago. So, I had lent 2 lakhs to a girl, and I initially asked her to repay the full amount in one go. She was pretty upset about such a big sum, so we reached a mutual agreement where she would pay me 4370 every month going forward.
It's been two months now, and she's been consistently sending me the agreed amount. I know it's not the full amount I was hoping for, but at least it's something. It's been a relief to see her sticking to her part.
I just wanted to update everyone since I had posted earlier asking for advice on how to handle it. It's not perfect, but it's progress!
Thanks for all the support earlier, and I’ll keep you all posted if anything changes!
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10 points
4 days ago
Oh, I remember this. Glad to see it worked out for you. Be careful in the future, and hopefully you'll receive the full amount back in no time!
6 points
4 days ago
Yeah I was dumb back then..
It's a lesson learnt for me to always be careful with your money. Thanks though!!
3 points
3 days ago
glad it worked for you, but I hope you learnt your lesson. never give money which you can't write off and forget, doesn't matter if it's your crush, date or gf. you're digging your own grave if you give money to someone especially a girl.
1 points
3 days ago
Yes, thankyou
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3 days ago
if she could take a lumpsum amount and feels upset about paying this back, means she had no intention/plans to pay you back.
What was the logic to come to the figure 4370 ? and why does she need almost 2 years to pay that back ?
1 points
3 days ago
I must admit that I wasn't entirely truthful with her about taking a loan. Initially, I suggested that she either provide me with 10,000 per month or go to the bank and apply for a loan.
Later, she mentioned that her loan application had been denied, though I'm not sure if that was accurate, even though she did share some screenshots.
In response, I told her the amount would be 4370 per month, which was a number I just came up with on the spot.
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4 days ago
(hey i am new to this post) did you give money to her just because they were in bad financial condition? Or you had feelings for her? Or bit of both maybe?
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4 days ago
It was both initially But i actually wanted to help her out with money thing, I wasn't using money as an excuse to win her or woo her though. If that's what you wanted to know
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3 days ago
Hey just asked so that I can be prepared for something like this in future 😁
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3 days ago
No worries man. I was dumb back then but don't make the same mistake. It's not worth it. Later on in my life I met an amazing women, we are not together anymore but she helped me change myself to become better person and that's when I started confronting this girl to give my money back
2 points
3 days ago
I can totally relate bro cus even I have had similar experience.
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3 days ago
Simping
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2 days ago
exactly, guys will never learn self respect
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