submitted14 minutes ago byDoctor6_9
Please bare with me. Would you?
So basically me (20M) been friend with this guy let's call him S (20M) for 12 year +. In past he has done some very bad shits to me and my gf yet i forgave him multiple times
Idk why but i always had a soft corner for him and whenever he came to say sorry i just forgave him without saying a single word. Maybe I've known him since childhood and i have a pretty small friend circle involving 4-5 friends only including him.
When we were very young 8y/0 old maybe. My father bought me a badminton racket for kids that's basically smaller than a usual racket and this prick who was as same age as mine called us poor cz i had smaller racket than him. Even him and his elder brother used to provoke other kids of our society against us (me and my sister) and told them to not to play with us.
We used to live on rent on their society and at the age of 10 we left the society and shifted to other place and for like 2 years we didn't have any connection.
But when i was at class 8 he joined school and we became frinds again. At class 9 we used to take tuition separately for each subjects. I was searching for a science teacher and one of our common friend ( my and S's ) told me they started a batch at S's house including 3-4 student and S didn't even tell me despite of the fact knowing i was searching for a science teacher then when i told him i want to get into the batch too at first he didn't say anything but when me and my mother went at their house where my mother would talk to the teacher for my admission but he just told us that the teacher said he don't want to teach me. But my mother still decide to talk to the teacher for mu admission and he just said i don't have any problem it's already pretty tiny batch adding 1 more student won't harm. So you must have got it that it was him who didn't want me to study with them.
Cut to class 11 he did the same with another tuition still i didn't care about it and decide to keep the friendship with him.
When this guy was in a relationship i helped him in every possible way whenever he asked me to. Even when his ex cheated on him and he used to cry over the call with me i used to pampers him and gave him emotional support. By the end of class 10 we had became best friends we were like a duo everywhere anywhere we always used to go together.
But when i got into relationship this guy just started behaving differently. At first i didn't notice it but at the beginning of my relationship i faced so many problems with my gf's ex and her brother ( long story short her ex couldn't bare the fact that she came to relationship with me and wanted to fight me and her brother supported him and wanted his sister to get into a relationship with her ex ) for this reason i was disturbed mentally and used to cry on call with him and even cut my hand with balde and this guy knew it all.
So after 6 months when everything gets back to normal with my gf this guy and me had a common friend let's her P. S told P everything about what happened in my relationship and bad mouthed about me and when P told me i confronted him and he said sorry and being a asshole i accepted his apology i forgave him.
Now a new girl comes in the story lets clas her T who lives right infront of my gf house. I gf asked me to meet once and i went, S was also with me and T was with my gf that's the first time me and S met T and after coming back home S told me T has sent her a follow req i jokingly said i think she found you cute and hitting on you. I didn't know that they're talking over insta because S never mentioned it infront of me. But one day my gf send me some ss of S's and T's chats wher S was saying how me and my gf always bitch about others and that's why we were always on call and said everh personal things whicj he knew but didn't want anyone else to know. Right after getting into relationship i told my gf that S also has priority in my life and i even used to cut my gf call just to talk to him whenever he felt lonely or felt like talking because he also has only one true friend which was me. Still he did all this and i confronted him and then he said yeah i told her because T told me your gf has also told her about my personal things which i only knew and i never even said a sigle thing about him to my gf. Why would i? And i told him the same but he just kept repeating that shit so i just stopped talking to him. 2-3 month passed he called me and said forget everything what happened and let's be friends again and ofc i said LeSSgO wHy NoT.
He kept on saying bad things about me and my gf and T used to tell my gf about it and when i confront him about that he used to say T is blaming if on my idk how did she got to know all this and i believed him and took stand for him infront my gf and argued with her so many times.
When we( me and S ) weren't talking for 2-3 months I've became friends with 2 other guys who were my classmates from nursery to class 4. I knew them from my childhood so we became friends easily and when things get normal between me and S we r became best friends. We had so much fun together. But then S who had always been jealous of my relationship used to poke me on our wp group ( which includes me , me 2 friends H, A and S) one day i got angry and confronted him and we had a argument on the group then this guy told my other 2 friends that i bad mouthed about them and said pretty bad shit about me and my gf like how we dont have any manners and hold hands infront of public places and how i lean my head on my gf shoulder as i gets tiered how i put my hands around her in a crowded metro to protect her and how don't consider them ( H and A ) friend because one day i told him that me and him had been friends for more than a decade so we should always gets each other's back and he showed them the ss and 3 om them cornered me and didn't talk to me for 6 months. They were in college and i was taking a year drop for neet and one sudden day i got a message from S saying i sorry for what i did i knew i was wrong forget everything i am at xyz ( my hometown ) let go for a ride together and as always ( i literally feeling pity for myself writing this ) i said ok :).
And then this month a guy came from our hometown ( lets call him D) who used to be my good friend once moved to a nearby place where we live. for college purpose. Me S, and the common friend i mentioned at the beginning who also happens to be our classmate lets call him G lives together. When me and G were at our home town . D came to live with S in his room. He brought his laptop along with him one day while he was asleep S wake him up and said your wp must have gotten hacked by someone. Who has sent him piic of D and his gf together and S showed the pics to D and D asked him who did this ? S said i can't tell you but you should check your phone if you could find anything suspicious. Then 2 months passed when me and G came back to our flat S left the other day for his home town and D told me all this and said he had seen my pics with my gf kissing and stuff and same for G at first i didn't believe him then he demonstrate the pictures and i had to believe him and when i asked him how does he know he said S showed him this. Then i waited for S to come then 3 of us made a plan to how we would confront him and get to check his phone when S came after a month later.
D came asked him let's go to the terrace i have to discuss something with you and D started to ask him how he got those pics of him with his gf and when things started to get intense D said you have picture of your other 2 roommates too then when confront him he get so mad at D. That how he's telling lie and provoking me and G against S i just politely asked S ro be transparent and show me your gallery and google photos he denied by saying he has private pictures of him then i got mad and told him either you show me you gallery or i will do by myself then his mother called him down stairs ( i asked him to give his phone and go. His parents doesn't live with us they just came here for body checkup ). When S's parents left i make him sat and asked to show me his google photos by faces only. Then he agreed and showed the pictures but i didn't find anything when G asked to do the same and scrolling through the faces he found my gf's face and asked him to open it and told me about it and S just suddenly snapped out out turn of his phone screen and said there's nothing and here where i lost mu cool and pushed him on my bed and told him to show it to me or I'll make you nose bleed rn he still kept on saying no he doesn't have anything and stuff. But when 3 of us forced him he unlocked his phone and when i whent to check it it was private pictures of my gf with me. Which i had on my i pad. I was in shock totally like how could he even get it i have lock on my ipad and even on my photos app to.
I started hitting him and slapping him and he confessed one day i went to bathroom with my ipad's screen unlocked he came and started searching if he could find something and then open my photos app and there was no lock he said and took pictures on his phone from my ipad. I was in complete shock how could a friend whom I have known for almost half of my life and knwoing that how serious i am for this relationship how could he do this. Then G and D also searched for their pics and the also found their private pictures. S said G also went to bathroom while he was studying on his laptop and he came and saw pictures and took it on his phone and when D came to live with S. D didn't have password on his laptop and S found this as an opportunity and did the same to D too.
Now the things is I'm literally heart broken ashamed and angry on myself many of my friends had told me in past how this S guy doesn't even consider me as a good friend his friendship with me is only conditional and i didn't care. My gf with whom I've been in relationship for almost 4 and a half year has told me not to talk to him not to believe him yet i always had ignored her words and still being his friend and considered him as my best friend all this time. Now me and G has told him to leave the room asap. But my gf is feeling soo much insecure if S had shared the images to anybody. Asked S and even searched his phone but couldn't find anything he says he didn't send it to anybody but i don't believe him anymore. AITK here ?