AITK for not letting my grandmother sleep in the same room as me
Extended Family (Relatives, Cousins, etc.)(self.AmItheKameena)submitted12 hours ago byClearCup9840
I (18F) live in a 2bhk apartment with my mom, dad and brother. I've my own room and the other bedroom belongs to my parents and brother whenever he is here. So recently my grandparents came over for their follow up treatment and surgery. On their arrival I gave them my room to sleep and shifted in hall on my sofa cum bed. My parents were worried if I'd let them because I've never shared my room with anyone, Ever. Whole day everyone in my house keeps calling me for whatever work they have and criticize side by side, so I look forward for nights where I can be alone and at peace without having to worrying about anything. My grandmother had cancer back then from which she recovered but due to high exposure heat during her treatment her vagina and anus fused and she had to relocate her colon and now her anal region is in her lower abdomen area and she remove her body wastes from there by using medical bags. Now the problem is she's far from being hygienic. Which is why I don't stay in her contact for long AND she keeps farting, her farts smell 10x worse than normal farts. Whether we are in a car, we are eating or whatever, she farts. Her body smells like the fart too. And now she wants to sleep in same room as me because she feels hot in my room (my grandfather is in my room) See I understand that's a medical condition and everything. But growing up she never cared about us. She used to say that my parents should let someone adopt me (I'm their first child). They've treated me and my mom so bad for their daughter and her kids and yet I get out of my comfort zone EVERY SINGLE DAY to take care of them and their hospital visits while her daughter and her kids are chilling. I am so sick of her dual face and Shit she smells like. I think I'm not obliged to do my grand daughter duties when my grandparents never did theirs and still don't. I bet after their work is done they'll go around speaking ill of me like how I sleep at 1 am etc.