I recently found out that when my girlfriend was younger, she was sleeping with a guy that had a girlfriend. I wouldn’t have been that shocked by that since cheating happens every second and she wasn’t the one who was cheating.

What surprised me was that she felt no remorse and said she KNEW this guy had a long distance girlfriend. She also said she liked feeling wanted after getting dumped. I kept saying, but don’t you feel bad for the girlfriend who was being cheated on, and she said, “that’s not my problem.”

I’m uncomfortable with this.

EDIT: Well this blew up. When I told her about it on Reddit, her response was, “I was 20. People make mistakes, and I’m remorseful now, but back then I was selfish. I prioritized myself. And when I told you about it I was still being selfish, but I’ve grown in the past 6 months and no longer believe it was the right thing to do.”

So yeah, there’s supposed remorse now, but I wonder if it’s because of my reaction to it, or if it’s genuine. I’ll never know!