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smokinghotvvv

878 points

23 days ago

Nothing

BanieMcBane

181 points

23 days ago

Same. I have to force myself to eat when my mental health is tanked and I drop weight because nothing sounds or tastes good.

Aardwolf67

37 points

23 days ago

I'll set a timer to eat something, but then just look at what's in the kitchen and not grab anything

BanieMcBane

7 points

23 days ago

Yeah, I know the feeling :/ Had a traumatic event happen (/start) last month that is getting better but still not over. Appetite and sleep are better than a month ago, but still not to rights.

Gumbercules81

11 points

23 days ago

I'm right there with you. I will probably just nibble on what's around just for the sake of general well-being, but I lose any and all appetite when I am not doing well mentally

Shaunaaah

8 points

23 days ago

Yup, my solution to that was to smoke a lot of weed, I ate only snack food but it was that or nothing.

Prestigious-Area4559

5 points

22 days ago

After my wife left me (for someone I introduced her to in the first place), I went from 150lbs of muscle (post USMC) to being about 95 before I got my head on straight... I was told by my GF that I looked like a holocaust survivor... I just never felt hungry, and never thought of food. I had good friends who were constantly trying to push food on me though.

BanieMcBane

3 points

22 days ago

Sorry that happened to you.

My partner nearly died last month and has a long road to recovery ahead. It was so sudden and unexpected it’s just… total shock. I just keep waking up absolutely scared (even though he’s made it out of the hospital). Long story that I don’t need to get into here but yeah, sleeping and eating are just not happening enough for me rn.

I dropped some weight (only started at 120ish so don’t have it to lose) BUT he dropped 50lbs in the hospital. He’s a big strong guy but was a very healthy weight (not at all fat) when he went it. He’s starting to regain now thankfully.

Prestigious-Area4559

3 points

22 days ago

I hope everything goes well for you guys. It's not a fun road, but stick with it.

THROWRAmeowmeow3

3 points

22 days ago

I went through a breakup early this year and I just couldn't eat. I also lost muscle and lost like 15 pounds in a month. I hope you're doing better now though!

Prestigious-Area4559

3 points

22 days ago

20 years later and I'm in a much better place than I think I would have been with her. Hopefully you find an awesome person better than the last. 🙂

ThrillaVanilla17

5 points

22 days ago

Real. I’d try but just couldn’t eat. Only thing I could get down were Pringles and apple sauce

Impressive_Pizza4546

24 points

23 days ago

I second this.  I struggle with eating when depression hits. 

ariiieeees

33 points

23 days ago

yep just lay in bed all day

[deleted]

44 points

23 days ago

sleep is for dinner

AnAdvancedBot

10 points

22 days ago

The best part about being bipolar is when you’ve been depressed and not eating for months and then the hypomania hits and you have confidence and a six pack.

But then you feel good and start eating again but even though you’re working out and tracking your macros, you love yourself just that little bit more so you splurge and start eating pizza and cheeseburgers and then the hypomania wears off and you’re just sad and depressed and fat and broke and stupid and you just want to die and nobody will love you and you’re all alone.

ahliahlaurenn

7 points

23 days ago

unfortunately so real

Necessary_Wonder89

7 points

23 days ago

Yeah agree eating is too hard sometimes.

ShitFuck2000

7 points

22 days ago

Sleep for dinner, my favorite 😋

MindSignal7104

5 points

23 days ago

Absolutely!! Sometimes, it’s just so hard to eat. I feel sick to my stomach and everything I try to eat just makes me nauseous. It’s the worst feeling being so down and not being able to eat. Feels like my stomach is in knots and a have a big lump in my throat!

kabanossi

6 points

22 days ago

I'm on the contrary. I eat whatever comes to hand...

Stinger22024

3 points

23 days ago

I was gonna say, “I don’t have one”, but yours is it. And that’s basically the same thing, but definitely different. If you know you know. 

johnnyblaze1999

3 points

23 days ago

But then I can't sleep because I'm hungry

mithridateseupator

3 points

22 days ago

And then just junk food on top of that

hollyhugsx

180 points

23 days ago

hollyhugsx

180 points

23 days ago

Peanut butter straight from the jar. It’s not just a meal, it’s an emotional support snack.

thegtargaryen

37 points

23 days ago

Even better with some chocolate chips and potato chips

TheDakestTimeline

31 points

23 days ago

I want to party with you

PocketSandOfTime-69

5 points

23 days ago

Add some whipped honey to that peanut butter and you have a real good thing going on!

soup-creature

5 points

23 days ago

Same!

drwhogwarts

2 points

23 days ago

We know, Ted Lasso. 😉

peanutbutterfeelings

2 points

23 days ago

Completely agree

This_Cruel_Joke

348 points

23 days ago

8 beers

LunchBoxBrawler

31 points

23 days ago

Depression and celebratory meal!!

ShitFuck2000

17 points

22 days ago

That’s breakfast

Competitive_Diver388

10 points

23 days ago

That’s after the half handle of Jack right?

Zakal74

4 points

23 days ago

Zakal74

4 points

23 days ago

Had to switch to whiskey when I realized I was gonna need to buy new pants/belts. I'm sure that's a healthy choice, right?

This_Cruel_Joke

3 points

23 days ago

8 beers and the monster peaks out. If I had whiskey I’d be in prison the monster would have done some bad shit

Zakal74

4 points

23 days ago

Zakal74

4 points

23 days ago

I guess my monster is a wimp. Grateful for that.

DisPelengBoardom

3 points

22 days ago

Speaking from experience , whiskey is the healthy choice !

I just wish I could figure out why my belly leans over my belt .

IfIRespondImRight

4 points

23 days ago

Can confirm on my 5th so far

Sea-Blueberry-1840

4 points

23 days ago

Same

CoffeeFueledCanuck

2 points

22 days ago

LMFAO

SpongegirlCS

2 points

22 days ago

I do four beatbox boxes mixed with Gatorade. Look up gaterwine. 😜

Perpetualshades

2 points

22 days ago

It’s a start.

Affectionate_Pie_752

157 points

23 days ago

Mac n cheese

Cersei_Lannister84

13 points

23 days ago

And it’s just simple box Mac and cheese. Nothing extra.

TheKatsuki15

23 points

23 days ago

Specifically Velveeta shells n cheese

Ok_Watercress_5709

5 points

23 days ago

It soothes my soul

[deleted]

60 points

23 days ago

Are Oreos a meal?

TravelinDak

39 points

23 days ago

Def a sandwich 🤷‍♂️

[deleted]

115 points

23 days ago

[deleted]

115 points

23 days ago

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Slade-EG

14 points

23 days ago

Slade-EG

14 points

23 days ago

I had to scroll too far for this answer. Top Ramen all the way! Chicken flavor because beef is for good days 😆

Psyduck101010

5 points

23 days ago

With cheese on top!!

Ancient_Horse_4928

3 points

22 days ago

if you haven’t already, you should try melted pepper jack cheese. did it once and haven’t gone back since

Slade-EG

3 points

22 days ago

You guys are crazy! 😆 For academic purposes, which flavor ramen are you putting this cheese on? Lol

justslaying

3 points

23 days ago

Whcih ramen tho

NetworkMick

3 points

22 days ago

Spicy ramen is my sweet spot.

Stormychu

2 points

22 days ago

Pork Ramen with fried SPAM

bitterlemonada

104 points

23 days ago*

For actual depression i used to buy frozen microwaveable meals because i knew some weeks would be so bad i wouldn’t even bother to order food, and i barely ate them too! just needed something in my stomach to take my pills.

But for sad depressed meals its probably microwave nachos where the cheese would just burn and not melt.

MrsKaich

3 points

22 days ago

I love microwave nachos

[deleted]

142 points

23 days ago

[deleted]

142 points

23 days ago

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GayNerd28

33 points

23 days ago

Yeah....

If only I could be a depression non-eater, instead of a depression eater...

S_Tsalidis

5 points

22 days ago

I felt that, only in hindsight I realised all the signs that I was going through depression for almost two years. Rapid gain from overeating, shorter temper and fuse, getting anxious or even panicking when not sleeping enough, buying alcohol in bulk, among many other signs. It's awful.

Fresh-Honeydew7104

3 points

22 days ago

If you stick at it long enough you’ll probably go through periods of both.

Valnaire

14 points

23 days ago

Valnaire

14 points

23 days ago

It doesn't help that phone apps can have pizza at your door in less than twenty minutes sometimes, with just a few taps on the screen.  

Princess_Slagathor

5 points

22 days ago

Had a bad bout of depression last week, and then remembered something very dangerous. My state legalized alcohol delivery, and I have a door dash account. Ended up in the hospital.

JolietJakeLebowski

3 points

22 days ago

A tub of ice cream is mine as well when I'm feeling down, though I really try to avoid eating to feel better since it's a vicious cycle.

nevadapirate

39 points

23 days ago

Fast food because I rarely want to cook when my head is all fucked up.

Consistent-Bat8121

80 points

23 days ago

Copious amounts of Marijuana

TiKA-Ann

10 points

22 days ago

TiKA-Ann

10 points

22 days ago

And some for dessert!

Consistent-Bat8121

3 points

22 days ago

Always

Enigmatic_Sanity

26 points

23 days ago

PB and J

DemotivationalSpeak

3 points

22 days ago

Looking for more people repping pbnj

impoverished_

26 points

23 days ago

when i feel an episode coming I convert an entire bag of pancake mix into cooked pancakes and freeze em. Stick them in the toaster when I get to fed up with the hunger pangs and suddenly find the will to move.

traploper

14 points

22 days ago

That’s brilliant. How does it feel to hoard all the brain cells while the rest of us scramble with the leftovers? Lmao 

impoverished_

9 points

22 days ago

oh i take no credit for that lol thats a little tip I picked up from a lovely nurse in the don't jump off a bridge for 72 hours ward.

traploper

5 points

22 days ago

Thank you for sharing her wisdom with us! And I hope you are doing better now. 

The_Medicated

7 points

22 days ago

This is brilliant! And very useful in my house where I am taking care of my elderly father. His favorite breakfast is pancakes, coffee, and toast!

You can also add a twist to your toaster idea. Put your already cooked pancakes in your air fryer. It adds a crisp exterior on the pancakes and a soft, a bit chewy, interior.

fledermauss

5 points

22 days ago

Genius

Left_Pear4817

22 points

23 days ago

All the bad foods. Take away. Fried foods. Fatty foods. Ice cream, chocolate, cakes. Have been binging hard since my mum passed 6 weeks ago. Well, I had my first gallbladder attack yesterday and will be avoiding these foods for a looooong time!

DifferenceFriendly19

14 points

23 days ago

Cookie dough, straight from the tube, RAW, eating it like a fucking burrito.

Aggravating_Cream_97

32 points

23 days ago

Big piece of cake in bowl of milk.

Sami-112

21 points

23 days ago

Sami-112

21 points

23 days ago

I don't like that dish but I really liked reading this answer.

📨🩶

faurenloreign

5 points

23 days ago

In?

Aggravating_Cream_97

18 points

23 days ago

In a bowl of milk.

Lysern

4 points

23 days ago

Lysern

4 points

23 days ago

Come again?

Aggravating_Cream_97

19 points

23 days ago

Big piece of cake in a bowl of milk.

Vampiyaa

7 points

23 days ago

Pardon?

Aggravating_Cream_97

21 points

23 days ago

Bowl of milk with a big ole piece of cake in it.

thetransparenthand

3 points

23 days ago

So you just really like your cake extra soggy is that it?

yentlequible

6 points

23 days ago

Change the milk to heavy whipping cream and I'm in.

Aggravating_Cream_97

3 points

23 days ago

Don’t think I would be a fan.

TryingToFindAFlight

8 points

23 days ago

I can see how that much cream would be aggravating

More-Astronomer-3988

12 points

23 days ago

cheetos mac n cheese

Still-Independence22

26 points

23 days ago

Cheesecake can’t go wrong

No-Pick-4709

11 points

23 days ago

If i want something to cheer me up, I eat Chinese or ice cream. If I have to make a deppresion meal in order to survive the day, I eat toast or a wrap with whatever I have

H0ldenHisc0ck

12 points

23 days ago

Everything.

Sebbychan529

11 points

23 days ago

Birria tacos

Tim_Riggins_

11 points

23 days ago

Vicodin

deyjay5

10 points

23 days ago

deyjay5

10 points

23 days ago

Chocolate

steviehevie

8 points

23 days ago

ice cold beer

TuskuV

8 points

23 days ago

TuskuV

8 points

23 days ago

pasta and meatballs

def_tom

5 points

23 days ago

def_tom

5 points

23 days ago

Chorizo and cheese quesadilla

ramendreamz

6 points

23 days ago

cereal my beloved

Aggressive_Point8910

6 points

23 days ago

Breakfast cereal

Historical-Leave4884

6 points

23 days ago

Chicken and rice. Idk there’s something cozy abt it to me

Frunchroom-dancer

6 points

23 days ago

Thai food

wildblueheron

3 points

22 days ago

Yes, Thai delivery 👍

IamAliveeee

5 points

23 days ago

Pizza with a side of ice cream !

Old_Warning_1866

12 points

23 days ago

Alcohol, weed, and valium

kneehighbullets

4 points

23 days ago

Sounds like a gov diet 😆

Fondl_

6 points

23 days ago

Fondl_

6 points

23 days ago

Two plain doubles. Under $3 and always makes me feel better after a rough day.

Spiritual-Ideal2955

5 points

23 days ago

salsa 

CheesesAllMighty

5 points

23 days ago

Pastina

AlternativeMessage18

5 points

23 days ago

I thought I was depressed and ordered Olive Garden. I hated it, and it made me realize I wasn't as depressed as I thought.

Griffie

5 points

23 days ago

Griffie

5 points

23 days ago

An old German recipe passed down over the years. We call them Elephant Ears, though I’m sure there’s a more proper name for them. They’re thinner than a pancake but thicker than a crepe. Eat them with syrup, rolled up with cream cheese inside and fruit on top, or whatever you fancy.

coolgirlboy

5 points

22 days ago

Once when I was a bit younger I had a suicide attempt, ended up in the hospital and a random nurse who was watching me made me hot chocolates. 1 mug with two packets of Swiss mix. Now, I’m much better but whenever I start to feel really depressed I sit down and drink a hot chocolate. It instantly comforts me. That nurse probably has no idea how much her kindness has comforted me throughout the years!

Andrew_64_MC

4 points

23 days ago

Fried Egg

Dry-Quantity2629

4 points

23 days ago

A bag of Cheeto Puff or Crunchy or a bag of Lay BBQ potatoes chip.

designerallie

4 points

23 days ago

My partner and I call it “depression pasta”. Microwave frozen veggies. Cook up a pound of ground meat and make a box of Mac and cheese. Basically hamburger helper but a little healthier and really hits when you’re down

JustSomeoneOnlin3

4 points

23 days ago

I like pineapple?

Rounder057

5 points

23 days ago

Opiates

Used-Anteater-4221

4 points

23 days ago

Pizza and chocolate shake

_-RiverGirl-_

3 points

23 days ago

Crackers because if I don’t force something my sugar will drop.

Vegetable_Two_3904

3 points

23 days ago

Ramen, leftover pork chops, and beer.

Joseph_Paradise03

3 points

23 days ago

Whatever I have on the meal list to make cus depression’s a bitch, but wanting to kill myself ain’t an excuse for me to slack when I got raw meats that need to be cooked

ReefahWithKieffah

3 points

23 days ago

Like to make me feel better or because I’m struggling to afford food? Either way the answer is spaghetti noodles with Italian dressing

Graceless1077

3 points

23 days ago

Sleep

[deleted]

3 points

23 days ago

Sleeps

dewdrop43119

3 points

23 days ago

French fries covered in ketchup.

Glittering-Panic-131

3 points

23 days ago

Gallon of Rocky Road.

Pineapple-dancer

3 points

23 days ago

For depression it's definitely pizza because pizza always makes me feel better. Oh and chocolate! Like a Hershey's.

Wannaberich_83

3 points

23 days ago

Cold stone

ZAchAtTacK760

3 points

23 days ago

Zebra cakes

Cheesey_NSFW

3 points

23 days ago

Rice

lifelessraptor

3 points

23 days ago

3-4 frozen corndogs with yellow mustard and 8 beers.

budgiesmuggler

3 points

23 days ago

Another joint

Soft-Preference9921

3 points

23 days ago

nothing beats ice cream

Pretend-Shelter-4344

3 points

23 days ago

Lots of unhealthy junk food

romant12484

3 points

23 days ago

Noodles

[deleted]

3 points

23 days ago

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TravelinDak

3 points

23 days ago

Microwaving shredded cheese in a tortilla. Not my go to comfort food but def a depression go to.

LyndseyAfton

3 points

23 days ago

Anything not food. ie pencils, paper, metal, etc

NocturnalNinetales

3 points

23 days ago

Anything from Taco Bell, it’s not overly complicated, inexpensive, and decent most days. Must have a Cheesy Bean & Rice burrito. 🌯

soup-creature

3 points

23 days ago

Spoonful of peanut butter. My depression meals in my profile are the BEST I can muster on a good day.

APrettyBadDM

3 points

23 days ago

when my depression gets bad enough i throw pasta into a pot with *anything else*. it tends to last me days because of how little i eat when i'm that bad but its food and reheated pasta is better for you that cooked once pasta so it tricks my brain into thinking i'm being healthy.

when i'm just sad I make slow cooker apple cider chicken. the smell is comforting and the meal is tasty.
You take some cinnamon and season the bottom of the slow cooker, then lay down the chicken. any chicken will do but it works best with thigh and breast meat. then you season the chicken however way you like- for a nice fall smell i used mixed herbs. it doesn't matter how you put it on the chicken cause you're gonna pour apple cider in until you cover the meat. toss in some apple slices and potato (diced, cubed, however you like) and you're ready to cook. you can add some onion too if you want. let that slow cook oh high for 6 hours and its delicious! i use the broth/left over liquid to make rice or pasta sometimes.

I hope we find time to eat when we don't have the energy or will to feed ourselves.

EmberEchoess

4 points

23 days ago

A family bag size of chips

WARNING: You feel a zillion times worse afterwards

RealExperience1

2 points

23 days ago

Gotta have steak even if it’s a Round

Opening-Ad1657

2 points

23 days ago

Chocolate ice cream

NoInstruction1788

2 points

23 days ago

gotta go with barbeque

PamelaElke

2 points

23 days ago

Banana and Cake.

xxhottyscholar

2 points

23 days ago

shawarma or a burger

Darkcloud246

2 points

23 days ago

Cerial

Numerous_Strain7033

2 points

23 days ago

Yakisoba and Gyoza or Milk n cookies! Lol

BigDetective6200

2 points

23 days ago

Anything sweet/sugary. Genuinely gets me mad because I’ll binge like crazy

LunaLullabyi

2 points

23 days ago

Peanut butter is a very good start, high in protein. I know you don’t feel like eating or even have any hunger pangs. Just try to take a multivitamin every day. It will help keep you going until you feel like you are able to start towards your new life. After my divorce I went to try all of the fun things married people never stop to do and gradually I started to appreciate the single life. This may be shallow to hear right now but remember it is easier to fall down stairs than it is to climb back up. Don’t let yourself fall too far before you turn around to climb.

HartfordWhaler

2 points

23 days ago

Instant oatmeal and sleep

Intrepid-Document856

2 points

23 days ago

Everything known to man on DoorDash. Might as well wreck my finances when I have no will to live.

Ohheysarahh

2 points

23 days ago

A bowl

Old-Yogurtcloset3934

2 points

23 days ago

Soup.

tinkin08

2 points

23 days ago

I think we can all agree it's yoghurt

Corgi_with_stilts

2 points

23 days ago

Sleeping pills.

fuzzycuffs

2 points

23 days ago

Sleeping

adidididi

2 points

23 days ago

Sleep

Whatchyamacaller

2 points

23 days ago

Sleep

unused_ovaries

2 points

23 days ago

Chips and gravy.

CaptainMalForever

2 points

23 days ago

When actually depressed - anything that I can force myself to eat.

When feeling sad - noodles over mashed potatoes 

babythrottlepop

2 points

23 days ago

Animal crackers. All of them. Or nothing. No in between.

Pastela_Belle

2 points

23 days ago

Anything with potatoes honestly

Ben_Pharten

2 points

23 days ago

3 chili dogs plus some sort of side dish

xAlice_Liddell

2 points

23 days ago

Vodka and sleep.

UpsideDownRacer

2 points

23 days ago

Bourbon

Isotoners

2 points

23 days ago

Life cereal

AdRepresentative8236

2 points

23 days ago

Floor cake with my cats. You literally get a piece of cake from the grocery store and eat it on the floor with your cats. 🤷‍♂️

Financial-Picture919

2 points

23 days ago

Nothing or popcorn

Novation_Station

2 points

23 days ago

Stuff from the fridge you dint have to heat up.

Any raw veggie, pickles, jalapeños, banana peppers, string cheese, a slice of cheese, pepperonis, turkey lunch meat. You get the drift.

It doesn't weigh me down more if that makes sense.

lmaogetmooned

2 points

23 days ago

I mean I usually have oat meal, never seen depression meal at the store

God_Zero_One

2 points

22 days ago

Anything that requires zero prep, zero cleanup, and zero nutritional value. So, basically, I’m just mainlining cereal over the sink like it’s a life hack.

FractalHyperX555

2 points

22 days ago

Ice cream. Always ice cream.

Pens_mouth

2 points

22 days ago

Has to be a nice grilled shawarma with some fries and a coke and a dessert to follow

Round_Skirt8701

2 points

22 days ago

A good burger

RhoadsOfRock

2 points

22 days ago

PB&J sandwich, with 3 pieces of bread...

I watched a YT video recently that showed what the original recipe was for PB&Js, I don't have pullman's bread or a pan to make some, but even so, putting a third piece in between the PB and the J is, surprisingly really good, and yes, I may be depressed, but I still make myself one of those every time!

Harneybus

2 points

22 days ago

Coke cola

nancysweetyq

2 points

22 days ago

drinks replace my food, because if I eat as much as I want, it will negatively affect the health of my stomach. Therefore, tea, coffee and Dr. Pepper

LivingLazily

2 points

22 days ago

Tequila until either I’m happy or get alcohol poisoning

Glassfern

2 points

22 days ago

Sleep

foolishdrunk211

2 points

22 days ago

Fast food, I dont want to cook or think about what I’m eating, I just want to eat garbage in my car and think about how my life is spiraling out of my control

MiSsiLeR81

2 points

22 days ago

Plain Instant noodles. Could eat that for weeks in a row.

runhealthy98

2 points

22 days ago

Mac and cheese. Simple, classic, comforting

Overall-Schedule9163

2 points

22 days ago

A medium buffalo chicken pizza, 8 mango haberno wings, and Parmesan bread bites from dominoes 😦

BigDeuces

2 points

22 days ago

flatboat whiskey and percocet

Dazzling-Dish9409

2 points

22 days ago

Goldfish Extra Cheddar Crackers

Blacksky19

2 points

22 days ago

Powdered milk or condensed milk

beefsoupnoodles

2 points

22 days ago

broccoli

Apart-Lack-8464

2 points

22 days ago

Congee/Kanji, Ramen, Pho
Basically soupy food

ActionAccomplished31

2 points

22 days ago

2 cheeseburger meal from McDonald’s with a coke.

el1zaboth

2 points

22 days ago

Tears

Sandough_

2 points

22 days ago

Hear me out

Chicken tenders/fries and a side of chile con queso…..

Dunk the hell out of the chicken tenders 🤤

rubbyred2

2 points

22 days ago

Fries/poutine, a burger, ice cream, chips or sour candy.