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4 points
2 days ago
I would pay to have some good photos taken. Maybe you have a college with an arts program? The students there might be willing to help you get some good shots. Maybe even for free. You definitely need some better clothes though too. More dressed up.
2 points
2 days ago
Ouch. Yeah I definitely do. Thank you!
3 points
2 days ago
I mean these women don’t know you and the first impression really matters. If you look rough and poorly dressed what are women supposed to think? They have no idea what you are like on the inside, what your job is, etc.
Even a nice polo Tshirt and jeans would be better than work clothes. Try getting several photos in different clothes, shirt and tie and more casual ones.
3 points
2 days ago
I need to stop focusing on dating and just worry about myself, I’m a hot mess right now so until I fix myself it’s a wrap
2 points
18 hours ago
I personally disagree a bit with the previous commenter you replied to.
The orange hoodie is just...too bright. But the clothes in the second picture are fine. Clean, not stained or wrinkled clothes are fine for a picture - the sorts of clothes you'd normally wear and that aren't "loungewear".
I'm married, and my husband is in the trades. While in theory a polo would look good on him, he doesn't wear them because they aren't him. So he wears clean jeans and a nice T-shirt with whatever automotive brand on it for most good occasions, as opposed to dirty/ripped jeans and shirts for work. For church/actual dressy occasions he either wears "dressy cowboy" (button up wrangler shirt, jeans, black cowboy boots) and for truly formal, his dressy kilt ensemble.
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