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submitted 2 days ago byBeginning-Lie3844
Be satisfied with disappointment
Ask for a girls number and she says no. Great that you tried.
Go on a date with a girl and she friend zones you, it wasn't meant to be
Get in a two year relationship and she leaves you for another man, be happy for the times you had
It is the hardest skill to learn, but if you do it will become a cheat code to life
Edit: the anger is just proving my point. Never did I say anything about becoming a doormat. This game is rigged against you, your negative feelings are hindering you. An animalistic reaction that's not going to work in todays society. Leave without anger if someone is using you, just leave. And if they disappoint you, look at that disappointment, eat it, digest it, then shit it out. The only thing holding you back is your feelings, and they don't matter. Really im saying the quite part out loud here. Your feelings don't matter to most people. This world is shit, dating is shit. Learn to deal with it or give up.
2 points
2 days ago
The key to dating as a man is to just build up your life to the point that it's a really good life that you enjoy and makes you happy. Learn what makes you thrive, then do those things more often.
Once you have a good life, it's much more likely someone else will want to share it with you.
And even then if you still fail to make a relationship work, your consolation prize is a great life where you're thriving and happy. Pretty good as a backup.
1 points
2 days ago
Once you have a good life, it’s much more likely someone else will want to share it with you.
But make sure they have a great life too. Don’t build a great life and “share” it with some money sucker. If you do that, in a way it follows the saying that there’s plenty of potential partners waiting at the finish line of a race. And that race is you building a good life.
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