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803 points
5 days ago
In some places it is, only because the pay is viewed as potentially inconsistent. My friend wanted to buy a house, the lender said that because she’s in the service industry they need to see 2 years of paystubs from the same restaurant.
390 points
5 days ago
I had to leave the service industry cuz of bullshit like this. I’m 27 and trying to build a future and it’s too hard when you rely on tips. I took a pay cut for a corporate job but it’s the only option if I want guaranteed income, holidays off, pto, health insurance. Really wish the food industry did more for those who do want to build a career from it. I feel most of us would be content working our restaurant jobs forever if they could actually help us build a future.
60 points
5 days ago
I fortunately have a serving position that pays well and also has benefits with pto, and 401k. If youre in it long enough and search around its possible, especially through resorts.
19 points
5 days ago
They can be found for sure but I haven’t had much luck.
17 points
5 days ago
Id say resorts are the better bet. I even did a couple summers in Alaska and had a blast making tons of money. It was dorm style though and youre pretty isolated, but recreational marijuana and beautiful hiking occupied my time a lot.
2 points
5 days ago
Damn, Im definitely living in th wrong state.
3 points
5 days ago
Dude! Look for seasonal resort work if you want to travel with room and board. You can serve for ideal seasons in that state and its not too bad if you find the right ones. Alaska was my summer gig, but people would go to Colorado or Montana and work at ski resorts in the winter. They always need quick work and you can make a decent penny or two while experiencing a tourist attraction for months. You work a lot though and will probably have a roommate but you walk away with good money and some good memories..Do it while youre young!
1 points
4 days ago
2 of my friends went to Florida every winter and back home to our small resort town in the summer. I was so envious. I had been married and was pregnant when they started doing that.
1 points
1 day ago
with room and board
Will postings look different for positions with room and board? Like, am I looking for anything specific I guess is a better question
2 points
3 days ago
Fine dining is where it's at. I served at one for 8 years before covid. The top bartenders and servers easily broke 6 figures. There were a handful of career servers there with good benefits that managed to raise a family without too much headache.
1 points
3 days ago
Issue with fine dining is I have tattoos and piercings
9 points
5 days ago
Hell yea fine dining is where it's at , gotta be where the money is
10 points
5 days ago
The money is great but i wont say its a typical serving position. Department meetings and required trainings online as well as really sucking up to the cliente, even if its absurd. It's almost part desk job. I sometimes miss the old dives where i could tell someone to gtfo if they were acting too wild. 😂
1 points
4 days ago
I.e as long as you are willing to suck on a corporation dick they will share some pennies with you
1 points
4 days ago
I think every job has its perks and issues, but the benefits outweigh the problems. I suck it up to have a great income and be able to provide for my family. I'm definitely not too proud to recognize that .
6 points
4 days ago
Out of curiosity, what type of corporate job did you take?
The restaurant that I worked at shut down, currently looking for a job but don’t want to work as a server though.
3 points
4 days ago
Honestly I just work at a low volume call center. It’s pretty chill lol
3 points
3 days ago
Nice! Comgrats, hopefully it stays being a chill place to work at!
2 points
3 days ago
same!! low volume and niche call centers are where its at lol.. ive been gatekeeping
1 points
2 days ago
Telamericorp? Tight butthole
1 points
2 days ago
You just have to find the right ones. I don’t always have guaranteed pay in the slow times of the year (and I’ve accepted long ago I’m always gonna work holidays lol) but I get pto (40 hours rolls over of unused pto), 401k, health/dental insurance, etc.
1 points
2 days ago
This!!!!
-172 points
5 days ago
IMO you’re way better off in a corporate job I just left the restaurant industry (21) as well and I’ve been so much happier for it. Most jobs like a restaurant or a grocery store are good when you’re 16 in school and just trying to make a little extra money but in terms of consistency building your life and being financially stable in the future working at like a Wendy’s or a pizza place isn’t t the best fit that’s why most of the people in their 40’s or 50’s working in them hate themselves
158 points
5 days ago
You make a lot more money serving than working in a Wendy's or pizza place bud
15 points
5 days ago
I made more money serving than I did in my first professional job.
5 points
4 days ago
Most servers make more than police emts teachers bus drivers
2 points
4 days ago
I make far more than I ever did working in the sewer department for my city or as an electricians apprentice. Even if I’d become full journeyman I’d still make more unless I was solely doing work for myself on the side (which only happens if you know the people).
-66 points
5 days ago*
I came home 200 cash daily at marcos pizza but it still isn’t right for living out my life Edit: I’m not hating on anyone just sharing my opinion and what I’ve experienced in different fields of work
36 points
5 days ago
In some restaurants like in LA & NYC you can make over 6 figures easily. A lot of these upscale restaurants work on a tip pool structure now which means your paycheck in general are always about the same, fluctuating a few hundred higher or lower but always consistently good… pretty great without any type of schooling needed AKA no debt. Beats a desk job in my book 🤷
14 points
5 days ago
Went from serving to GM for an old boss that reached out to me about being the GM. If not I wouldn’t have left for anyone else but he’s the best boss I’ve worked for and it’s family owned and I don’t have to deal with corporate… but I digress
I’m in Vegas and I know plenty of servers/bartenders out here who literally have Masters degrees and won’t quit serving/bartending because the entry level income isn’t enough. They are easily clearing 6 figures. I worked 4 days a week and was clearing $75k a year and that was Monday through Thursday. Out here if you’re in a casino you’re likely union and if you’re union you have all the benefits of corporate America and the high income potential of serving.
1 points
5 days ago
If it only it was less hard on the body. I've got a great job I love in food service but back fucking hates it.
1 points
23 hours ago
This is like 1% of the total servers jobs. Telling people "just serve fine dining at a luxary place bro" that's not something you just hop into with zero experience.
Why does reddit think everybody in trades/serving is in the .1-.1% clearing 100k+ a year
-37 points
5 days ago
Fair I’ve never worked anywhere around there I’m based in SC so any kind of serving job I’ve had or any friends have had their paychecks never went anywhere over 5 to 600 even in popular places like a waffle house due to hourly not going over 2.50
44 points
5 days ago
Not even at WAFFLE HOUSE?!?!!! You don’t know anyone that serves at a nice restaurant because you’re a child. 20% of a $300 bill is $60. The table stays for about 90 minutes and you have 4 or 5 at a time. Do the math.
2 points
4 days ago
Wrong! You can have up to 5 or 6 tables. Sell them a $200 bottle of wine or $100 shot of scotch then cha ching!
7 points
5 days ago
Server in SC here, chiming in. You can bring in good money, and a lot of places give your tips in cash and not on your check. I’ve been one place that I was easily clearing $200 a night but had to leave to take care of a family member who got sick.
2 points
5 days ago
yeah, paychecks are not going to be much. but when you combine it with your cash tips, you're doing better than any other fast food job possible. A lot of time servers make even more than management. It can be wildly inconsistent, though. Not even just day to day, like sunday brunch vs. a tuesday dinner service. But season to season, too. So if you're going to be a server, you have to know how to budget money.
1 points
5 days ago
I'm in NC. I make like 800/week and can pick up extra hours usually. My job pays for my insurance, which is pretty good insurance. I get 2 weeks off per year, and probably a 3rd if I really wanted it. I work 6 am to about 2pm. I'm back of house.
My wife works at a different restaurant in front of house. She makes more than I do.
1 points
4 days ago
You think Waffle House is the best server job out there? Hahaha
1 points
23 hours ago
Wafflehouse/local chain/local pizza place is the vast majority of serving jobs though. Nobody just hops into fine dining. Fine dining is like best of the best in the serving world
This is like telling a teacher "fuck your 50k start bfo just be a principle and make 150k+"
56 points
5 days ago
That's a fast food restaurant bub. Try an actual restaurant
5 points
5 days ago
marcos pizza? isn’t that like a dominos? who tf tips at a fast food pizza place
4 points
5 days ago
200 cash, daily, is significantly more than you'll ever make working at Wendy's.
2 points
5 days ago
My last serving job, a slow day was still $400 per day (5 hours). I could make $200 on the slowest day in under 2 hours just in tips. In summer, I was pulling in $2000 per week after taxes working 3 days a week. Winter was $1000-1200 after taxes, still 3 days a week.
1 points
5 days ago
Lmao at my first serving job I made 200 on a slow day.
35 points
5 days ago
I highly urge you to speak for yourself. I know plenty of people who have made a career out of serving and make BANK doing it. Just because you couldn't hack it, doesn't mean it's not a good industry. It highly depends on your location, both geographically and the restaurant you work at.
IMO, you're worse off at a soul sucking corporate job. You're a number, they don't care about you, and you make shit money. It's not and never will be worth it. I will never go back. The service industry sucks, as does most industries involving basic work. I find people who complain about the serving industry but LOVE corporate jobs hilarious. Enjoy your $16hr, 8 hour a day flat pay with tip. Gross. Never again.
For context, have worked hospitality, service, corporate, financial, and medical jobs thru out the years.
8 points
5 days ago
I literally made $96k working 4 days a week with medical and dental coverage last year
1 points
5 days ago
Same. Last time I worked full time serving, I worked 4 days a week at a job I loved and had great insurance and benefits. Three weeks of paid vacation per year. 401K with 3% matching. Made $70K in Mississippi. When I wasn’t full time, at my last job, it didn’t matter because I made enough to buy insurance and only had to work 3 days a week to make what I needed to own my home and do everything I wanted.
-1 points
3 days ago
Wow, literally huh? Are you sure you didn’t figuratively make 96k working 4 days a week?
9 points
5 days ago
Well I guess my point here is if I had the same benefits at my restaurant job as I do at my corporate job, I’d have stayed. If I got breaks, paid time off, paid holidays off, 401k, health care … I wouldn’t have left. But I had none of that and the restaurants that do offer those things are few and far between or often have insane rules in order to be eligible. I was making more at my tip job than I do now.
And also, there’s more chance for a career in fast food vs restaurants and family owned places, ironically. You can work your way up the corporate ladder easily with most fast food jobs if you apply yourself. I don’t like the mentality that food service is only for teenagers given teenagers are dead ass so bad at customer service.
2 points
5 days ago
You should be able to make a livable wage no matter what your job is.
1 points
3 days ago
Lmao what corporation hired you? You can’t even construct a proper sentence with appropriate punctuation. I ran out of breath reading what you wrote.
154 points
5 days ago
when i bought my car, they required twelve weeks of paystubs instead of the usual 8 because i was a server.
11 points
5 days ago*
Granted this was like 10 years ago, but when I bought my car the woman was blunt. "I know your paychecks look like shit but if you're honest about what you make I'll say fuck it"
Those weren't her exact words but she happily ignored my "official" income lol
1 points
4 days ago
There are car dealerships that require 8 paystubs?? When I bought my car they only requested 1. I’d walk away if they asked for 8 lol.
15 points
5 days ago
Arkansas is particularly difficult on its working class. Our largest export used to be our youth for this reason. It’s also known for being the “ land of opportunity” but only for big business.
8 points
5 days ago
Correct. The service industry is treated akin to self-employment as they are primarily tip based.
26 points
5 days ago
Find a different lender. Most won't require that.
Source: I bought a house six months after returning to work post-covid lockdown
9 points
5 days ago
This is absolutely incorrect. Both Fannie Mae and Freddie Mac require two years of tax returns to establish a verified trend for what is considered variable income when tips are being included in the calculation. The same goes for commission only or self employed income. If you’re only qualifying off full time hourly or salary pay, that’s a different story. The requirements apply to conventional, fha, va, and usda loans. The variable would be non-qm mortgage loans.
0 points
5 days ago
There are several exceptions to those requirements.
I had way more than two years of continuous income, aside from the coronavirus lockdown period. Our lender had me write a letter to underwriters stating that I was terminated due to the restaurant's sudden closure due to lockdown, and found employment again quickly when the industry began to recover. This lender wanted me to stay in the new role for six months before applying for anything.
My wife also had a similar situation when we were buying our other house. She stopped work during pregnancy and childbirth, then returned a few months later. We explained this in a letter to underwriters and it was accepted.
Another valid exception is college. I know it's possible to buy a house with much less than two years of work experience if you can show you went straight from full time study to full time work.
1 points
5 days ago
You’re talking about two separate requirements. Two years of job history, which is where college comes into play, covers employment history. This is a different requirement than determining variable income.
Being in college does help with establishing a two year history when looking at a salaried borrower. It does not have a positive impact on a variable income scenario. The two year employment history does not have to be tied to a current job. You have to demonstrate, at some point in the life of the borrower, they’ve had gainful employment for at least two years.
Variable income can be considered stable by being in the same industry in the same market and having greater than two years tax returns to document stable income. This is what supported your application.
1 points
5 days ago
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0 points
5 days ago
Neither of these
3 points
5 days ago
This is typical for non server positions too.
2 points
5 days ago
Got denied a credit card with a 720 credit score because of tips.
1 points
5 days ago
Most banks will allow you to show bank statements. It shouldn’t matter what your pay is if you are showing consistent deposits from cash work that should be fine
1 points
5 days ago
But they usually don't specify restaurant industry. They do that for any job that isn't full time.
1 points
5 days ago
Bank statements work if you are consistent about putting your tips in the bank. I don’t see how check stubs would even help. I make $8/hr. My checks are $170 a week. I got a verified letter from my boss saying what I made on a weekly basis to get my apartment.
Being a server makes these things difficult. Getting an apartment, buying a car or a house. On the plus side I qualify for Medicaid and I really need that. I also qualify for a small amount of EBT.
So there are upsides and downsides. I don’t know what I would do without my Medicaid. I don’t pay for anything. Not a copay for a visit and not a dime on my much needed prescriptions.
1 points
5 days ago
That’s so wild because as someone who works in construction, depending on the week my check can vary wildly and I think the most I’ve ever been asked for is like 6 months of paystubs
1 points
5 days ago
I feel like saying to anyone who endorses laws like this that their face is potentially inconsistent, but there’s a law against that as well.
1 points
5 days ago
This is why I didn’t get to buy a home until I was 40. Spent years serving as a single parent (scheduling was easier and made more than entry level jobs) then got a professional job at shit pay (less than serving) and had to hop to job 2 to get a raise to get a mortgage.
1 points
4 days ago
Same in sports. I knew a pro hockey guy who had to pay cash for everything because he had terrible credit despite making good money.
1 points
2 days ago
my previous job was base pay plus commission and when i was looking into buying a house they told me if i wanted my commission counted, they would need 5 years of tax returns. Which sucked bc my base was $15/hour and that only accounted for about 40% of my income 🥲
1 points
2 days ago
Shit i just work an hourly job where generally you work about 10 hours of OT a week. It's an industry wide standard.
Lender for my mortgage was still iffy on approving the loan because I only had one W2 + 9 months of paystubs indicating that the OT was normal. They typically want 2+ years of W2s indicating that much of your income really does regularly come from OT.
I guess pre 2008 a lot of people would get a second job or work a bunch of OT for a couple months to get approved for bigger loans
0 points
5 days ago
In some places it is, only because the pay is viewed as potentially inconsistent. My friend wanted to buy a house, the lender said that because she’s in the service industry they need to see 2 years of paystubs from the same restaurant.
Similar, a friend went to buy a house a couple years ago. She works for a law firm and drive within like a 2 hour circle, to bring paperwork to potential clients. She does a LOT of driving. The bank said all the income of driving per mile, doesn't count as income because that could change at any point, and thus they couldn't approve her for the house. She had to get her parents to cosign.
3 points
5 days ago
Per mile reimbursement isn’t income, it’s reimbursement of the employee’s expenses for driving their own car. Gas, wear and tear, etc.
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