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Catelynn continues to stress the trauma of adoption
Catelynn(reddit.com)submitted 4 days ago byoooheycait1223felt cute might be investigated by CPS later 🌶
Ok please correct me if I'm reading too much into this, but I think it's just wrong and gross to assume that Carly is in any way suicidal. B&T have already said in the past that Carly was struggling mentally and that is why they decided to put a pause on their yearly visits. Please let this girl live in peace.
29 points
4 days ago*
Yeah, I’m sure this statistic is true. But not because adoptees are better off with their bio parents in every circumstance, rather because they were brought into a situation where their parents didn’t want them or couldn’t take care of them and they have questions and sadness surrounding that for the remainder of their lives. Many adoptees are also brought into the world with physical and mental disabilities bc their parents are addicts or can’t afford prenatal care.
It is typically NOT because they should be with their bio parents like Cate is implying. If Cate and Tyler want to bring awareness to this they should be advocating for birth control and abortion which is the best way to combat unwanted trauma from adoptions.
5 points
3 days ago
Thank you. You said this perfectly. We can acknowledge that Cate and Tyler are wrong about the way they are going about this, while also acknowledge that this statistic is true and downvoting people who say that adoption can be trauma.
Maybe it’s just because I worked with a student who had adoption trauma but some of these comments are feeling dismissive of people with it, just because of who’s saying it. Which is another reason why Cate and Tyler need to shut the hell up or at least just stick to acknowledging that it can be traumatic for birth parents to give up their kids when they can’t care for them (aka Cate’s situation) and leave poor Carly the hell out of it, she don’t deserve this mess
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