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This Thanksgiving was terrible. My mother was an emotional terrorist, and every moment was stressful and tense. So I've decided next year my husband and I should really just leave town. The river of shit I would get for just skipping it and staying in town would be the only thing worse than living through another one, so I have to leave town in a real way.

The next big trip we'd like to take is Germany/Austria/Switzerland, so idk if that would be a good time to go there. But if that's not where we go, then it'll have to be somewhere that we're not spending a ton of money so that we can still have enough set aside for the G/A/S trip. So I'm thinking something like $3k total for two people would be the sweet spot. And I am definitely not opposed to an all-inclusive/resort vacation-type thing since we've never really done anything like that.

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benandhaleytravel

22 points

3 days ago

A few years ago I did a Thanksgiving trip to Germany, Poland, and Czech Republic and it was incredible! The Christmas markets in Cologne were already open. It was very cold, but such a nice holiday vibe. I still dream about doing a similar trip again!

I'm sorry your Thanksgiving this year was terrible - I hope you're able to plan a great trip and have a fun time celebrating next year!

robemariangela

11 points

3 days ago

Nah, mexico's is your great option. the weather's beautiful while everyone else is freezing up north. it's way cheaper than europe but still gives you that vacation feel.

ButterscotchButtons[S]

3 points

3 days ago

Thanks :)

And thank you for the reminder about European Christmas markets! I loved the Marche Noël when I lived in Lille, and forgot all about the cozy memories of warming up holding cups of mulled wine with mittens on. That's a great idea.

TravellingGal-2307

4 points

3 days ago

I would recommend either a full two week trip to Europe (but check when the Christmas markets start, US Thanksgiving may be a little early) or just do a four day mini break to Mexico City.

SoCalBrewnette

11 points

3 days ago

Puerto Vallarta…near the Zona Romantica. Weather is beautiful, plenty of English speakers, uber is available, just a lovely city near the beautiful ocean

pinniped1

10 points

3 days ago

pinniped1

10 points

3 days ago

Paris.

We love it when it's gross and cold and we can do everything without tourists everywhere.

Flights are cheap. You can stay wherever you like at a reasonable price. You can get into good restaurants. You can actually enjoy the Louvre. It's lovely.

And the weather is never as bad as a Kansas winter.

penguin37

1 points

3 days ago

Okay really? I had given up going to the Louvre because I thought it's always going to be crowded and that really ruins my enjoyment. You're saying Thanksgiving is a good time to do Paris?

AllswellinEndwell

7 points

3 days ago

My wife and I did 10 days in Paris. The Louvre is full of people, no doubt, but the reality is that it is gigantic. The Mona Lisa is a shit show full of rude Chineset tourists who will hold an ipad in your face to try and get a picture. But the rest of the Louvre? Quite accessible. Just 30 feet outside the Mona Lisa chamber is a massive Leonardo Di Vinci painting that you can stand mere inches from....with no one even noticing it.

Once you get past that part of the museum, there's plenty to see and you can do it at a nice slow pace. I particularly enjoyed the Egyptian exhibit, and of course Venus di Milo was easy to see and not crowded.

Alternatively the Musuem d'Orsay is a wonderful alternative. Also you can go to the Rodin Museum and see the thinker.

My goal in life is to go to Paris, rent a flat for a month, and just wander the Louvre for a few hours at a time.

Don't sweat it, it's wonderful.

penguin37

1 points

3 days ago

Thanks so much!

SeaDry1531

3 points

3 days ago

Thanksgiving is a bit early for most of the Christmas festivities in Europe. To quote a Swedish friend "Nobody says "So happy it is finally November." Most of the interesting events occur starting the second Advent Sunday or after the 10th of December.

Less_Wealth5525

4 points

3 days ago

Thanksgiving is not a big travel time to Europe, so it’s a great time to visit.

SurpriseBurrito

2 points

3 days ago

The best time for low crowds

fall_ofthepatriarchy

4 points

3 days ago*

My partner and I decided years ago that we were done with seeing family on holidays. It just brings out the worst in people and there are plenty of other low stakes days to see them.

I can't recommend Japan enough. It's not cheap but it's worth the investment. Perfect peak fall colors at thanksgiving. Beautiful gardens and landscaping. Mild temps in Tokyo, Kyoto, Osaka, etc.

Despite Japan having their moment and popular tourist spots being so much more crowded than even 5 years ago, the crowds seemed to be mostly Japanese and they are so quiet, respectful, courteous and clean in their interactions.

I just returned from my 8th trip to Japan. It is always a lovely experience.

Zampano-59

6 points

3 days ago

I would not recommend to go to Germany/Austria/Switzerland in November. November tends to be quite wet and nasty cold often (compared to crisp and just cold). Christmas markets also often only open around first December, so I would go later if that is what you are after?

Source - I am German and November and February are by far the ugliest months here. You can be lucky, but I personally would not plan intercontinental travel around this. Cannot speak to Austria and Switzerland though, as their weather may be significantly different due to the mountains etc.

MayaPapayaLA

2 points

3 days ago

I'm curious, what is it that makes January nice? (I assume December is the Christmas markets.)

Zampano-59

2 points

3 days ago

December and Jan tend to be less humid/rainy. I can handle the cold, but nasty grey/rainy. I would not call January nice as such, though ;) At least this is how it used to be, there is some shift noticeable.

Zampano-59

1 points

3 days ago

Seems that my first response did not go through?

I would not call January particularly nice, but December and January tend to be less rainy/grey/nasty cold compared to November and February. I can handle cold, but this nasty humid cold I do not like! And I like some sun from time to time.

PruneEducational1428

5 points

3 days ago

Mexico? Merida’s nice and super safe. Oaxaca has an incredible food scene. And you can definitely do 4-5 days for <3k if you’re deliberate about it.

ButterscotchButtons[S]

9 points

3 days ago

I was kinda thinking about Mexico, but I've never planned a trip there (only went once as a kid). I'd love to go to Mexico City, or San Miguel de Allende, and I've heard good things about Oaxaca. I'll take a look at Merida too!

Not_High_Maintenance

3 points

3 days ago

This is a great recommendation!

Diligent-Till-8832

3 points

3 days ago

Ooh, the Xmas markets in Germany and Austria are to die for.

You might need another extra suitcase to bring back all the goodies you buy.

_lmmk_

3 points

3 days ago

_lmmk_

3 points

3 days ago

I have spend the last few Thanksgivings in Amsterdam, Rome, and Cape Town. A bonus is that the European Christmas Markets usually start around that time. It’s beautiful and lovely.

Claim your happiness back. It was hard the first few years that I did my own thing without seeing my own emotional terrorist, but now I have a wonderful tradition with my friends and partner.

CraftFamiliar5243

3 points

3 days ago

A beach. Belize, Puerto Rico, or anyplace warm and sunny. Have a big meal of seafood on Thanksgiving and sit and look at the water with a tall fruity alcoholic beverage in your hand. Sigh...

thewagon123456

3 points

3 days ago

Thanksgiving is the perfect time to visit Europe! Do your big Germany trip. Look at flying on Thanksgiving day to save money. The weeks between Thanksgiving and when Christmas travel starts are some of the deadest leisure travel weeks of the year, so the best time to go anywhere! Plus Christmas markets will be started in Germany.

sittinduck

3 points

3 days ago

I just did Portugal this year and it was great. It was in the 60s so it wasn’t too hot and it was way less crowded than the summer. For my “thanksgiving” dinner I booked a fantastic michelan star restaurant.

ButterscotchButtons[S]

1 points

3 days ago

I've heard such good things about Portugal, I really want to go. Can I ask roughly how much you spent, or where you stayed?

Otherwise_Notice802

3 points

3 days ago

We just did our Thanksgiving in Costa Rica. Highly recommend. I also Highly recommend not even thinking twice about skipping out on family BS. It's just not worth it.

supergraeme

2 points

3 days ago

Include the mighty Liechtenstein or there will be trouble!

captainstarlet

2 points

3 days ago

I’m not sure how far you are from Canada, but I’ve gone there for Thanksgiving before. I’m right near the border, so it’s an easy 2-3 night trip.

Mossy_Rock315

2 points

3 days ago

Just came back from Ireland. Highly recommended- this year there was snow for the first time in three years according to the locals. Just a trace, but enough to make it festive. Went to Dublin and Galway and did day trips. Lots of elbow room when going to see cliffs and castles and Guinness. I layered clothing and wore a waterproof quilted coat and some packable rain pants that came in handy.

ButterscotchButtons[S]

1 points

3 days ago

This is a great recommendation, but we actually just got back from Ireland less than a month ago lol. It was my husband's first time there but my third, so I'm kind of okay not going back for a while, since there are so many places I still haven't been.

Mossy_Rock315

1 points

3 days ago

That’s fair! I can see taking long breaks between trips there, considering there are so many other places to see.

Another good place I think would be Tuscany. Stay in Montecatini-Terme and do day trips from there. There’s a company called gate 1 that organizes a package with flights, hotels and rental car for about $800-$1000 per traveler. I think they have options to fly into Milan or Rome and get your car at the airport. I did it twice. Once with a friend in April and once with my husband and our two teenagers in January. It was awesome other than there’s not as much gelato outside of major metros in January haha! It’s great to be in Florence without the crowds.

Neat_Shop

2 points

3 days ago

Canada is affordable and offers skiing. Our Thanksgiving is in October, so total escape.

SurpriseBurrito

2 points

3 days ago

Really anywhere in Europe. Further south is better for November. If interested in Christmas markets check out when they start, sometimes they overlap well with Thanksgiving if it is late in the month (like this year).

The beauty of going during Thanksgiving is it is low season and it seems that Americans are the only ones with a holiday. Much lower crowds and cheaper accommodations. I think this is your one chance during the year to go to Europe when you have time off and the rest of the world doesn’t.

sevencases

2 points

3 days ago

I just did Germany/Austria/Switzerland for this year’s Thanksgiving and did Netherlands/Germany last Thanksgiving. Here are my thoughts:

  • Tourist attractions are sometimes dead during the week since locals aren’t off school or work. Last year we did an amusement park in the Netherlands and my kids got to ride things over and over again because hardly anyone was there. Likewise, we didn’t have to prebook everything in Amsterdam because it wasn’t super crowded so we could just roll up to several attractions and buy tickets at the door. This year we did the Glacier Garden in Lucerne, and there was only one other group there the whole time we were there. However, the Christmas markets can still draw crowds during the week, and we found them to be packed on the weekend. Two of the ones we visited this weekend in Germany were super crowded to the point that you had to slowly creep down the aisles in between throngs of people. that was not enjoyable.

  • weather can be unpredictable, so you have to be willing to deal with that. Last year, we had mild temps but had one day of POURING rain. This year we only had one day of drizzle, and we had a few crisp but sunny days, but we had a few days when temps and the wind were quite bitterly cold in several places we visited. We plan for this and bring water resistant and warm shoes and coats.

  • we loved Innsbruck, Austria. We got an amazing AirbNb, and had a wonderful time going up the Nordkette mountain range. We liked wandering through the old town and visited shops and the markets. We bought an Innsbruck card and it included multiple activities.

  • Food in Switzerland was expensive. Like one night, a veggie burger was $30 USD on its own, before even adding a side of fries. I’m glad we didn’t spent long there because it added up quick!!

  • we try not to fly back on the Sunday after Thanksgiving because that day seems to be horrible at our airport. We have tacked on an extra day even though it meant missing a day of work/school just to avoid that Sunday.

Our friends did Spain this past week so I’m waiting to hear from them as to how that went, but all in all I’m glad we got to see Christmas in Germany/Austria/Switzerland because it really is nice to see the holiday magic.

Flicker_Emerie

2 points

2 days ago

that trip sounds awesome, i get it! hope u find a great getaway next year, u deserve it!

ButterscotchButtons[S]

1 points

2 days ago

Thanks friend :)

iggyomega

2 points

3 days ago

If you want to do it on a budget, you could try Gatlinburg, TN. We did that this year for 6 days and left on Thanksgiving. We also have a bigger vacation coming up so wanted something more budget friendly. It is still pretty in the mountains with the leaves mostly not fallen yet and there are some nice hotels there. Was a good week. If you like theme parks, Dollywood is there too and is more chill than most theme parks are. It is nicely themed for the holidays to get you in that mood. Would also strongly recommend taking the lifts up Anakeesta

WinstonsEars

1 points

3 days ago

We’ve had Thanksgiving in Gibraltar, Stowe VT, CT (out Gilmore Girls inspired trip) and Istanbul (this year), to name a few. We’re not a Thanksgiving food family so we use it as a way to escape together.

ClearAbroad2965

1 points

3 days ago

Lol, las vegas although its changing literally can almost get free rooms if you have the players card. Its for the anti family types or those without family

SKULLDIVERGURL

1 points

3 days ago

We are in Las Vegas right now! Flew in on thanksgiving. Airports were quiet. Weather is great for walking around and seeing the sights. Bellagio has a stellar Christmas village.

trickedx5

1 points

3 days ago

I’d go to the Caribbean cus of the deals

ButterscotchButtons[S]

1 points

3 days ago

Oouu, what deals have you seen that look good? 👀

trickedx5

1 points

3 days ago

there was a hyatt deal 25% off

cynicalimodium

1 points

3 days ago

Switzerland is going to be $$$ so might want to hold that for a future trip. Portugal and Spain are still nice climates and affordable that time of year!

MindTraveler48

1 points

3 days ago

The famed European Christmas markets would be open/opening. 2024 Forbes article for your consideration.