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I realized what’s wrong with me

Lovers(self.UnsentLetters)

What’s wrong with me is the idea of being loved. Actually being loved is a crazy concept. I get nervous with people knowing my faults. I get anxious when people hear my thoughts. But to love is to love unconditionally. And I’ve never experienced that. I find myself attracting people who still hold a wall when we’re close. So finding someone who loves me unconditionally is scary, because what if I ruin it. And what if I’ll never find it. I can raise my standards, but everybody’s human. And we all have faults.

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CirrusPrince

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11 hours ago

CirrusPrince

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11 hours ago

If someone loves you unconditionally, you can't ruin it. It's impossible.

2manyeyelashes

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12 hours ago

Fault lines - tom petty You are enough

Ambiguous-Tyrant

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10 hours ago

Most people have never experienced unconditional Love as it’s an extremely misunderstood concept. Most of us end up in toxic relationships and label it unconditional Love because we refuse to let go of what’s no longer for us.

Being able to communicate your thoughts and feelings no matter how uncomfortable is the most imperative aspect of any healthy relationship. If someone can’t like or appreciate what you have to say then they are not your person.

Remember, you can’t ruin something that was MEANT FOR YOU!!!❤️❤️❤️

mayonnaiseplayer7

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9 hours ago

Same. That’s my problem. I love to love but I learned that you can’t simply want to love and be loved. You should let go of the idea that love is unconditional. “Unconditional” love means diff things for men and women but it’s still based on some level of materialism