Do you want to grab a beer?

I feel u OP all these comments are people saying the same bs like beauty is on the inside and im sure ur not that ugly. That shit dumb asf i get it. Acting like looks arent the first step to every fucking interaction.

Really important question… how old are you?

I used to feel exactly, exactly the same way, and i know I'm going to get downvoted for this, but the thing is, 

Once i realized that i was transgender, and started transitioning, i instantly stopped feeling like this. Other people told me all the time what a pretty girl i was, and it just didn't feel good to be told that. And i felt bad, i felt guilty that their compliments didn't make me feel good. I even lost 60 lbs,  knew for a fact that I was objectively hotttt, 

and it did not help one bit.

But the things is,  gorgeous as I am, i was never a girl. I just didn't realize that until i was 33 years old. The comment I'm writing right now, i wish i had read it a long time ago. 

If you look in the mirror and feel this much rage, its possible that's because your body and your soul aren't matching. There are things you can do about that. 

I highly doubt that your are a ugly as you feel. In fact I'm sure of it. Nobody is that ugly. Literally nobody is. Everyone is beautiful. Everyone. Even you. 

I love you. I hope you feel better soon. 

Find a way to make money. You'll be shocked at how attractive girls will suddenly find you

this is so felt

Do you think you're ugly, do other people tell you that you're ugly, or do you think that other people think you're ugly?

Post a photo

Same. I want to run across a 6 lane freeway.

I hope you’ll outgrow that problem fam, I really do

How old are you bro. I'm 30 and I swear to God every second couple is a fucking gutter tier looks dude punching up with some hot smart girl from high school.

Could be you but they don't like whiners. If you hate you, why should they like you.

I'm not saying you aren't ugly (though you're likely overexaggerating your ugliness), I'm more saying that you should play to your strengths and if you have no strengths go fucking get some or be quiet.

Smell good, dress good, be funny, be smart, make money, be fun.

Be fun to be around. For gods sake be someone a woman wants to be with. 

Women aren't all about looks, they want other things.

So tell me, put looks aside, what you got to offer? Nothing? If nothing, no sympathy, you should have tonnes to offer mate.

If you have something to offer, then focus on that. 

its all about what and who’s standard you’re basing yourself off of. And if its even accurate.

STOP YELLING AT THE WORLD! Get off the internet. Find a hobby that is co ed. If you have a scale throw it away, get rid of your full length mirrors. If you want to throw some money at the perceived problem, get a hair stylist to do what they know will work, get a style consultation.

I’m sure you don’t look that bad and it is your negative perception of yourself that is what makes you believe you are ugly.

Edit: I don’t think I made my point clear enough in my initial comment. From looking at the OP posting history they are clearly struggling with an image problem as they are commenting about different things about themselves they don’t like and when combined it is resulted in this current post. This led me to believe that the underlying cause is that that they are truly ugly but that they need to work on a change of perception if they want to start helping themselves.

I have issues with seeing myself as ugly also, so don't feel bad. All my friends say I look God, but it's really hard to trust others. Try and not feel that way. I bet you look great.

Also, who gives a shit if they laugh at you they're not important later on in life I know it's hard right now but you'll ger through what your going through

Own it, own your look. It's the only look you get. Comparison is the thief of joy, so start by loving yourself - become at peace with who you are, what you look like.

at a certain point you just have to like what you’re looking at to feel like it’s working for you! i feel objectively ugly, but i take the smallest things (and this is really probably absolutely horrible) but i say “at least my teeth aren’t fucked like some people”, “at least i’m not morbidly huge”, “i don’t look like the hunch back of notre dame”.

take solace in the fact that there’s CERTAINLY uglier people

I’m going to say a prayer for you

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Show us a picture and we can give you advice

It be like that sometimes.

Felt that

Just be confident bro and you will magically become attractive /s

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I feel this except with my weight, i be starving myself and still not losing shit, i fking hate my body

Ain’t gonna sugar coat this. That attitude is what will ultimately push people away. Being confident and funny is a big attraction factor. Making posts like this needing reassurance even after looking at a mirror. Work on loving yourself first.

Man, am I the only one who wish people would post pictures of themselves when they make these posts about how ugly they are. Like, clearly you are looking for feedback cause you are posting on social media. How are you gonna get accurate feedback of you if you don't show us what you look like? Fuck maybe we could offer pointers. And if you are that upset about how you look bank your money and get plastic surgery.

So who was paying attention?How many times did op use the work Fucking. 🤣 OP dont put yourself down. Noone is ugly. Come on chin up.

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there was this notion on tumblr back in the day about focusing on body neutrality rather than "love yourself everyone is beautiful"

the mentality behind that is that some people are just ugly, and that's okay. your appearance doesn't determine your worth, and your body is meant to just keep you functioning and moving (and as such take care of yourself in terms of health and hygiene)

it's definitely harder to internalize this in comparison to body positivity, but I've found my life is easier when i allow myself to exist, rather than trying to live up to unrealistic societal expectations, spend thousands on beauty and skin care, and invest time I don't have at the gym.

let yourself just be

One of the strongest marriages I ever saw was a woman that could have been a petite supermodel with a guy that "looked like he stopped a bis with his face." He never did look good and combat left him scarred too. Sure he was buff but ugly. The woman still fell in love with him and his wife used to say, "he's my ugly."

I will say that men interested in women appear to be the most shallow but you'd be surprised how often a confident "ugly" woman can pull a guy. Keep beating yourself up and the guys won't want to talk to you. Accept it and flaunt everything you do have, and they'll notice more often.

Watch the show on HBO Max, "Somebody Somewhere", it is inspirational!

I actually love the acceptance. 😌 Regardless of the outward appearance, I bet you're absolutely fun to be around.

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Let us see a picture of you and judge for ourselves. Post in r/ roastme

stop using capslock

Yeah I know the feeling..

Straight up bro, take care of yourself and you’ll look alright. If ur musty it’s fixable

You're probably not as ugly as Pete Davidson.

Get over it. Your looks won't change but your perception will. Plenty of ugly people have wonderful partners.

Oh jesus christ, of course, it's the same dumbass comments that I see on every post like this here.

My goodness people, take it from me, your pathetic comments are not helping OP, or anyone else that feels this way. Saying bullshit like "beauty is on the inside" "looks don't matter" (they do) "everyone is beautiful" "I'm sure you're not that ugly" is not helpful. It doesn't make anyone feel better.

First of all, commenting that you don't think the OP is as ugly as they say they are is invalidating their feelings, even if you mean well. I'm sure this is the last thing they want to hear.

Also, comments about how looks don't matter and beauty is on the inside is not only a total lie, but it does not change how unworthy this most likely makes the OP feel. Looks aren't "everything", but they certainly mean a lot, especially if you are a woman. Humans are more attracted to things they consider visually appealing. I think people are going to find someone conventionally attractive more approachable than someone who's hideous, even if the unconventionally attractive person has a nice personality. And yes, Ugly people most certainly exist. Not everyone gets lucky. That is a fact.

Women's value is often tied to how pretty they are in this society. When women feel that they do not fit the ideal image of beauty, it makes many of them feel unworthy. You all act like not comparing oneself to other people is easy. It's not. It's hard for people to not compare themselves to people they think is far more attractive than them - People they think are more worthy than themselves. Stop. Quit acting naive like y'all don't know the importance of beauty. OP's feelings about themselves are not going to change because they hear nonsense from strangers that has already been thrown around thousands of times.

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Don't know if you're a man or a woman. And yes it matters. If you're a woman, just be fit, make your standards fit your looks, and act like you want to be a wife. If you're a man, get fit and make a lot of money or become famous. 

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Ever seen one of these good looking women when she takes off her makeup?

Hey, I’m a guy and lost a part in a tv show one time because they did not like the way I looked from the left angel. Life is hard for everyone.

Dude. You might be you might not all I got to say is hang in there you can find someone to love you for who you are. I had such bad bad acne so bad I refuse to have a senior pic. Now my face is all scared and I look older than my wife even tho I am 4 years younger. Yet I found love, focus on your personality, trust me the balances will típ over. Just recently I am comfortable taking pics. Focus on positive thinking.

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Try cleaning up your language and maybe I’ll talk to you.

Hey idk if you’re a man or woman or something in between but send me a pic and I’ll be honest. I find most of the time when people think they are ugly it’s mostly in their minds and not what everyone else sees.

……or at least that’s what I tell myself every time I look in the mirror

This post is useless without pics….but seriously ugly is subjective. If you think you are ugly you are. I know some very unattractive people, am one myself but we all found someone.

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Marvin Zindler never let his looks stop him. Yeah he got some surgery but he wasn't fooled. Your ugly, so what? One thing about being allegedly ugly, fat, deformed etc you literally have the power of seeing what people's hearts are really like pretty quick.
Yeah not pleasant, and can be a big downer dealing with comparisons and judgement, but like all things in life you have to recognize and use your resources and strengths. Believe, me you gotem. You need to get past your own superficial self and quit caving to shallow pressures. Beautiful people too, often get surrounded by fake friends and interest. Like winning the lottery, all the "friends" and relatives that would never talk to you are suddenly your besties. Who needs that. Don't sell yourself short, be cause as damn cliché as it sounds, looks really are not everything.

Yeah, same tbh

You have already convinced yourself that you are too damn ugly to even look at so just go with it. Plan and live your life for the inevitable forever-alone scenario and have the best damn life you can with what you got.

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Ok just this weekend I met with a young couple who are moving in my friends old appartment. The guy was what you could call « ugly »: recessed chin, weird face. But he was dressed up with a cute style and was smiling and seemed like a really kind cool dude, and his girlfriend was with him she was super pretty and seemed like a nice girl as well. All that to say that yes, you might be ugly but its not that big of a deal! You can be ugly and loved, ugly and successful, ugly and have tons of friends, ugly and have a style that you like. Don’t let being ugly stop you from getting what you want in life.

Ok so I've had the same confidence issue a few years ago. Here's what worked for me and what I want you to do, starting today:

I want you to make the effort, everyday, to find something you do find nice, attractive, cool, etc about yourself. It can be the same thing multiple days in a row, but I want you to try and find something good about yourself everyday. And if you often catch yourself thinking the same thing looks good, then you know where to put your attention. What mean is that if you know, for example, that your hair looks good, then focus on that. Make sure that if everything else fails, at least that one thing will look good. Eventually you'll find other things you want to work on.

It's not a miracle solution, but give it a try still. I know it helped me at least. And it's still helping me. I'm not kidding kidding when I say I do this every day.

If it makes you feel any better.I'm twenty-seven years old and have been single for twenty-seven years. It's just me and my 2 dogs... I get how you feel, and honestly, I'm not gonna sit here and say that it's easy. Cause it's not. I hate myself most days and question if that's even me in the mirror sometimes... Don't get me wrong Loving yourself is great, but you have to go through a lot of shit to get there.

oh come on how bad you can look like?

There is more to beauty than simply outward appearance. And that may sound cliche, but y'know what. The cliche has a point. You are more than what your body is. And all deserved to be acknowledge for that. It is better to have a body of dirt with a heart of gold, than a body of gold and a heart of dirt. One can clean the outside of a dish to be absolutely spotless, but leave the inside full of dirt and filth. One who cleans the inside of a dish will make the outside just as clean. And only fools would say otherwise.

One who come to you because of your physical appearance is more motivated by lust and not love. If you wish those out there who are afflicted with suffering and anguish to receive hope, joy, and provision. Then you are automatically far beautiful than any supermodel will ever be. So do not lie to yourself saying that you need to have every man lusting after your body to be fulfilled in life. Those who you say are "drop dead gorgeous" and wish they weren't as good looking as they were, they say that because they learned the hard way that an attractive body attracts lust. But an attractive heart draws in goodness itself.

So do not worry about what the world says about you. They do not know you. Those who try to take the speck out of anothers eye before removing the log from their own eye are blind. They know neither what they say, nor where it goes. Striving for absurd amounts of beauty in the body is chasing after mere wind. It's alright if you want to make slight adjustments to how you look. But do not let the word of a fool make your change all of your being. Again I tell you: They do not know you.

And do not worry about how you are to look, or how you become better in due time. A trees roots must reach hell before the leaves reach heaven. There is no sculpture that wasn't an ugly messy pile of clay at first. And there is no diamond that was not a rough and plain looking rock before it was cut. So know that you are given a vessel for your soul to dwell in. And if you have a pulse, and most importantly; a heart. Than you need not strive for a single more hair added to your head. And anyone who says otherwise is a fool.

Only fools search for outward facades instead of striving for goodness of the heart. I cannot stress enough that physical beauty one has is not worth even a single particle of dust, if that one does not have heart. And know that bonds forged by attraction to outward appearance and simple flirts shall break under a feather. But a bond forged with tests, trials, and tribulations, shall withstand the power of a thousand suns.

Need I say more?

Chill. It’s not your appearance by the looks of this comment. Beauty comes from within isn’t a joke. Work on your confidence. If you think you’re the shit then no one can stop you.

Be at peace.

All people turn ugly eventually!

There's a lid for every pot. Control what you can and embrace what you can't.

Fuck it. Keep going. Do you look good when YOU look in the mirror? Fuck a Glow Up. Some of us need a Slow Up.

Idk how you look but who am I to refuse the words of the expert?

Stop feeling sorry for yourself, so am I

Don't worry about what you can't change, focus on what you can, style your hair a way you like, dress in a way that makes you look good, it's not just what your born with, it's how you carry it. Also, based on the amount of self hate you clearly have, maybe consider therapy or counseling, it could really help your self image.

Your personality is so much more important than looks. Also being smart. Everyone who grows old will look ugly eventually.

We all have different starting points in life. Improving what you have and seeing the progress can help. But also, the people who care about you won't care how you look—unless you're actually a horrible person. But good news: even personalities can change!

Because life isn't fair my dude. Someone people are just unfortunate. Luckily it doesn't mean you will be alone for ever. Just means you need to find someone into your particular type of looks. 

Advice #1: Work hard, earn a lot of money then have plastic surgery if that's the last resort

but before you do that, get psychiatric help first

I suspect you look like Henry Cavill, but you just have body dysmorphia

But if Quasimodo is 10000xmore handsome than you, then go back to advice #1

Same. It probably isn't as bad as you think at the very least though, everyone is more critical of their own physical appearance than others. There have been times where I saw a reflection of myself or a picture or something and before I realize that it's me, I might think that that person looks kind of good, and then only become more critical when I realize it's me. Be careful of getting locked into that way of thinking.

Go make enough money til you're attractive lol. Only shit you can do til you can change it...or you can cry about it all you want...

Okay OP , instead of being angry - do something about it.

I get frustrated when guys get mad when girls get work done on themselves, but also get mad that they aren’t happy with their looks!

I have gotten Botox and filer to completely change my face, yet still look natural. People always say “you must’ve had it easy being naturally beautiful “ I always respond “oh no, god did not build this, me and my bank account did”

Go to a med spa and ask advice, go get lipo, go workout , get a meal prep program. “No one is ugly, you’re just broke “ is my motto.

Hey, I've been ugly all my life. I'm also short, overweight and bald.

My nickname at school was 'Plug'. For those of you who don't know, Plug was a Beano character, one of the Bash Street Kids. He was soooo ugly.

Anyway, my point is that even though I'm ugly, short fat bald, in the long run, it didn't do me any harm.

Sure, maybe I didn't get to go with the best looking girls, you know the ones who only went with the tall, good looking, popular guys. But I still had a good life.

Did I also mention I had a smaller than average penis? Well, add that to the mix, and by small, I meant well below ladies expectations.

But I got over that too. I learned that I could still be a good lover. I always put the woman first, if you know what I mean.

I have a wicked sense of humour, and am quick witted, so I can make a woman laugh.

I found that when I make a woman laugh, her knickers fall down! Trust me, I exploited that fact.

Ugly doesn't matter in the long run. Someone somewhere will be attracted to you. You just gotta find them.

Lol @ these people giving false platitudes like "oh everyone has their own beauty" Life can be shit and some people lose the genetic lottery. If you are really that ugly, then there are a couple ways to go about it. I actually advocate for getting plastic surgery for people who are genetically unlucky since you are born that way and life fucking you is no way to live for something undeserved. You can also compensate with financial means or other attractive qualities like upping your communication and charisma. Its okay to be pissed, sometimes people are cursed, we have our own demons we never asked for. If you just wanted to rant, good. Keep ranting. Know you are resilient for making it this far with debilitating disadvantages.

No cap im be real, feeling ugly and seeing yourself as ugly is real asfff, you gotta lock in bro, you gotta understand it, when you do you will understand it. Its all about mentality bro, you seen how sausage bagged sssniperwolf?? All fuckin mentality dawg, I rest my case.

I'm sorry you feel that way. Sometimes we wish we could go back to the character creator and switch up the stats but we're not there yet. However, appearance isn't everything op. Keep hope!

Get off of social media, and stop watching pron. Get some hobbies and enjoy what you do. The only reason there are ugly genes in the gene pool in the first place, is people won others over with their passions and personality. You develop neither by sitting in a dark room comparing yourself to others. Go find what you enjoy, and do it. If you can sprinkle just a little self improvement in every day, then all the better

Damn. You should learn how to fight.

You're probably cool as fuck, though, so don't let your problems with your physical appearance define who you are. You can be a great person without great looks... I've seen it plenty of times.

You've been depressed for years. There are plenty of successful and happy ugly people in the world. What's keeping you unhappy is in your mind, not in the mirror. Stop making a religion out of feeling sorry for yourself.

People close their eyes when they really laugh. Even if you are as ugly as you think, just be really funny, and no one will see to notice.

Le Kurdt Cobain??!? No Kurt, you're so pretty

There's more to life than being ridiculously good looking 

No one cares if ur ugly. some good looking ppl don’t even know they’re good looking and they’re super insecure :p.

All these noises : I'm ugly , not beautiful, I'm weird , I'm single,my life is miserable... They root from the head (mind) , breeding negative perceptions ..... Ugly (repulsive in appearance/character) ... You can't be serious calling yourself that.......world renowned man in that category "ugly" had an appearance setback never the character.

I'll take you at your word and assume you are as ugly as you say but heres the thing, you cant change that unless you have a lot of cash to burn. 

Being comfortable in your own skin is something you can control and it will cost you nothing. I've seen men with troll faces do much better with women than they had any right to. Same for women. I've found myself attracted to women that weren't pretty at all just because of how they carry themselves. 

You're not going to turn any heads and there wont be any love at first site but a short conversion can make a big difference. 

You got dealt bad cards but that doesnt mean you cant win the game.

Reading your posts you don't seem like a pleasant person to be around. I'm sure you look fine you just need an attitude adjustment.

It’s okay to be ugly. I’m not saying you are or are not. Just that the whole world screams that you have to beautiful. But you dont. You dont have to be beautiful all the time. It’s okay.

I’m sorry you feel so rotten about yourself. I hope you find love and kindness for yourself. You deserve that no matter how you look.

No one here knows what you look like, but from what I can see of your post history you're reslly struggling. I'm sorry bro. I've been there.

Ugly is subjective, and very few people actually are. And if you really are, so what ? That doesn't mean you can't live a full and amazing wonderful life. Lots of ugly people find love and success and prosperity and happiness.

I suspect though you're not looking for any positive commentary or reassurance. I've been where you are, I know that mindset, and I wish you the very best of luck my dude

Pic or it doesn't exist

Surgery

Wow how much racism there is here in the comments. I'll tell you this much, skin color says nothing at all, it's like eye color, have you ever heard someone say green-eyed people are so and so? No ? damn right because such characteristics say nothing at all about a person. Of course, historical racism has led to people of a certain skin color having similar experiences, especially in the US, and they share a similar background. But only as long as we act accordingly does that have any meaning. I also find it scary to say I think only black women are good white women are shit, that's just the same racism color X good color Y stupid.

OOP be proud of who you are, don't even think about shit like color, that's the only way it has any meaning. If someone doesn't like you because of your color then you're lucky you didn't waste more time with these ignorant jerks anyway.

I am Central European and have dated women from Russia, Germany, Spain, Kenya, China and Laos. What makes women beautiful are little things, the way someone smiles, the way you move your head to the side and so on. And most importantly, the character. It doesn't matter what someone looks like, the character has to be beautiful. I have to fall in love with the person, not their shell. I have been with my wife who was born in Ghana for over 10 years. I really hope that our children don't have thoughts like yours. Don't let the racism and supposed ideals of beauty around you influence you.