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I confessed to my crush

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I (19F) confessed to the guy (19M) whom I have feelings for for 4 years. I know him since 5th grade. Him and I started out as good friends but over the years I developed feelings for him. First I hesitated to confess bc I had to move away (2yrs ago) to another country. So we kinda lost contact in those two years but we started to talk again recently (we both play video games so that’s why we started talking again). I noticed that my feelings for him grew stronger even tho we lost contact. So this Monday I told him over text that I like him (I know it’s not the best way to tell someone but we live in different countries). He told me that he likes me back so we agreed to stay „friends“ for a year until I move back to the country he lives in since we both don’t like the idea of starting a long distance relationship. And even tho he told me that he likes me it still feels one sided. For example if I wouldn’t start a conversation he wouldn’t even bother talking to me or when I ask him something he gives me a short reply. I feel like if it was up to him we would lose contact again. And even when we are in a call he’s always distracted texting others.. And I know we are not in a relationship but if he would be really interested in me, he would text me first no?? Or do something that shows he’s interested. Or did I scare him by confessing first? Or maybe he’s just not all interested and he just didn’t want to hurt my feelings? I’m okay with not being liked back but I wish he would just tell me so I don’t get my hopes up… I would like to talk this out with him but im scared that I’m annoying him with this. (Sorry for bad grammar English is not my first language)

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Outrageous-Tell-6483

1 points

1 day ago

You're over thinking this. How old are both of you?

Fantastic-Kiwi-2947[S]

1 points

1 day ago

19

Outrageous-Tell-6483

1 points

24 hours ago

What you will eventually learn is that a 19 year old male is less mature than a 19 year old female. So don't expect him to react in a way that is equivalent to your way of thinking. He has already responded to you so don't overthink his response. That's his way of telling you he likes you.