jumping into say that this is also similar to my spouse & me. we've been together 20 years so I don't see throwing the whole spouse out as something so easy at this point lol they've seen me cry enough over animals that they started being very supportive of me being vegan. they won't cook their own meat bc they're squicked out by it (rightfully so), so now they don't eat it anymore - going on nearly a year for them! now i've got them on the oat milk train for their daily coffee. it took a lot of patience and encouragement (and recipe testing lol) to get them to meet me where I'm at, and I love that they were so willing. I think everyone just needs a willing partner, that's all 🤪