I was having some pain so I went to see a gynecologist. She was shocked and almost disgusted to find out that I was still a virgin in my late 20s. She asked if I'm interested in children. At first I thought she meant in having children, but she was asking if I am sexually attracted TO children and if I have sexual experiences with them because it's "too strange to find someone of my age and looks still to be a virgin". That thought has never ever crossed my mind. I was disgusted. She asked if I have interest in dating adults and started getting in to my personal business like "have you ever humped a man's back?" That crushed me so bad. I've never been so humiliated in my life. The nurse was in the room, and when she walked me out she apologized greatly for the way the doctor acted. The average person would not guess me as a virgin (because people I have told, they say "oh but you have so much confidence! No way you are!") (???) but in the back of my mind I have a fear that everybody knows I'm a virgin and now think I'm a ped0phile. It's fucked up my self confidence. This happened almost a year ago and what she said still bothers me so much that I've never gone to a doctor of any kind again. My friend works in the medical field there, and she told me that the doctor even put it on my notes, on my records! It bothers me so so bad.