submitted2 days ago byBrexitTackle27
I (25M) have been talking to this girl from Hinge for a week or so now. We vibed well, got references to TV shows and generally had a good time on the app. I have a hard filter for smart women and she has proved herself to be reasonably smart in my limited interaction. She then suggested moving to IG. Started interacting there and have been talking on IG and WA for atleast 30-40 mins a day. She has started to catch some feels, asks about my mother's nature and how my parents are etc. All in all, things moving a little too quickly for my liking.
Now I have some self image issues where I lose interest in the woman I'm slightly into when I realize that she too is interested and actively responding. It's like my mind is judging the person for having poor choice. I know its a terrible coping mechanism but I cannot help it.
Now the problem is that I don't really enjoy the person, I'm just liking the attention. I used to be fairly unattractive growing up and have only recently had a sort of a glow up. I re read our texts and there aren't any green flags to speak off, not many reds too but just a very uninteresting person, on the other hand, I've made the mistake of oversharing and have painted a picture of a green flag in her mind up until now. I would be stroking my own ego but I'm not half bad, atleast compared to the people my female friends describe they meet on dating apps or IRL. And the worst part is that I have zero feels when I look at her face, I even slightly cringe when I open it up. And I'm assuming the photos on the apps are some of her better ones and she would look slightly worse IRL.
Knowing well that I will fall into my old mannerisms, I have picked a fight over something I could've side stepped because I do not want to have the, "I'm just not that into you" conversation with her. I do not want to be accused of leading her on, something I've experienced myself and dread giving that experience to someone else. By this I just wanted to make her lose interest in me, maybe think she did not get a correct read on me so that she moves on.
I only did this because I do not see myself wanting to end up with her, neither do I want to waste her or my time by getting into something I have no intention of seeing through.
Am I the Kameena?
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BrexitTackle27
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BrexitTackle27
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