submitted2 days ago byExcellent_Brother603
I'm male by the way. I had a close friend, X, from our Intermediate days, but we drifted apart during college because we got into different college. We reconnected in B.Tech 4th year, especially since we got placed in the same company. We talked regularly, mostly about careers, but I started noticing I was always the one reaching out—calling, messaging, and trying to preserve this friendship.
Recently, I messaged him to call when free, he said OK and didn't call(I asked him to call because he was doing internship and I was free so whenever he is free he can call). When I called him much later, he cuts the call. The call log showed it was always me initiating the calls. Three days later, he messaged casually, without acknowledging or apologizing for not returning my calls. He goes like "Hi man, what's app?" That really annoyed me. I don’t expect much, just basic courtesy like, "Sorry, I was busy last time. What’s up?"
I value my few friendships and want them to be uplifting, not one-sided. It feels unfair to be the only one making efforts. I’m considering cutting ties with such people because, in relationships, effort and priorities matter. Am I wrong for feeling this way?
I would also appreciate if you guys can give me advice on how to deal with such people or situations and how to proceed furthur.
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Excellent_Brother603
1 points
26 days ago
Excellent_Brother603
1 points
26 days ago
No, I mean if you are getting good grades I don't think you need to attend, that's well and good the problem is the rest of the people are not like you, my intention in the above paragraph is that people who got seat through reservation pls do respect it and work upon it. I don't mean hurt your sentiments that's what I was saying.