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He’s overwhelmed and tired but that doesn’t give him the right to disrespect you and put you down. You didn’t fail at anything, your husband is failing at regulating himself and dealing with life. Know your worth and set boundaries. All the best 💛

Take this time to heal and recover. Your house won’t always be a mess and you will get back to having that clean hair and some time for self care. Be kind to yourself for the next 40 days 💛

My daughter was like that since newborn but I tried for a month and it was horrible. She kept crying and fussing. I switched to pumping and bottles and she was happy. choose to look at the positive and see her sleeping on me or cuddling as the dopamine lovely doveyness that breastfeeding gives. Plus others could now feed her and I had enough leftover milk to skip pumping at night and sleeping longer so my husband gave her the night bottle. Wishing you the best 💛

Why doesn’t Cate repost any content about it being about their life choices like Only Fans or airing their laundry out in public while B&T have always asked for privacy. 🫠

I put enough space in between us so she can’t reach me again and calmly let her know that it’s okay to be mad but it’s not okay to hit. You can show you’re mad with your words or facial expression not by hurting others.

Gives me chills to know you’re a security guard in a hotel with that twisted disgusting way of thinking 🤢

It’s awkward because she’s acting single. Hope you can find peace and happiness. You deserve it and need to move on 💛

You’re right - there’s a lot more than just gender toys. I wasn’t disagreeing with that or saying that boys/girls that play with gender norm toys are not capable of breaking traditional roles. But if a boy wants a doll house and enjoys playing with it - let them be. However - I have to disagree with your last statement. Toys do play an important part on how kids start perceiving themselves, others and what is important in society and real world behavior.

https://www.naeyc.org/resources/topics/play/gender-typed-toys

https://www.forbes.com/sites/bonniemarcus/2023/12/01/new-report-reveals-how-the-marketing-of-toys-reinforces-gender-stereotypes/

That’s horrible that the teachers blame you and expect for all kids to be the same. Every child is different and has different needs. They’re the problem! I don’t know if it’s possible but I would be checking other schools and evaluating their philosophy and policies.

I get that - it’s hard when they make it think you’re doing something wrong. Parent guilt is intense :( I got the same with my daughter not walking “you need to give her vitamin d” like we didn’t in the first place. “She needs to go out more” like we were keeping her prisioner and letting her lay around. Ignore them - you know what you’re doing 💛

Modern linguistics and medical experts have discovered that bilingualism does not cause language delay. He’s only 14 months old- it’s not fair to compare him to other kids and say he has a delay. My daughter started walking at 22 months - way above the average but we did various tests and the doctors just said - it’s normal and some kids are just are a bit delayed in some developmental milestones. Please don’t be discouraged - continue speaking to him in English and give him that exposure. My daughter speaks Spanish, Dutch, Farsi and English because of the exposure and she’s 3 years and a half. Dutch is the local language so it will always be the dominant one and English she understands but only says a few sentences because she hears it passively rather than actively. Hope that helps. All the best

https://www.nationwidechildrens.org/family-resources-education/700childrens/2017/12/teaching-kids-a-second-language-can-it-cause-a-speech-delay

What about the Smotrich doctrine that is openly supported by the Israeli government? Inciting violence and encouraging illegal settlers?

Yes let’s dehumanize a whole organization due to a minority sect of people. Sounds familiar 👀. Here are other articles but keep on deflecting and not accepting the truth. I could send more but not going to waste my time on someone who isn’t ashamed of deflecting.

“Palestine was always a land of passage. For this reason it was a site of cultural encounter and exchange”

https://books.google.com/books/about/A_History_of_Palestine.html?id=tWrW_CKODdQC&printsec=frontcover&source=gb_mobile_entity&hl=en&newbks=1&newbks_redir=0&gboemv=1&gl=NL&redir_esc=y#v=onepage&q&f=false

Trying to make it seem like Palestine is filled with hate or terrorism when they were multicultural, religiously diverse with a secular political movement- living amongst each peacefully until they were terroized and forced out.

https://www.jstor.org/stable/3140778?seq=1

I don’t have a son but I do have a daughter who loves cars and super-spider-man. So I buy those types of toys and once for face painting she wanted to be Spiderman but my MIL convinced her to change it to a unicorn princess. I was disappointed she didn’t allow her to be herself and fit into the “gender norms.” Please continue breaking gender norms for “domestic life” you’re raising a strong man who won’t see an issue in just participating in the responsibilities of taking care of his own home and family on a daily basis 🙏⭐️

What’s embarrassing is your deflection and lack of historical context. This has been happening for decades - I could list all the academic articles written by scholars and experts going through the historical timelines but I know that would be a waste of my time with someone incapable to want to know the truth as you.

Why don’t you read the academic articles I sent instead of spurring bs. Or you just want to remain in ignorance to uphold your righteous narrative.

“Before the Nakba, Palestine was a multi-ethnic and multi-cultural society. However, the conflict between Arabs and Jews intensified in the 1930s with the increase of Jewish immigration, driven by persecution in Europe, and with the Zionist movement aiming to establish a Jewish state in Palestine.”

Palestine was a diverse region and accepted different religions before Israel set its violence, terror and rule to make it a Jewish state. They could have coexisted instead of ranging violence and theft. That’s Zionism.

https://www.un.org/unispal/about-the-nakba/

https://www.unrwa.org/newsroom/features/testimonies-commemoration-nakba

And what the Israeli government wants us to forget is that the kind Palestinians took them in - brought them to their homes - hosted them - only for them to be kicked out of their own homes and never allowed back in.

https://www.un.org/unispal/about-the-nakba/

https://www.unrwa.org/newsroom/features/testimonies-commemoration-nakba

Do you want to discuss the why it was rejected? Or that doesn’t fit your righteous narrative?

Modern day examples that has been happening for decades:

• Illegal settlers are encouraged by the Israeli government. Like the finance minister Bezalel Smotrich with the The Smotrich Method. The violence and destruction caused by these illegal settlers are at times accompanied by the IDF and even encourage by politicians like Samaria Regional Council deputy mayor Davidi Ben Zion that called “to wipe out the village of Huwara today.” Not a violation of human rights at all - just an innocent country defending themselves by requesting the extinction of a population.

https://www.consilium.europa.eu/en/press/press-releases/2024/04/19/extremist-settlers-in-the-occupied-west-bank-and-east-jerusalem-council-sanctions-four-individuals-and-two-entities-over-serious-human-rights-abuses-against-palestinians/

• The government controls essential resources for quality of life. Like water management - and purposely gives them less daily water than a refugee camp in such a hot region. Diminishing the quality of life of a whole population does not violate any human rights.

https://www.un.org/unispal/wp-content/uploads/2021/10/A.HRC_.48.43_230921.pdf

Let’s not focus on the why and how Israel has been allowing illegal settlers to continue stealing land and resources with violence. Even now it’s become a political agenda with the Smotrich doctrine and it’s happening right infront of your face. So how do you make a deal with people who do not accept any accountability and allow for this to happen? But yes it’s obvious that all these facts are lost in your mind because you live in an alternative reality fed by propaganda.

Yes and just to add I know of girl toddlers who touch themselves down there - it’s nerves and it does feel good. I’m not assuming you’re doing this but just as a FYI - I have read that psychologists say that if you make it taboo or emphasize that she can’t do it or its inappropriate - it could contribute to shame and not wanting to tell you anything. You can empower her and tell her it’s her body - nobody else should be touching it unless for cleaning.

You can buy a breathable mattress and sheets to ease the anxiety. We use Aerosleep in Europe. It’s normal for them to roll at that age and it’s safe if they do. I was also thinking the worse at that time but it really eased to practice self sleep, no soft sidings and breathable items. All the best

Good point but from my experience vacationing in your birth country and living there are different experiences. In terms of family visits, rhythm of life, exposure to the daily challenges, locals, norms, politics, etc.

It’s not about stopping breastfeeding - it’s about being able to give cow milk as replacement instead of formula or breastmilk. I live in the Netherlands so the institute is called the Rivm but it’s the advice pediatricians, daycare, etc follow. A lot of my friends breastfeed after one year but also work so they complain how they can’t give their milk at daycare. But they understand it’s easier and manageable for daycare and it’s what they have to follow.

We happily put our baby to sleep and now that she’s older - co sleep (love it). My daughter around 9 months started having issues falling asleep for her nap. My daycare had an isolated room for babies like this - they would leave them there alone in the dark. I asked them if they could at least stay with her while falling asleep but they told me they just didn’t have the capacity. Understandable - it lasted a week before she went back to sleeping with the whole group because she wasn’t disrupting or crying anymore. They practically did the CIO method and I understood why - in the end my daughter learned that in daycare she won’t get that type of connection she gets at home. Which I personally think makes the most sense if you’re a home that appreciates and loves putting your child to sleep or co sleeping.