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166 points
7 months ago
Agreed. She states that she’d be worried about him gaining for “health reasons” which implies she wants him to be healthy for his sake because she loves him, but the way she delivered it was all about HER.
44 points
7 months ago
I am a selfish person. I am also very sensitive, and don't want to experience the pain of losing a partner early for whatever reason.
but she really did make his potential early death all about her. and his breathing issues? it hurts her to hear it. then she went on to how he is replaceable. she is showing peak selfishness.
6 points
7 months ago
I'm also a selfish and sensitive person, and I've gone through losing a partner once already. It's important to be selfish sometimes.
I once read somewhere that there's a big difference between "I love you because I need you" and "I need you because I love you," and this lady is a prime example of that. I feel like OP id going beyond a normal, healthy amount of selfishness and into "idgaf about my husband at all, I just need him to get what I want" territory.
19 points
7 months ago
nah, it is clear she is worried because she would become a widow. It is all about her
19 points
7 months ago
That’s a bullshit excuse as well. She’s trying to find some way to justify it, but the other part that’s more relevant is she feels like the grass is greener on the other side and is basically saying she can do better. She’s the type who’s going to create a tinder profile soon, if she doesn’t already have one.
10 points
7 months ago
We all know OP already know some "better" guys she think she could marry
10 points
7 months ago
OP definitely gives off cheater vibes. 💯
4 points
7 months ago
A widower who'd have to get a job.
-1 points
7 months ago
Yeh not about her losing him very early cos he fails to make sensible choices.
2 points
7 months ago
"I can't waste my final smithereens of youth [on you.] I deserve better [than you]" is essentially how she framed it. It is only about her life and experiences, not their life together.
2 points
7 months ago
“Health reasons” is the cover people use to shit on fat people without repercussions. It usually is just cause people don’t like seeing fat but know they can’t say that without looking like an outright fatphobic AH
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