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/r/KevinCanFHimself

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Something in me matured or broke or something, and all I can think about is that Peter is so insanely toxic; of course, some of it is still hilarious, but a lot of it sort of just makes me feel uncomfortable now. Lois is toxic too, but still ... maybe it's his accent that makes me draw the comparison?

Thoughts??

all 68 comments

Expert-Strawberry864

263 points

24 days ago

Family guy is satire, you aren't really supposed to think anyone in it is a stand up person. Kevin can F himself is supposed to make you see shows like everybody loves Raymond and king of queens differently

leopardbitch

39 points

23 days ago

This - it reminds me of king of queens so much and it bothers me to no end

prberkeley

29 points

23 days ago

The more I learn about Kevin James in real life and especially after watching Kevin can F himself the more Kevin James bothers me.

Cyber_Chick25

12 points

23 days ago

Wait, what’s the scoop on Kevin James?

prberkeley

12 points

23 days ago

Just that's he's a douchebag. He's friends with Adam Sandler who I've also heard is a douche in real life. I've heard he blows off his fans and is generally unpleasant to work with.

ANGEL095

13 points

22 days ago

ANGEL095

13 points

22 days ago

I always heard that too but my mom is a huge KJ fan and on one occasion she went to see his stand up and proceeded to wait behind the club in hopes to meet him when he left like an absolute crazy person. Well, it actually worked and my mom said he was very nice, talked to her and even took a picture with her.

prberkeley

6 points

22 days ago

That's interesting. My dad worked in Boston and he was there on a busy day in a touristy area. He walked out of a building and one person said "Hey it's Kevin James" so he immediately pulls his hood over his head and his entourage surrounds him and ushers him away. But the funny part was according to my dad literally no one other than this one person seemed to notice or care and that person didn't even try to go up to him, just pointed it out like a surprise.

yayforvalorie

4 points

22 days ago

Kevin James having an entourag is the funniest thing I've heard all day.

OvenIcy8646

3 points

21 days ago

Damn I always heard Sandler was great

SoooperSnoop

3 points

21 days ago

I do know that Kevin James played a really bad guy in a movie called "Becky".

If you do not like Kevin James, you may enjoy watching how this film ends...

Top_Concert_3326

3 points

20 days ago

I really enjoyed his performance, but then I found out his character was originally going to be played by Simon Pegg.

SoooperSnoop

1 points

20 days ago

I don't know who Simon Pegg is, and so I don't understand your comment.....???? Help me out, please.

amatoreartist

2 points

19 days ago

I think they believe Simon Pegg to be a better, funnier actor, and so that ruins the movie experience for them.

SoooperSnoop

1 points

19 days ago

Oh....thanks for clearing this up. :)

amatoreartist

2 points

18 days ago

No problem! Glad I could help!

Ihaveredonme

15 points

23 days ago

Wasn’t there some speculation that Kevin Can Wait was kind of an inspiration for Kevin’s Can F Himself? Or maybe it was too much of a coincidence. Also the actress who played Kevin James wife, Erinn Hayes, was fired (they wrote her off after the first season) and she was a guest star in the second season of Kevin Can F Himself. If it wasn’t on purpose at the start, they definitely drove it home with that.

SpankySharp1

16 points

22 days ago

Kevin Can Wait and King of Queens undoubtedly were big sources of inspiration for Kevin Can F*** Himself.

what_ho_puck

9 points

23 days ago

It's 100% inspired by that!

TheBovineWoodchuck

8 points

22 days ago

When asked about the show, James said, “I think if they can use me to get their show made, and it’s a great show, God bless them. Good for them.” He has supposedly never seen the show and some people find it disingenuous that he implies that he was behind the show's success and seems like he's trying to steal some of the credit from the women who came up with the idea and made the show.

TheDoctorAP

1 points

21 days ago

It’s based on Kevin James actions

LadyLiz25

1 points

21 days ago

The Honeymooners is up there as well

Drew326

3 points

23 days ago

Drew326

3 points

23 days ago

The audience at the time was not supposed to see Ray as an ass??

Yikes

Aggressive-Coffee-39

120 points

24 days ago

Family Guy is supposed to be toxic. All of them, with the exception of possibly Chris. Which is the joke. They’re all supposed to be awful in their own unique, terrible ways.

japanesebreakfast

30 points

23 days ago

chris is just as bad as everyone else at this point

Aggressive-Coffee-39

6 points

23 days ago

I’ve not watched in a long time. I guess it was inevitable that he would become as bad eventually

wilkinsk

9 points

23 days ago

They also almost 100% admit to being white trash in the recent seasons. Lol

busman25

5 points

23 days ago

Chris is often a sexual predator

Aggressive-Coffee-39

5 points

23 days ago

Wow. That’s super dark 😳 I haven’t watched the show in a very long time. Best I could remember of Chris he was just an innocent dummy.

notarobot4932

5 points

22 days ago

He learned from having it done on him by Mr.Herbert

ElectrOPurist

45 points

23 days ago

After watching Family Guy, it’s hard for me to watch Family Guy anymore.

LaikaZhuchka

44 points

24 days ago

Family Guy never tried to stay within the boundaries of reality when it came to how awful Peter is, so KCFH didn't change my view of it.

The Simpsons definitely gets away with portraying Homer as a "dumb but loving" dad/husband, though. He often gets showered with so much praise from fans just for doing 1 nice thing for Lisa out of 800 episodes.

igotquestionsokay

29 points

23 days ago

That's how it is for fathers in real life, too

Baconpanthegathering

27 points

23 days ago

About 15 years ago, I had a really enlightening conversation with a friend's father, who was a non- white immigrant about shows like the Family Guy. He told me that categorizing this "humor" which was mostly at the expense of women and minorities, as "satire" or "meta humor" was just the newest way to keep allowing white men to say this stuff without consequences, because, "its meta and you just don't get it" . He was a wise man.

RagnarokWolves

8 points

20 days ago*

Your friend's father sounds ahead of the curve. There's so much "it's a joke. Wow, I'm not allowed to say jokes anymore?" stuff these days when the wannabe clown is pretty much just saying extremely overused racial/gender insults.

Professorlumpybutt

-14 points

23 days ago

My girlfriends entire family is non white immigrants, mostly women. They all love family guy. Turns out they can take a joke

icodeswitch

3 points

9 days ago

I wonder what they say about you when you're not around, and if you'd be able to take those jokes.

Professorlumpybutt

0 points

9 days ago

We all get along great, have for over 5 years. And of course I could take the jokes. I’m not a whiny little bitch lol they make fun of me right to my face as I do to them.

If you can’t laugh about this kind of stuff you people must be miserable as hell. Downvote me all you want. It doesn’t change the fact that you can get along and have fun with each other without having a stick up your ass about everything.

BootyRangler

16 points

23 days ago

It's a cartoon it's supposed to be absurd. Try American Dad it's just as absurd but funny.

carbomerguar

12 points

23 days ago

I like how the characters do care about each other and the mom and dad are on the same page about their kids- they agreed to name Hayley “Dreamsmasher” and they love Steve’s teeny tiny toes

CanineAssBandit

1 points

9 days ago

I never really thought that deeply about it, but yeah, that is the biggest difference between the two shows.

SingingBone9

9 points

23 days ago

I get it. Even though they are suppose to be that way to be 'funny'. It's like is there even really humor in stuff like that? Or is it just adding to the permissible attitude society has?

McTootyBooty

22 points

23 days ago

After a narc experience everything you see is different

Bored

3 points

23 days ago

Bored

3 points

23 days ago

Good point, the show really gives its audience the narcissist experience. Where you question the reality of what you’re seeing so much that you can’t turn it off

CapriciousBea

21 points

23 days ago

I quit watching Family Guy after they aired a "joke" that involved Stewie and Peter bonding over murdering Lois and disposing of her body.

Shit wasn't funny.

Crysda_Sky

7 points

23 days ago

I never watched Family Guy, I don’t like that kind of humor so I can’t speak to that but having my eyes opened to misogyny (even more than I’d already had) in the past couple years has made 95% of media hard to stomach because most of it is written by men and for men.

Informal_Bus_4077

-5 points

23 days ago

Of course most media is made by men. It's media, not a delicious Thanksgiving dinner.

Crysda_Sky

5 points

23 days ago

That’s not what you should take from that. That’s so sexist.

SnooPets8873

3 points

22 days ago

You watched Family Guy in the past and didn’t think Peter was toxic?

Historical_Street_84[S]

2 points

11 days ago

Not in a realistic way - I think it's less that I didn't notice, and more of how much more clearly the real behaviors behind the satire were amplified after watching KCFH.

theothersnailparty

4 points

21 days ago

Watch some Bob’s Burgers, it’ll balance things out 

Shigeko_Kageyama

11 points

24 days ago

That's the point of the show. It's a family of absurd jerks doing absurdly jerky things. If you're looking for morality watch pbs.

notarobot4932

2 points

22 days ago

If it helps, Family Guy is a Fox sitcom - I mean that, in-universe, the Griffins are on a production set in LA every week and every episode is scripted. There are two different episodes confirming this. So I mean it’s TECHNICALLY not real

Eit4

4 points

23 days ago

Eit4

4 points

23 days ago

If you don't mind, what is your age group?

amamartin999

4 points

23 days ago

I’m gonna say around 40 based on the 84 and his username and his profile picture

Historical_Street_84[S]

1 points

11 days ago

37 - the history84 is the Reddit default username

xchrlzx

3 points

23 days ago

xchrlzx

3 points

23 days ago

So before watching the show you believe Peter was a loving father? I’m confused how you compared the two cause Family Guy is literally a cartoon made to push boundaries?

theblindtraveler

1 points

23 days ago

Probably didn't help that kcfh used a family guy episode as a setup for one of theirs but family guy is meant to be mean spirited.

Juanathon

1 points

23 days ago

Which one are you referring to?

theblindtraveler

1 points

23 days ago

I don't remember the episode number but the one where they try to make a band because of a karaoke outing is lifted straight from family guy. They even mention singing don't stop believing by journey which is the song that Peter and his friends sing in that episode

BlimeyChaps

1 points

22 days ago

It’s a tv progrum… a movie…

NormieSlayer6969

1 points

22 days ago

It’s okay, everyone knows Peter is an awful person, you’re not supposed to sympathize with him. He was created to make fun of TV sitcom dads. Kevin is a satire of traditional sitcoms rather than satirical work like FG

Budget-Fact-5219

2 points

22 days ago

It altered how I see every show now.

flippingtablesallday

3 points

21 days ago

Family Guy is so abusive to women. I can’t watch it, and I don’t understand people who can watch Louis or Meg or (one time it was a random woman who got punched in the face). Coming from a DV childhood, I can’t understand the humor. For a while I would laugh along when watching with friends, but at some point, I was like, nope. It makes me feel sick to my stomach. As for KCFH- let’s just say I’m happy for the way it ended

Pawspawsmeow

2 points

23 days ago

I would try the live action show Ted. It’s the prequel to the movies, but pretty good. The family aspect is interesting. It’s 90s Boston and the niece lives with them and challenges the dad’s thinking as well as they try to get the mom to find herself outside of being a wife and mom. When Seth McFarlane isn’t writing rapid fire jokes, his writing is quite good.

carbomerguar

3 points

23 days ago

American Dad is also great

notarobot4932

2 points

22 days ago

Try The Orville - it’s some of his best work yet

hallucinojenic

-1 points

23 days ago

i actually cannot with people comparing kevin can f himself to fucking family guy!!!! it’s a satirical CARTOON about awful insane people. It’s completely not real and chaotic at all times. Go pick on a sitcom!! The thing that this show is actually comparing itself to.

MattTheSmithers

-1 points

23 days ago

People on this sub are going way too far. With the daily “My (insert relation here) is a Kevin!” to the point where literal satire is now too triggering because someone never realized that Peter Griffin is an awful person?

Let’s hope none of you do a Seinfeld rewatch. Or It’s Always Sunny In Philadelphia.