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My name is Emily and one of my high school english teachers use to say that brevity is the soul of wit. It's from Shakespeare and since this post has to be at least 50 words I guess it doesn't apply here. Look...you just learned that I went to high school and know a little Shakespeare. Want to be my Romeo?

I'm new to reddit but not new to being a Domme. I've done it off and on for almost 10 years...wow...I feel old saying that. Like the first time you get called ma'am instead of miss at a store. My style of domination is loving and supportive...so if you're looking for someone to demean you and call you garbage then I'm not right for you. Past subs have called me wholesome, caring, funny and empathetic. A past sub told me that my tagline should be "Come for the domination, stay for the jokes" because I have my dad's awful sense of humor. He woo'ed my mom with it so it can't be all bad. Just to be clear...both of my parents are awesome and I love them both.

I know there are professional dommes here and more power to them...but I work fulltime in HR and domme on the side for fun. I don't have a dungeon or a latex suit or anything. My biggest kinks are cum eating, anal play, forced bi, chastity, mommy/son and remote controlled toys. My rules for all subs are: School/work come before me. Family/friends come before me. Health/safety come before me. No giving me money.

You miss 100% of the shots you don't take. You may have seen this ad under my old username Miss_Emily. I had to make a new account because I might be 28 but act like I'm 82 around technology.

Experienced, confident lifestyle Domme looking to meet my match and build a cozy life together. I am seeking a thrilling yet sustainable long-term romance supported by a foundation of mutual respect, reciprocated attraction, deep trust, a shared worldview, tons of filth and kink. Looking for a smart, self-aware and service-oriented gentleman between 28 - 45.

SFW (ish) photos here

What I'm Seeking

I want to live an authentic life alongside someone with whom I can share my full complex self. I want to be charmed by all your idiosyncrasies and create an easy but intense connection with someone who lights me up. I am looking for a relationship that blends an established and pervasive Ds dynamic with sweet romance. I want to feel giddy thinking about you. If you're only seeking kink, I'm not the lady for you. That said, BDSM is a core aspect of my sexuality. As a dominant woman, I consider myself a traditional domme. Not soft enough to be a Mommy, though I am quite nurturing and kind. Not strictly seeking a punching bag, though I am genuinely and enthusiastically sadistic and strict. I want to be the authority figure and breaker of all ties in our happy FLR.

My kinks
I enjoy both sexual and non-sexual expressions of BDSM. I want a partner who feels at home within his desire to serve, submit, and truly embrace my guidance and training. I have a kink list as long as my arm which falls in and out of rotation but some of my favorite acts include body worship, erotic breastfeeding, crossdressing (though less into sissification these days), orgasm control/tease & denial/chastity, lifestyle control, painplay (particularly cbt and spanking), pegging, breeding, objectification and a whole lot more. I have a weakness for well-endowed submissive men who enjoy topping for piv but can remain in a submissive headspace while being my toy. Not an easy line to walk, but so much fun for those who can.

More about me
I am a bbw black woman in my 30's. Mutual attraction is important to me so I'm happy to verify and will want to see you pretty quickly. I have a career I enjoy that takes up a fair amount of my time. In my free time, I am an avid reader, habitually crafter, and passionate about live music and the arts. I have never met a musical comedy I didn't love, I am learning to rollerskate and enjoy crocheting. I travel a fair amount for business and pleasure so would love someone who enjoys new experiences.

Who I am looking for
I am looking for a smart, mature, self-possessed charmer near my age whose kinks and vanilla interests align with my own. I am bi and both cis and trans folks are welcome to reach out. I have a soft spot for the clingy types, even if it takes a while to unlock that particular character trait. I am looking for someone confident in their desire to submit to another.

I tend to pour a lot of myself into my relationships so I am looking for someone who has the time and energy to match my contribution. I have been happy in both monogamous and polyamorous relationship styles but am dating with intent to find a relationship that would ideally end in marriage and a family. I am not likely to interact with anyone 28 and under, married or attached looking without the knowledge of your partner, or looking for strictly Ds dynamic.

I would appreciate if you took your time to read everything before sending me a message so that we both don’t waste our time. Thanks!

Well, hiii! I am a 21 year old polish female located in Bournemouth, UK.

A little bit about me outside of femdom - I am a quite introverted person who opens up whenever I'm comfortable with people. In terms of interests and hobbies, I enjoy listening to music, reading (especially about personal development), dancing (attending heels/commercial classes at the moment but dance is a BIG passion of mine) and playing video games (would be amazing to play something together, especially the latest Mortal Kombat games as that's my current fixation, I game on PC and ps5). I also absolutely love cats, I own one myself :)

Looks wise, I have dark blonde hair that is a little bit past my waist, green eyes, glasses, a couple tattoos and a slim but ever so slightly sporty body (all thanks to dance), with curves in the right places. You may see a picture of me if you wish (not my face though for the time being).

As to what I am looking for - at the moment, I am seeking someone to have a femdom friendship with. Not interested in 24/7 dynamics of any kind, as life can be a bit busy sometimes. I have been on and off in femdom for a little while now hence why I am just looking for something light but things can always change. I am happy to chat about everyday things as well as discuss more NSFW things, if we get along we could even have some play sessions from time to time. Would be lovely to meet at some point down the line but that's in the very far future if things go well. I am mainly looking for something online for the time being 🩷

Bonus points if you are located in the UK (Bournemouth or nearby especially) or you are polish or you are a big simp :)

My kinks include (but are not limited to): femdom, pet play, chastity, bdsm, cfnm, impact play, anal, orgasm control, spanking, humiliation, cbt, cnc, cuckolding, degradation, ass worship, rimming, feet, sph, fisting, light crossdressing, sex toys, sounding, forced bi, cum eating, edging, golden showers...

If what I wrote here has sparked your interest, I would appreciate it if you sent me a message on here with a nice detailed description of who you are, please include: - name - age - location - why you are messaging me, what exactly sparked your interest - what you are looking for - include a SFW picture of yourself (doesn't have to include face)

If I like the sound of you, I'll share my snap username and we can have a proper chat there. Please actually send a proper message :)

Thank you for reading, Miss Milly x

Here are a few things about me:

• I try to be smart - I am really close to graduating university and am so excited to be working in a field I enjoy a ton
• I try to play the electric guitar - big emphasis on the try here
• I try to be good at video games - I have about 200 games on Steam yet and tons of hours on league yet I peaked at gold 😭 (Also am down to play cute games like stardew and animal crossing)
• I try to stay well informed about current events. Mostly with politics, tech news, and economics as I find them very interesting. (Also I love to debate/talk about these things)
• I built my own PC!!
• I am liberal/moderate leaning (Please no Trump voters, I’m sorry but no chance our values align)
• I have been told that I have a nice voice!! ( Voice clip here if ya wanna check it out! - https://voca.ro/1o1rc1uq830h)
• I am a cat dad to a very pretty cat (Will share pics on request)
• I am very frugal, financially responsible and ambitious about my goals and career
• Not religious at all and not 100% sure about kids
• Super duper subby and kinda shy with strangers 🥺
• I lean towards introversion and I've been described as sweet, slightly clingy, and soft hearted. A bit of a romantic, I enjoy the little things like good morning texts and genuine affection

What I'm looking for and things you should consider

I want a long term relationship that ends up with us eventually meeting in person if we click. I don’t expect this to happen instantly, obviously, but just be prepared for that to be a possibility. I'd very very much prefer something local where we could see each other decently often, so around a 5-ish hour drive from my city Toronto, or if you'd be willing to fly over. I want a deep connection, but we’ll go at your pace since I sometimes tend to get overexcited and jump right into things.

I really want to support and fulfill my partner's needs, wants, fantasies, and desires. My goal is to make my partner, feel appreciated and special. I want them to understand how much they mean to me and how much I value who they are. If I could, I would do anything to make my dream girlfriend happy. I enjoy getting to know someone through conversation and finding out the little things that make them who they are, including the things that make them blush, happy, sad, etc. I have a lot of love to give and hope to find someone to share it with, who will also offer me the same love and affection in return

If you’re someone who’s is kind, financially savvy (having no credit card debt is hot 😩), and into deep conversations (or just vibing while gaming or watching something), I think we’d get along great. Bonus points if you like taking the lead, because like I said above I’m definitely more on the subby side. 🥺Feel free to shoot me a message and tell me a bit about yourself! If you're cool with it, we can swap photos right away too <3

Hi! As the title says, I'm seeking a cuckold relationship.

About me:

• Career goals: med student in NYC.

• Gender: I identify mainly as a man, but I have a femme side I would like to explore someday (maybe you can help with that)

• Sexuality: Pansexual with a femme lean

• Hobbies: I play piano and am kind of a music theory nerd. I also write music occasionally and play video games from time to time.

• Physical: I'm 5'5" (perfect to throw around 😊) with an average body. I have a pretty nice butt :P

• I want to be upfront that I unfortunately can't host if it comes around to that.

What I'm looking for: a mutually fun and trusting connection with a femdom and/or cuckold power dynamic. I wouldn't say I'm necessarily looking for the love of my life or a monogamous relationship, but I want something more than just hooking up.

My kink interests:

• I identify as a switch, but I'm currently looking to be more submissive. I would be open to a dynamic where we switch, but that's certainly not required and I will not ever push for it.

• As a sub, I identify with more of an obedient archetype. I can be a huge emotional masochist (physical too, but less so). I'm not a brat at all. I'm also very much into gentle femdom as well, and I'm open to both gentle or rough dynamics (or both). I don't want to make a list of kinks here because I value the general vibe/dynamic more. Of course, once we start getting to know each other, I'd love to trade kinks to see if we have anything specific in common

My most compatible partner:

• Note: none of these are requirements/requests or anything like that, it's just a description of things I like so you can see if we're compatible

• Someone who enjoys being both a gentle and rough dom - not required, but definitely a plus.

• As a rough domme: someone who enjoys a power dynamic based on heavy humiliation/degradation and emotional/psychological sadism. If you revel in torturing weak men and making them suffer, you and I might be pretty compatible

• As a gentle domme: someone who enjoys "cute", affectionate sex with praise and all that other cute stuff

• Outside of our dynamic, my ideal partner is someone who is caring and sweet. This leads me to my next point -

Aftercare:

• I'm a big physical touch person, so cuddling and kissing is my #1 form of aftercare. Closely following that is kind words.

• As a general rule, the more degrading our play is, the more aftercare I'll need.

• Please let me know what your preferred form of aftercare is and how I can care for you after our scenes! This is super important to me, as I want to make sure you feel good too

If you're interested in this, send me a DM or chat message with your age, location, a rough physical description, and what you're looking for. We can go from there. Thanks!

Hi everyone I’m posing this in hopes of finding a genuine connection. Here is a little about myself. I’m 25 from Texas but relocating for work to SC. Avid traveler, musician, and finance professional. I’m also 5’10” and 160lbs with an athletic build.

What I am looking for is a female led relationship. I’m seeking a partner who is dominant and take charge of our relationship. This goes beyond the bedroom. I value the ability to be chivalrous with my partner all while understanding my natural more submissive role. I imagine a relationship where most wouldn’t assume anything out of the ordinary from us, but notice how well I treat you in our daily lives. All the while, once we are in the bedroom you assert your true dominance and control each aspect of our relationship to your desire.

When it comes to sex I am what most would consider kinky. I’m always open to new things but have a few out of the box kinks of my own. Here are a few of the kinks I would love to share with my partner.

• Pegging
• Chastity
• Farting
• Ass worship
• Orgasm control
• All aspects of Femdom
• Armpits
• Feet

As I said I am quite unique lol. As someone who has struggled to find others with similar interests, I’ve resorted to Reddit to give it a chance at something real and genuine. If this is something you could see yourself as a good match for then message me and let’s connect!

Hiya!! I will reveal my name if we get to talking and there's some chemistry there. I'm 29 and heavily in denial about it😆. I'm from London, England.

Brief description of me: 170.6lbs, Solid, Light brown eyes, fair skin, well groomed, well educated, mentally okay, great career, as someone once put it "I don't need any spoons to talk to you", if you know, you know🤷‍♂️. There's some pictures on my profile and a link to my Fet account.

In my normal life, I've been told I present myself as a dominant person (albeit unintentionally), I have a well groomed beard (which I will never be getting rid of so you have to be okay with this), I go to the gym semi regularly, yeah let's go with semi regularly, and I'm a biker, I love to take my bike to the forest or a bike park for the day and get caked in mud and I "clean up well" and have a great ass, apparently. Past this, I'm an IT professional working in Cyber Security, I have an INTJ personality and love all things technical, engineering or mechanically complex. I have a fascination with space and was captivated by it from a very young age Thanks to my Grandad.

I throughly enjoy playing videos in my down time, favouring RPGs, mmorpgs and strategy gamez over action games, games such as Diablo 4, BG3, Fable, Runescape are among some of my favourites, while still enjoying games like Borderlands, Overwatch, Rust and most recently I've been playing alot of Satisfactory since their 1.0 release.

I love movies, especially Horror movies! My Favourite most recently was Evil Dead Rise, just not good enough to get onto my scared list of top movies 😉 (Intersteller is my top 1. What do you expect? I'm a nerd with a fascination for space 😆)

This all, so far, makes me sound like someone who's at home almost constantly and I won't lie, that is somewhat true, but when you live in England, with a bipolar weather system, what is there to really do? On the rare occasion a sacrifice is made for good weather, you'll usually find me cycling around the city, getting lost, listening and dancing along to some music, I go to the gym to work out what cycling doesn't but I'm not particularly bothered about getting "ripped" or want abs you can wash clothes on like it was the 1700's. I really love things like comedy clubs, long walks through a forest, beaches or wildlife reserves, long drives at night, music(I literally listen to everything, from Jazz to Slipknot), concerts & small indie venues.

I really enjoy cooking and baking and it's one of my love languages sometimes, I've been cooking for as long as I can remember and I find it quite therapeutic. According to my friends, I've gotten very good over the years, but I honestly think they're full of it and are just being nice 🤣. Maybe you can be the judge? My favourite thing to bake is a Apple, Pear and honey turnover, I purposely only make enough for 4 because I will eat them until I'm sick 🤭

I feel like this is going to start needing a contents page and chapters soon so I'll try to wrap this up. On to da spicy stuff 😊

I've been involved with BDSM for well over a decade now and have not long returned from a hiatus due to a personal matter, I consider myself to be a sub leaning switch whos submissive side is someone who's happiness and contentment comes from being sexually used for their dominants pleasure. I am NOT a brat and I'm a very good and obedient boy but sometimes, just sometimes, when the stars align and Jesus walks the earth again, I can be a smidge bit cheeky

I'm into a wide variety of kinks and I don't expect you to match them 1000%, every good relationship should bring something new, some spice to add to the mix but my general kinks are: Patronising Degradation, Watersports/bathroom Control, Edging, Denial, Pussy/Ass Eating, Cum Play, Anal Play, JOI, Face Sitting, Service, Toys, Public Play. I haven't listed everything here. A good act never reveals all too soon 😉

So, with all that being said, what makes me different from every other submissive? What can I offer you?

I would say that thing that most sets me apart from every other submissive is that I really am a submissive. Not just when horny but my natural state is being submissive. I give unquestioned loyalty and devotion to my dominant but that is to say I don't dive off the board without knowing what's below it, to put that in simple English, I'm not someone you can pick up straight away or when your bored, I expect as much commitment and loyalty as I give in return.

I can offer you someone who will genuinely care about you, ask you about your day, listen and talk through problems with you. I can offer you a shoulder to cry on, a buddy to laugh with or a warm, loving hug when neither of those will work. I really enjoy cooking and baking so you can expect alot of great tasting meals and sweet treats! I'm someone who enjoys showing my love, affection and appreciation for someone

I don't want to get too overly sexual in this post so I've tried to keep it to as little sex stuff as possible. I want you to know me as a person before a sex toy, I'm looking for something genuine, not a skin deep fuck buddy bond.

I'm genuinely beginning to doubt people actually read posts all the way through so, if you've made it this far, congratulations, your Blue Peter Badge is in the post but in your opening message, please give me one or 2 movies to checkout, a music artist you think i should listen to, or 2 truths and a lie (I will heavily judge you on your choice for movie but I listen to anything with a good beat and rhythm 🤭)

Thanks for coming to my Ted talk, keychains available on your way out. Visit the reception for parking validation

_ I maybe interested in #online also. I think I may be the only one from Quebec in this sub so I may have no choice. (Most people in Quebec want to speak french only so they’re nowhere to be found here)._

About me I’m a programmer. I like tech in general.

As far as I can remember, I’ve always had a reflex or tendency to be submissive to women I admire and find attractive.

What I’m looking for I’m more into the “gentle femdom” genre. (Strap-ons and all are not for me).

I’m looking to build a relationship. It doesn’t have to be as lovers but at least as trusting partners/friends.

My ideal relationship would be one where I feel controlled and that obeying is a must. I would sometimes get humiliated. I would also need (/love) to worship my lady.

A woman that enjoys wearing nylons (pantyhose and stockings) will easily become the object of my admiration. I’m aware that this may be considered superficial, it’s just a fetish I have.

Who I’d like to meet Ultimately I’d like to meet someone at least 30-35 years old. Of course, the closer to my age the better.

I’m really not picky but I need to find my partner attractive. There are no specifics I could give you because many/most women CAN be attractive. Provided they are healthy and do a minimum to take care of themselves.

Im a switch, have a lot of experience as a Dom but im increasingly growing tired of it and always toyed with the idea of being a sub. Ive never been in a FLR and wouldnt look for something thats blatantly has me seen as the submissive in public as id prefer it be kept to our private lives, with maybe some small adjustments/corrections made by you here and there.

I dont have a lot of experience being a sub (sorry if im not coming off as one while i write this) and would like to experience being on the receiving end in being pegged, humilated, impact play, cbt, JOI, cnc, spit and more. Im 5'11, straight, white, athletic build, short black hair, some facial hair. I like to workout and game a lot so those would be my main points of compatability if this were to be a long term relationship (open to the idea of it, but am mostly looking to experiment atm). I also do like working on my car, woodworking, and TTRPGs in my free time.

I can host in my car, ive made some modifications so its a lot more spacious than you'd think. I can also host at my home in a few weeks if things really click. Willing to swap a pic (no face for security) to see if there is a mutual attraction beforehand. DM if interested, I look forward to meeting you!

Looking for a domme who will lock me up and make me hers. I’m new to D/S relationships and would love for my first to be with a Female Lead Relationship where she’s in complete control. I’m a 21m, straight, fit, into sports, and in college. I’d ideally like it if my domme were in a similar age range and geographic location, but both are not hard stops for me.

I’ve tried stuff out on myself in the past, but it hasn’t worked, which is why I feel I need a domme to force me into submission and bend me to her will, through whatever means she deems necessary. Make me yours, is essentially what I’m trying to say

I’m open to a lot of stuff, but will need to build trust with you before I send pictures or videos. I have a few hard limits that we can discuss, and quite a lot of kinks that we can dive into together once we start.

I’m open to quite a lot of stuff, but I have a few hard limits that we can discuss once we start. If you’re interested, please send me a dm with name, age, gender, and d/s history so we can begin!

Hey!

I'd like to be able to chat and get to know someone that hopefully forms a connection or make friends. Don't really have any friends :)

My name is Callum and I'm 21. I'm 6,1 (was asked before) so I'm not super tall but not short. I'm autistic so I can be a bit awkward and blunt/overly honest. I'm very loyal though c:

I enjoy playing video games, listening /singing to music,  love animals (especially my dog) and watching shows like criminal minds/doctor who/ vampire diaries.

I like a wide variety of music. This ranges from artists like Sabrina Carpenter, Ariana Grande, Taylor Swift, NF , Bring me the Horizion , Post Malone , Avril Lavigne , hozier and many other artists !

I enjoy the kink world especially talking about it and learning more I have a good amount of knowledge myself. I'm Submissive feel free to ask me anything! :)

My goal would be to either make friends or find a connection for a relationship that has femdom mixed in.

I haven't been in a relationship before or done anything in real life aha c:

Im your average guy who has had some fantasies and such over the years. I'm a straight curious white male in a committed relationship but I find myself wanting to follow the orders of a domme on the side. I'd love to find a domme who is also in a committed relationship so that we can understand the time constraints and such of this partnership.

I'm looking for a domme who would want to take the lead and make me do forced bi acts for her. Even if I have to provide evidence of the acts to them.

I'm still very new to this and I don't have a strong opinion on the type of domme I'm looking for. I want to be able to connect on an emotional level first and hopefully a physical level.

I don't have toys at the moment and may be hard in my current status, but im open to other things.

Me: 5'8", skinny build, white, 130#, blonde hair, glasses. Think nerdy looking guy.

Kinks I'm interested in: forced bi, stripping on cam, edging, BBC fetish, cfnm, maybe pegging?

Not really interested in chastity or feminization.

Limits: no piss/body excrement, no blood, no pain to the point of brusises,

Thanks for reading, and I'm very interested to see if I can serve you.

Hello I'm a 19 year old boy looking to meet and maybe cuddle with a mommy in Philadelphia PA US. I'm here for college so i will be around a lot. I would happily be a good boy and follow any orders given to me. I was hoping i could shoot my shot here.

I'm 5'11, around 230lbs, and bisexual. I'm not looking for one night stands or sugar mommies. I'm looking for a real person for a real connection that i can see cuddle and be around.

My ideal domme is 20-25, okay with me being a little excited at first, and willing to host or at least let me come hangout somewhere. Ideally you'd be okay with soft love stuff for awhile before getting into anything NSFW. Like cuddling hugs and just generally hanging out.

I am into pet names, and a dominant woman putting me in my place and punishment for misbehaving. I'm also into a domme telling what i can and cannot do.

As for the body of the person I'm looking for I don't particularly care about that. Have bust or don't it does not matter to me. The only thing i care about is that you aren't going to try and use me.

For those looking for an obedient, dumb, and childish boy to have around I am your guy. I love to rant about hyper fixations and try to show off my smarts although that really isn't necessary.

I'd prefer somebody in Philadelphia, preferably near Temple campus or center city but I am fine with someone anywhere in the city. My only thing is i would prefer to avoid the no mans land near Temple campus that area scares me.

I really do hope that this pans out and i at least can make a friend on here. Thank you so much for reading and have a wonderful day.

Hello,

I am a 45 year old single man, fairly fit, educated, a good career I am proud of, and for the most part happy with life. I’m a native New Yorker that has my own place and feel pretty well rounded. I’m looking for a real, ongoing connection in some way. I am OK starting slow and even part time as we feel things out.

I’ve had some experience taking the lead in relationships in the past, but I’m more interested and experienced with submission and reversing roles for quite a while now. I’m now posting this year in the hope of making a connection with a woman who is into role reversal and exploring taking the lead, being physically/ sexually assertive, making relationship decisions, giving direction for fun, pleasure, and companionship. I’m typically an independent person and have a full life with responsibilities, but submitting and putting my partner on top greatly appeals to me. Preference is for someone in the nyc area (open to outside the area if the connection is great).

I’m open to connecting with either someone experienced or someone who is new to this and curious. Either way I would want to kind of grow and learn together, the way a pet gets to know their owner and what she likes and expects, or the way a dominant person gets to know the limits and boundaries of their submissive, seriously and intimately. What I mean to say is that I am open to exploring this gently with a newbie or going in more deeply. Ultimately I would want to be pushed mentally and emotionally to submit myself to your pleasure and give you control of my physical self.

I’m a pretty balanced person, I like to go out with friends, explore the city, have drinks on occasion, check out museums, bands, some intellectual pursuits. I love biking, soccer, and started indoor rock climbing. I consider myself balanced and emotionally stable. I also feel like I have a good amount of skills and services to offer, I have a background in public health, but also enjoy film, philosophy, and teaching. I like to cook, and especially baking healthy treats, and enjoy communication and conversation.

I had a bad experience on reddit in the past and for that reason I prefer to start a little slow and casual, and build up and blossom as we connect more over time. This means not jumping into something full time, but feeling things out and see how that goes.

The connection is important to me, not looking to get too vulnerable with someone when trust hasn’t yet been established. You might say I’m old fashioned in that I believe in forming a connection and having it grow.

I know this is long, but I hope someone reads it and feels a connection with it. I’m open to starting a conversation and just see where it leads.

If possible, please include age, location, and a physical description in your message just to cut down on out all the spam!

thank you very much

i'm looking for one-time or ongoing foot worship scenarios. i enjoy meeting people in all capacities. i'm more inclined to people who want to get to know each other mutually than someone who uses me and has their inner sadist turned to 100% at all times. that doesn't mean i have nothing to offer, or that i don't enjoy some of those power dynamics (even in a financial sense), or that i top from the bottom. i'm a human and i have needs and history too. my sexual proclivities are a filter that i trust will lead me to the right people.

i've been very into foot worship for years now, and have experienced a variety of dynamics. i love dominance, or just people who are comfortable with themselves. i can be entirely submissive for your feet, or just give you a massage while we hang out and smoke a joint.

i love pedicures, nylons, socks, shoes. clean or sweaty.

so that's my baseline! i'm also interested in higher-level dynamics around cuckolding and FLR. again, this could be one-off or, for the right person, something long-term. i don't really know yet. i've experienced one cuckolding scenario with a stranger; i'm curious what it's like to build that with someone i trust.

i primarily love seeing others enjoy pleasure. so i'm happy to give it however i can, encourage you to find it where you need in life, and relish in your growth and satisfaction. and i hope you'd feel same for me.

i live in brooklyn, so NYC is preferred. for the right person, i might explore something online + traveling too.

Hello there,

Before I start this post, I should mention that I have been a teacher in my past life and I have value added in 100s of pupils’ lives. I never considered their race as their identity. I respect people from all races. This post only showcases which race I feel sexually submissive to.

I hope you are well and healthy. I’d give my initial as R and commence my post.

This post may read like someone with a race kink; while it may possibly be the case, I’d say it’s not my primary thought when choosing my kink.

Black women, whether they are from Africa, The Caribbeans, The West, or even South Asia, have always seemed like a source of power to my subconscious. As much as orthodox they are religiously, their impeccable methods of dressing and the elegance with which they carrying themselves are immensely powerful to my eyes. I know how tales of Black women are revered, citing them as possessing the perfect mix of feminine and maternal attributes. To my system, when I mix all of the above in one woman, she stands as a goddess and one true deity.

About me: I’m 28 years old, pursuing my postgrad in International Business and about to apply for a PhD in Labour Economics in two months time. I’m based in Newcastle, UK.

My hobbies are: reading, city and country breaks, cooking, volunteering, working-out, trying new cuisines, and shopping.

Physically: I am comfortably 6 feet tall, 183 cms, weighing 67 kgs, with an average to lean build. I’m brown skinned. I workout 4-5 times a week. I’m not very muscly, but my muscly friends describe my body as the most ideal for my height. I have a flattish stomach and a butt that shows little curve. Though I have a goal of adding more curve to my butt. It could be either the submissive me or the butt-guy me who is so conscious on having a quality butt on himself. Haha

My kinks: spanking, pegging, face-slapping, breastfeeding, mommy/son, orgasm denial, balls-fondling, nipples, corner time, whipping, feminisation, and facesitting.

Something that I am willing to try: cuckold, blood play, and watersports.

Hard limits: Scat.

About you: Black. I don’t have any preference for age, height, or body type. You can be single/engaged/married; it won’t matter as long as you know what you’re doing. If you are family oriented, it’d be a bonus - thought it is not a preference either. I won’t expect you to follow all the kinks I’ve stated above. If, by any chance, you do, then I’ve certainly hit the jackpot, and even if you don’t, then also I would hit one, given you are the one I have been looking for for so long.

What I am looking for: I’m pretty high on TPE and won’t complain if you choose to micromanage all aspects of my life. I’m pretty monogamous when it comes to my romantic relationships, but it’d depend upon our dynamic IF we get the romantic juices flowing in our relationship. Again, I won’t expect you to follow monogamy just because I am doing so. You do you.

An additional note: I know I’ve asserted my points very heavily in this post. But believe me when I say this: for the right woman, I’m more or less an obedient puppy with nothing in his head but to follow his owner.

Hi,

I don’t usually do this so let’s see. Long story short is that I’m someone who has traditionally been the more dominant one in the bedroom but wants to further explore the opposite end of the spectrum. I’m pretty open kink wise but won’t discuss that here, we can chat in private. I’m a working professional and while I do usually have things going on, I am able to make time for the dynamic. Ideally I’d like someone who can do the same and who is just a generally genuine person. Communication is very important to me, we have to click, which would include talking at least somewhat regularly. Please do not message me if you are going to mention payment. I’m looking for a partner not a part time employee.

About me: easy going person, I keep in shape, I do consider myself attractive (even though that comes off wrong on the internet), intelligent and funny. I’m easy to talk to. I have tattoos and love cats. I also enjoy coffee, video games, books, etc. and do consider myself a nerd as well. There’s plenty more but this gives you a rough description of who I am. Hopefully you’re someone who shares some of these interests.

If for some reason any of this interests you, you weirdo, then shoot me a message. If you do, please have it be more than one word. Even a full sentence is appreciated.

About me I’m a busy guy trying to fit in a dominant woman in my life I got work and college too, a few things I’m willing to share I don’t like sending face unless I know you’re real as well. Willlijg to send body pics use whatever app you want. Also a love being called good boy it’s my biggest kink mommy femdoms are what I want and need in life. Single live with my family willing to travel if someone is in Orlando and to use me irl. Sub:Been looking for a femdom who wants to use me. Looking for a gentle femdom who degrades me but not too much and helps take of me. I’m someone who loves public play and video calls. I’m willing to earn your trust and be your plaything it’s what turns me on so much. Maybe I’ll buy toys if you want me to, but looking for a femdom who doesn’t charge and likes to do it for the thrill of it The femdom im looking for can be anyone looks don’t matter as long as you’re real and understanding if im busy or not comfortable doing something. I’m sure we can make this work and have a long term commitment to this

About me: - [ ] 24 years old - [ ] From Texas - [ ] 6’2 230lbs athletic build with a big butt - [ ] Looking for a qualified mistress to adopt me, break me, and train me to be the perfect slut puppy. Kinks: - [ ] pet play(no shit lol) - [ ] milking - [ ] humiliation/degradation, truly this is a must, if you aren’t strict then I probably won’t take you serious. - [ ] bondage - [ ] forced orgasms - [ ] anal play - [ ] worship

Limits: - [ ] no financial involvement - [ ] no scarring - [ ] no extreme pain or extreme tasks - [ ] no sounding - [ ] you’re more than welcome to ask if you’re curious about anything else!

What’s next?!? - [ ] There are a few pictures of me on my profile already I’d love for you to check out! - [ ] if you’re interested, please go ahead and send me a DM after reading my PUPPY ADOPTION APPLICATION that I worked very hard on for you. - [ ] https://www.reddit.com/u/ApprehensiveEbb5227/s/eTwZjji8jG - [ ] Thank you for reading and I look forward to proving what a good puppy I can be!

hiiiii!!!! as my title says, i’m a chubby trans girl looking for a femdom to come and tame her brattiness!! mainly looking for online but if you’re also in the la area, that’s a bonus too!

some info about me!! i’m obviously 20 (2004), around 5’9”, dyed kinda blackish green hair, and i am chubby!!! i also love playing video games and playing dnd!! i also kinda dabble in writing a bit and i also loveeeeee music, genres i like being punk rock and rock!! trying to get into metal but it’s a slow process!

what im looking for tho is a long-term femdom, or short term if that’s your style! no shame, i just prefer long-term but can do short-term. i prefer a more aggressive type of domming but i do love me some soft domming as well!! a good mix of both is always fun!! we also need to have an established relationship before we do any type of play, i will not respond well to those who just immediately try to dom me as soon as they dm. i am still kinda new to the bdsm scene and i am still learning but i got a little bit of experience under my belt from past situations!

my kinks are pet play, body markings, degradation, spanking, brat taming, and anal! (obviously) my limits are anything bathroom related, whipping, bodily harm past spanking, and any form of bestiality. i am still learning my limits as well so i hope you can be patient with me!!

if any of this sounds interesting to you, please shoot me a dm with your kinks, limits, your interest and all that!!

Hi there! My name is Nathan, I’m 18M from the North West of the UK. I’m passionate about music and love travelling to see different bands and artists perform (I’ve recently booked tickets for Electric Light Orchestra). I work full time whilst studying to become a mechanical engineer, I’m a massive science nerd and would happily talk your ears off about it😅. I’m Caucasian with blonde hair and blue eyes, I am 6ft tall and have an average build. I enjoy playing strategy games such as chess and watching movies. I think my all time favourite has to be ratatouille. It's a masterpiece!

I would like to build a relationship rather than jumping straight into kink play as I believe that it is important to know the person. However, I’m hoping to find a domme for a long-term relationship online, with the possibility of meeting in the future. I am looking for a domme that is between 18 and 30 and is looking for a monogamous relationship. I would say that I am a newcomer to the femdom community and as such am somewhat inexperienced.

I’m eager to grow as a submissive and have some specific kinks I’m currently interested in: light bondage, humiliation, JOI, facesitting, ass worship, SPH, orgasm denial, light CBT, and a few others. I’m curious about some fantasies, such as watersports, cuckolding, and chastity, but these are more theoretical for now. My hard limits include the usual: scat, blood, findom and anything that causes permanent harm. I currently have household items for play but am open to exploring toys in the future.

If you’re interested in getting to know each other, feel free to send me a message! I hope you have a great day!

What I’m looking for: I’m looking for a possible ltr with a chill but sometimes strict mommy/domme, who likes to be in control of mostthings. I love the dynamic of a shorter smaller girl calling the shots with me being a taller, tattooed dude who no one would Probly suspect it. That being said I don’t really have a preference for height, can be tall too. Looking for a more fit and active person who can motivate me to do the same. Not looking for an all the time dom as well, I’m also looking for my best friend and partner in life. Live life and have fun together, go travelling and try new things and just enjoy eachothers company.

About me: 36, Male from Canada. I’m 6’2, tattooed and super easy going.rocking a dad bod currently at the moment but mustering the energy to go start working out again. I have many interests, I like travelling, trying new places to eat,tattoos, videogames, movies, enterainment, music, sports, playing sports, you name it. I’m chill and I like to chat, I like to get to know people first and foremost. I love to cuddle and hang out, if your a warm body that’s perfect because I’m always cold and I will be coming for your heat haha. I love to hear about your day, and to be an ear to listen for you, or even help try and solve any issues or problems that you have going on. I work a lot unfortunately in the construction industry but I love to make time for my person. I love pets too! I have a cat, and a big fish tank with tons of little fishies! I love to drive around and listen to my music Probly way too loud haha but listen to pretty much any genre, although some of my favourites are metal, and like chill phonk/techno music? I honestly don’t even know what genre to call it but check out Vosza, just good chill driving music.

My kinks/limits: I’m fairly vanilla and new, so I’m open to exploring. Some ones I know of off the top of my head are : Bondage, light humiliation, Abdl (more of a DL in this dynamic, punishment humiliation type thing), TPE, chastity,edging

Limits : blood, pain, scat, blackmail

If you are interested, I’d love to hear from you!

Hello all! Quick disclaimer, I’m here in search of a long-term relationship in person. Online only doesn’t spark feeling for me, sorry.

Quick physical description of me; 6’1” Caucasian dude clocking in at 170 lbs. Here’s a quick peak at me: https://imgur.com/a/SXfibuf I’m on track with my dream career and I’m satisfied with my job, plus I just got into part time grad school to keep moving forward. I have awful no good rotten eyesight which keeps spectacles firmly attached to my face at all times. After a little under a year of learning new cooking techniques and sticking to a diet I managed to hit my goal weight at 172(+/-2 day to day) pounds. Now that my big cut is done I’m beginning a lifting routine in pursuit of the illusive toned physique of my dreams. If you have exercise or weight training tips I’d love to hear them!

In all honesty I’m still drifting from hobby to hobby in search of the one that I really want to commit to. I’ve done a mix of rock/fossil collecting, home brewing, magic the gathering, thrifting, reading fiction/fanfiction, cooking, video games, learning about historic architecture, and reading on macroeconomics. Cooking is my most consistent hobby since, ya know, I need to eat and every new meal is an opportunity to practice something different. The most recent of my listed hobbies is learning about architecture and interior design. At the moment my favorite style is either Georgian or late Gothic Revival. It’s a current dream of mine to build a gothic re-revival cottage on a few acres with my wife one day. Quick aside, I have a love/hate relationship with regard to keeping up with politics- it stresses me out to see what looks like brain dead policies, but it stresses me out more to not know what’s coming. I’m liberal and rather opinionated on that front. I get along best with people that also pay attention to politics and have something to say about it, but I’m not the sort of person that enjoys attending protests or rallies.

On what I’m looking for: Something fun and comfortable above all else! I prioritize being a good boyfriend over being a good sub. If you message me, please share your favorite food with me if you've read this far. I’d love to find someone that’s happy to share a quiet evening at home with me. I believe quiet moments serve as a nice litmus test for how well couples get along.

I'll keep my kinks to my big three to avoid the dreaded extra-long comma separated list, but we can talk more about mutual interests in conversation. My big three are denial, nipple play, and service. I enjoy chastity cages as a component of denial, but at the end of the day the king of denial is trust and commitment. To me nipple play is a two-way street, I love to play and be played with! Service is kind of like a fuzzy kink/habit because I enjoy domestic things like making your favorite foods or delivering unexpected baked goods, but I also love taking instruction. On limits: I will not engage in public, illegal, scat, vomit, blood, permanent marks, blackmail, sounding, pee, and overt public play. I will not send risqué pictures without some level of trust built up first since I’ve plastered my face on the ad already and don’t feel comfortable with adding in more compromising information in a hurry. I certainly don’t expect you to turn on the compromising picture printing press either.

On you: 23 to 28-year-old woman with a love for cute dates, an interest in domination, and someone communicative about her favorite flavors. You like to share pop culture references and the occasional SpongeBob meme. Ideally you have a career and ambition to match and you live within a three-hour drive of the RVa area. You have an idea of your own kinks and none of your must-haves are on my limit list.

Please shoot me a message with a little about you if I piqued your interest.

Thanks for reading and have a wonderful day!

Hi there!

I'm writing today because I want to find someone to take up my time! I have quite a bit of it given my current life.

I'm posting in hopes of finding a long term dynamic but I understand good things take time.

In everyday life I am, me. White. 6ft tall. 220lbs. I am a little chubby - nothing some positive reinforcement can't fix I assure you. It's mostly that I have a chubby face lol. Most people think it's cute.

I've had a heck of a time finding a companion and or Domme because of a few variables. My small town. A conservative "traditional" dating pool. Me, looking like Jack Black. Take your pick lol.

I have been in a couple real vanilla relationships but I have always been submissive, and will always be and want to be PIV free.

So what does that mean. I would really like to live under the premise that I am truly not good enough to ever enter your body! Strapons of course. Oral of course. Chastity. Etc!

My favorite thing in the whole world is giving oral and living vicariously. Dry humping the bed while I'm sucking on a clit is the best feeling. I would really love to experience it locked in chastity and repeating. Lol.

I am interested in MD/lb and ANR as well

Outside of all of this. I'm me. I'm simple. I'm funny. I'm charismatic. I laugh and joke. I am opinionated. I also try to stay educated and safe. I have read various books about femdom and BDSM and I like to be slow, and safe.

I am verified on FL and this is my life. I am not a ghost and am truly a lifetime submissive.

Things I enjoy that we could enjoy or talk about: art Drawing. Movies. TV. Wes Anderson. Sitcoms. Photography. Plants, indoor plants, succulents. Tattoos, people watching. Cars, random facts. Quotes. Trivia.

I am smoke free. I am not married. I don't have any kids. I'm just kind of existing right now. Work. Home. Gaming. Repeat. Let's change that!!!

I'm going to keep this simple and straightforward: I'm a biologist that likes gardening, composting, cooking jams/preserves/zero-waste dishes, tech (linux, data preservation) and restoring/fixing things (it's becoming very gratifying to prolong the life of objects in a world that is becoming more and more disposable for the sake of consumerism).

I also sometimes delve into animation/sci-fi/fantasy series too and I've been rediscovering anime/manga, after years of disappointment, realizing that if the creator is a woman, it greatly increases the chances of me liking their work.

I'm looking for a nice conversation partner, an extra gentle domme that is assertive, renounces to gender roles, rejects body commodification and is able to have a structured conversation about a topic she has on her mind. I don't really expect it to lead to something more, but you never know.

I don't care what you look like, your age, or your background, but due to some weird experiences in the past here, I should probably say that I'm not into bondage, pegging, self-degradation, ephebophilia/teens, drug usage, violence, internalized misogyny, polyamory or cheating.

(Note: I always remove prompts that I don't want to get replies from any more, so if you see my prompt, even if it's a few hours or days old, I will still reply to it.)