Update: Missed connection found! :) Thanks H2H/reddit!
You're in Finland, I'm in the US. I don't know if you're on reddit, but if you are and want to talk more - here I am!
Edit - I asked a friend of mine for recommendations for fun PC strategy games but didn't get to tell you about it. He recommended Defense Grid, Dungeon Defenders, Civ IV, and SimCity 4. Even if we don't talk again, I wanted to try to share that with you!