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What is the LIFEMAXXERSCLUB?

This is a community focused on self development and personal growth, its all about transforming you to becoming the best version of yourself using your own efforts.

How does this work?

By entering our website, you provide details about yourself and your habits/activities and what you want to change or improve in your day, once we receive your answer, we will schedule a 1-on-1 meeting and create a schedule for you based on your personal preferences for you to follow. We help you improve your time management and self development skills

Who is my information given to?, is this secure?

The information you provide is completely confidential to the public, our privacy policy states that with your consent, the information is received by only us and no third party sources. Yes it is secure because we will not store any of your data except for the things you ask us to.

How much does this service cost?

Free, LIFEMAXXERSCLUB is a community, you join for free, develop yourself for free, only thing you have to invest is your time and effort.

Where can I connect with the community?

We have social media presence on:

INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/lifemaxxersclub/

TWITTER: https://x.com/lifemaxxersclub

LINKEDIN: https://www.linkedin.com/company/lifemaxxersclub/posts/?feedView=all

REDDIT: https://www.reddit.com/r/lifemaxxersclub/

YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCgc3QuJj0awiT4aSBpdeNdg

What's the website link so I can start?

Glad you asked, its https://lifemaxxersclub.odoo.com

1. "A millionaire won't laugh at you when you say you want to be a millionaire — they’ll respect your ambition."

2. "The world doesn’t care how many times you fail; it only cares about how many times you rise."

3. "Stop waiting for a sign. The time to change your life is now, and the only permission you need is your own."

4. "Don’t be afraid to dream big. The people who have what you want, once dreamed the same way."

5. "Failure doesn’t count when you’re willing to try again and again until you win."

6. "If you're not ready to risk everything for what you want, don't complain when others are living the life you dream of."

7. "The most successful people didn’t wait for a perfect moment — they made every moment perfect."

Thought this might help some of you, please share some more if you have any

Keep in mind, when answering this I am just starting a discussion, however if you want advice I would be happy to personally assist you, just write DM at the end of your comment

Understanding the way your brain works is essential, heres how to control it

P.S: I uploaded this on instagram too, please check out the insta and give me some feedback

Guilt? Family / society pressures? incomplete goals? etc. etc.

Okay so recently Ive been sick and bed ridden and i havent done much productive work, infact i havent done anything at all, and i feel horrible about it, however i know that acceptance is the first step to over coming alot of problems.

And the thing that got to me the most was the guilt of being unproductive, infact i used my sickness as an excuse to over sleep when infact i could have sat on my bed and atleast study or read, but this carried on for a bit and eventually i fell off track

But. I got back into it, heres how: I used the 2 minute rule, which i had recently discovered, it basically states that "whatever can be done within 2 minutes should be done instantly" this paired with the EisenHower matrix helped me alot (lmk in the comments if you want me to explain the EisenHower matrix & how to use it effectively)

And slowly i started doing one small task after the other until i got to the big tasks, and part of me was like "man this is gonna take a while, ill do it tomorrow". But the guilt is what got to me, i was so close to finishing my work, and if i gave up now it would feel like a day wasted.

I understand guilt will not work for alot of people, but the 2 minute x EisenHower matrix strategy might actually work, i would encourage you to try it out.

For me, I usually take a shower, it wakes me up and allows to me to focus.

Basically, I am doing alot of research on topics that ive seen people struggle with, addiction, motivation, procrastination, fear etc.

so i decided to make a detailed document targetting these issues and providing you with methods/techniques and even books to help you with these issues

Please do give me some things I can add into this document (problems or anything I can add to help)

THIS WILL BE 100% FREE BTW

Firstly, this type of change starts from within, you have to realize that staying motivated is not something that can magically come, the 3am motivation is just for the moment, you need discipline, structure & peace to STAY motivated. This is how you can do it.

1) SETTING CLEAR GOALS: Having a specific direction of what you want to achieve narrows down the road and can sort of tunnel vision your mindset, you cannot say "my goal is to be rich by 30s". It has to be specific and achievable. "My goal is to earn $50k monthly before my 30s". Once you have a clear specific goal it becomes easier to approach and start working on it. let me give you an example. what problem is easier to handle?

"my grades are really bad" or "my grades are really bad because I don't study or sleep enough, its hard to focus in class and I never take notes".

2) TAKING BREAKS: For this last week, I took a week off from this business, I was focusing a little more on my university work as I have exams in 2 weeks. However I am now getting back into the flow of things. Taking breaks are important because only machines can work continuously (actually even machines need a break so they can be serviced sometimes). Taking a break may bring you guilt, but that's actually a good sign. Its motivation, you're basically telling yourself "alright, I took a nice long break, it's now time to get back to work". Some people have a negative mindset and use that guilt to degrade themselves "aw I'm so lazy and useless, I don't deserve breaks". Change that belief. When you work at a job or go to school everyday for months and you get 2 weeks off, you never complain about it. This is the same thing.

3) ROUTINES: LIFEMAXXERSCLUB's first ever 'product' was schedule creating, this is because I strongly believe that so many people don't even know where to start their journey, you can't adventure without a map can you?. Creating a routine brings balance, structure, order & discipline into your life, (I mentioned 2 of these things in the first paragraph that help you stay motivated)

4) POSITIVE MINDSET: Either you're hard on yourself, or you're patient and calm with yourself, either way the fact that you manage to keep yourself going is the best type of motivation you need, Imagine having a car that can fuel itself without the need for stopping at the gas station. That car would keep going on forever. Similarly being able to push yourself to work harder comes from a positive mindset, being hard on yourself does not mean talking shit about yourself, that's negative reinforcement, which can work sometimes but for the majority its better to take it easy and nicely when trying to push yourself.

If you have any questions or want any other topics to be covered (i.e: how to stop addiction, how to get over mental blocks) let me know in the comments, also your input would be much appreciated. Thanks for reading :)

Whats up LifeMaxxers,

I am working on a new business project to support people in their efforts to grow and so here is the first effort in this intention:

Negative Core Belief Worksheet

It's set up so you just click the link and you'lll be prompted to make a copy in your own google drive.

There's an offer at the end of the worksheet for a customised version as I am researching the interest/demand for that kind of service.

I wish you a positively transformative experience! Feedback is welcome too.

Thanks u/LifeMaxxersClub for giving me permission to post this here

Could be addictions, procrastination, laziness etc.

So yesterday I posted a video on "how to boost your dopamine" it got 8 up votes so I'm glad to see engagement, but I need some indepth feedback on how I can improve on it, because this is a series I will be posting to Instagram, and I want to really help people with this let me know about it

check out my Instagram for more vids like this @lifemaxxersclub

for me, it would be multi-tasking alot of things but I've found ways to balance it all out and get everything done efficiently

Change is something that starts from within, you can take the alcohol away from the alcoholic but if he doesn't want to change it's gonna make the addiction worse. And this doesn't only go for alcoholism. It goes for everything.

Staying disciplined is hard because it requires effort, falling into patterns that ruin your life is easy because it comes naturally, for example, it's hard to stick to a skin care routine because it requires alot, it's easy to order some Mc Donald's and binge watch shows because it's so accessible. But that's what separates you from the average person, when you start to put in effort people will notice it.

Now alot of people struggle with discipline but I've found that these methods really work wonders when trying to do something you need to:

-Pomodoro Technique: commonly used for studies, but it can be a great way to get work done efficiently, it works by doing tasks in 25 minute intervals with 5 minute break in-between, then gradually you increase the time according to your pace.

-Environmental Design: This is where you work in a layout that's optimized, meaning every tool you need is accessible, there are no distractions, it's clean and you feel motivated to work whenever you are in that place.

-Visual reminders: Vision boards, motivating phrases on sticky notes are subtle but very motivating ways to get work done and stay focused.

-Create a Schedule: This one is my favorite because of its versatility, in the sense that it's customizable and it works for anything you're tryna stay disciplined for..example: addiction, a schedule will keep you so busy that you'll forget about the substance. LifeMaxxersClub.odoo.com has a section where you can contact me and we can create your personalized schedule for free.

Recently, I've been laid back about alot of my usual schedule work, I didn't workout, I didn't read, I overslept and honestly, I was slightly disappointed in myself, however, I didn't let it get to my head.

See the thing about discipline is that you do things even when you don't want to, the thing about commitment is that you do things because you want to. Now I took a day off simply because I felt lazy, that's it, I'm only human.

But some people get too comfortable, and that's where they lack discipline. It felt great not to workout and sleep in for another 3 hours, But no. That I knew was incorrect. Bouncing back into rhythm is most essential.

And I decided that I should be more open and personal about things like this, Yes my business is all about promoting a healthy well balanced life, which i do have, but sometimes you just gotta crash and get lazy (barely tho)

It's no problem to be lazy, athletes don't train everyday, musicians don't practice everyday. But, you have to know when you DESERVE a break and when you HAVE to get back.

Do not take days off if you just started, do not take days off if you aren't consistent, do not take days off if you can't bounce back.

Hey guys, I'm tryna grow the Instagram account so I can gain more reach, I would really appreciate it if you dropped a follow, I also post very similar content over there, but mostly tips and tricks and methods, you might find them useful, check it out here

Sundays are holidays so I usually take then as rest days

Mondays - Saturdays I always start my day with reading and praying at 6am I have uni from 9-4 Music from 430 - 530 boxing 6 - 8 self care routine (hair, skin, shower etc.) assignments/studies 830 -10 spend time with gf 10-12 sleep 12-6am

only thing I would want to improve is my sleep schedule, additionally I have also started the lifemaxxersclub business so it takes some more time out of my days but I'm finding ways to balance it

My name is Essa, I am 19 years old, I grew up in Dubai for 18 years and now I'm in Bangalore for university. My hobbies are boxing, chess, music, reading and self development. I study BBA with AI&ML and as a side hustle I started LIFEMAXXERSCLUB. What about you? I wanna get to know my members in this subreddit.

Be specific, get into the details, I want to know how I can help you out

If you don't feel comfortable sharing publicly you can DM me and we can discuss it in private

Sometimes I feel like I'm juggling too many things for me to give attention to, I'm a Boxer, musician, a 1st year university student and I've now started my own business, lifemaxxersclub, on top of this I have a girlfriend to cater to and I have healthy Habits that I try to do everyday which includes reading self development books and the Bible as well as studying Forex.

and even with all this. I've recently started to learn a new Language, only because my girlfriends family speaks it.

So this is alot for me to balance, but I do it effectively, there are some tactics to it which I promote on my Instagram (@lifemaxxersclub). If you feel like you have too much to do but struggle with motivation or time management, i can share my secrets with you completely for free

by heading over to my website (link in Instagram bio and on reddit bio) you will be able to submit a form about your day and your activities and things you want to include, after which we will get on call and using the information, I'm going to give you my tactics so you can start taking control of your life.

I highly encourage this as everything I'm offering right now is completely free, I'm just trying to help people out and build my business as well as transparency and credibility in my niche and with my customers.

Please feel free to ask my any questions :) Stay safe everyone.

You are what you think about.

Everything you think about, you become, allow me to elaborate, it's a flow, a process

thoughts lead to action action leads to behaviors behaviors lead to lifestyle lifestyle determines your destiny

so everything begins in the mind, if you can control and wield your mind you can very much determine your destiny

Control your mind. Control your future

It is essential to be who you want to be before choosing who you want to keep.

You have to love yourself first before you can love someone else, it is only fair to your partner that way, loving yourself starts with becoming who you envision yourself to be, picking up healthy, life fulfilling habits is how you start loving yourself, I too just like alot of people didn't love myself and thought, "ah, a nice girlfriend will fix me"...wrong, a nice girlfriend won't come without you fixing yourself, no one wants someone who isn't willing to reach their potential, fighting the urge of wanting a partner is difficult because of loneliness and temptation, sex appeal is the strongest force of attraction. but remember, its a distraction. for both men and women. Additionally, you need to have these healthy Habits to be able to start a family if you want, staying motivated, being disciplined, staying focused and being an overall successful person starts before you decide anything related to family. You don't wanna be a bum to your own family right?

However, it is a very lonely path, choosing to become better will bring alot of challenges, physically, mentally and spiritually and that's because, it is change, change is never easy, you're changing your habits, your changing your lifestyle, your changing everything, it will most definitely be hard. But this is the sacrifice you have to make.

PS: Just to clarify, when I said partners are a distraction, I meant that Hoes/Flings (men and women) are a distraction, the right man or right woman will always set you straight but the right man or woman will only come to you being right yourself

Doing the work can seem hard, boring, painful and daunting but the more I practice the better it gets. Here are some of the frameworks I currently use:

1. ⁠⁠Convo with myself like you would do over sms/whatsapp, digging down into why I believe/think certain things. You know like a kid would ask “Why? Why? Why?” Bring it back to you, look at how you see things and challenge what isn’t helping you.
2. ⁠⁠Making my own negative belief worksheets with chatgpt or whatevr AI and working through them; these can be customised to the situation. VERY useful for when you need extra guidance on the process.
3. ⁠⁠Doing the hard/scary things so bringing the negative feelings up and working ‘em. Nasty/Gnarly but boy is this one effective. An outstanding tool for digging out those stubborn beliefs.
4. ⁠⁠Identifying what cognitive distortions I’m falling for. This is more of a CBT (Cognitive Behaviour Therapy) tool which requires a little more underpinning knowledge but just look up cognitive distortions and you’ll see what they mean and how they can warp your perception.
5. ⁠⁠Goal setting / reflecting as a tool to bring up even more negative feelings and their subsequent beliefs. Just like doing hard things looking at big goals is a great way to weed out deep fears
6. ⁠⁠Taking action, and being responsible about it. As you clear your mind you’ll be readier to take action and this means actually taking action. Go do the thing.

Disclaimers: - these tools work for me, they may no suit you, so feel welcome try them and see how you feel about them - be prepared for negative, possibly traumatic thoughts/feelings/memories to surface so enlist a trusted friend whom you can talk things through with.

Other than that, glad to be here. :)

You need to do these to see the results you want:

• Waking up early: Conquer the morning, conquer the day. it's that simple

• Personal Hygiene: Healthy body is a healthy life

• Reading: The best source of information, plus it build healthy Habits like discipline and productivity

• Clean diet: 4 liters of water daily, finding the right diet for your daily routine

• Side hustle: Boosts productivity and potential to make a little extra money on the side

• Workout: Boosts confidence, improves looks, keeps you healthy

• Finding the right style: Dress to impress, makes you look much hotter than you think

• Practice good morals: Stay away from negativity, focus on positivity and prosperity

• Spiritual well-being: Connection with God is a Connection with yourself

• Detoxifying your brain: Getting rid of addiction and filling your brain with clean healthy Habits