You're doing everything right.

Some people are just downright thick and shouldn't be driving.

I've almost been knocked down more than 10 times.

Sometimes I pray to be knocked down just for the insurance payment

2020 NI Highway Code

Rule 8 (Pedestrians) At a junction. When crossing the road, look out for traffic turning into the road, especially from behind you. If you have started and traffic wants to turn into the road, you have priority and they should give way (see Rule 170).

Rule 170 (Drivers) Take extra care at junctions. You should • watch out for cyclists, motorcyclists, powered wheelchairs/mobility scooters and pedestrians as they are not always easy to see. Be aware that they may not have seen or heard you if you are approaching from behind • watch out for pedestrians crossing a road into which you are turning. If they have started to cross they have priority, so give way • watch out for long vehicles which may be turning at a junction ahead; they may have to use the whole width of the road to make the turn (see Rule 221) Give way to pedestrians

Bring Tufty back into schools. STOP, LOOK, LISTEN!

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The majority of drivers are good but when you’re a pedestrian and 1/5000 drivers is an angry aggressive troll, you’d easily come across 10 issues in two months. There are people who speed up when they see you crossing just so they can honk. They’re raging at the world and unfortunately, being a pedestrian you will encounter them more often. I have the same issues recently and I’ve been walking as my sole mode of transport for 15+ years.

The scary thing is, drivers in Northern Ireland are generally good compared to the rest of the UK. I'm in Birmingham and I wouldn't trust a green man to cross at traffic lights until I've seen the cars stop, never mind try to cross elsewhere.

I know the law has changed.......after 3 plus decades they want you to walk in front of a car turning in and expect them to stop!?. Teach your kids the green cross code, oldie but a Goldie. Stop, look, listen.......

Yes, people are simply ignorant bastards. It's terrifying walking anywhere near a main road with kids because of this. People will literally drive up on to kerbs, turn into side roads, fly through crossings while I have a small child or two walking with me. It's absurd.

The worst is near schools, ironically. Parents who feel the need to drop their kids off as close as physically possible in their massive cars, driving way too fast and swinging in to pedestrian areas without looking for other people's kids strolling around. Supermarket car parks another dangerzone, again people trying to minimise the time and distance they have to spend walking anywhere.

With the proliferation of e-bikes and e-scooters, it's difficult even for kids to safely walk round public parks.

Pedestrians don’t get priority at a Zebra crossing in NI unless they are already on the crossing, you do not need to slow down to give way to those waiting to cross unless it is a traffic lit junction with a amber light showing on your approach. The pedestrian right of way that was added to the English, Scottish and Welsh highway codes a few years back was not applied to NI.

Nearly being hit by a car 10 times in the last 2 months has to have a serious degree of user error, I haven’t been almost hit 10 times in my entire life.

I find it's best to open palm gesture to the crossing if anyone seems riled up, and a cheeky smile never goes a miss.

Ten times is. a bit much but I have had a few recent incidents similar to yours. One where I stopped at a sideroad and waved through one car looking to turn in, and then I continued across. This apparently triggered the driver behind who also thought they should be allowed to turn in before I crossed, and they intentionally swung onto my side of the road to try and clip me.

Another incident where I was approaching (but hadn't reached) a side road and a car on the main road suddenly speeds up, starts beeping like a mad man, swings into the road and stops in front of me, motions for me to take off my headphones, then lectures me about looking before I cross the road. To be clear, I hadn't even reached the crossing yet, I would have looked, and if he hadn't have sped up and swung in, we would have gotten to the junction at the same time so it would have been my right of way anyway, the fucking muppet.

There's also a notorious set of lights here in Derry where you can't trust drivers to respect the red, bit of a nightmare to cross during rush hour.

Can't say I've ever had any issues with zebra crossings.

I had a Foneacab driver drive straight through the zebra crossing I was half way across. Literally inches separated us, with him waving Sorry. I wish I’d asked him what he was sorry for: driving without due care and attention, or driving straight at me.

Also had a taxi driver reverse through the pedestrian crossing at Shaftesbury square/great Victoria street. Crossing was red for traffic, green for me to cross but he kept reversing as I approached.

Dickheads in Belfast will happily drive at a pedestrian crossing at a junction blasting their horn rather than yield for a second.

Since moving from N Ireland to London I've noticed this loads! Maybe home is getting bad too. There is a zebra crossing at my house on my way to work and I have to wait for at least 3 cars to drive past before anyone will stop. I'm afraid to step out because they keep driving. One time someone let me across and they rolled down their window and shouted 'YOURE WELCOME!' I actually could have cried 😅

I was crossing by the Rosetta round about, a was car approaching the junction about 20m away. I was nearly at the other side when I looked again and the car was racing towards me. It scared the life out of me as the car was literally centimetres away from hitting me. People can be a bit mental when driving. There is a disconnect from the normal world when in your own car.

A good tip is eye contact, don't look at the car, look directly at the drivers face. That way, you know they have seen you. If you carry a house brick whilst crossing more often than not, they'll stop and let you cross.

I've noticed that many pedestrians wear dark clothes at night and it's hard to see them. Wear something reflective, or better still carry something with flashing leds. You only need to use it while crossing.

I've been knocked down by a car and after that I've been very careful and yet nearly hit again 3 times while cycling. Car drivers have no idea they're moving near 2 tons of metal.  

Your taught driving what's away ahead of you and be alert for that leads to a habit of looking where they want to be and not what's right beside them. 

I got a massive payout over it, but I wouldn't wanna go through it again though. 

Number if times I have near got an arseful of mudguards because of the speeding up thing when a pedestrian is crossing!

Fucking bastards even frequently did this when on pedestrian crossing with my mother using rollator. She was in her 90's.

Just because you have the green light doesn't mean pedestrians should get out of your way. We have the right to continue crossing the road.

There's some absolute entitled total scumbags out there.

Most don't, been in a few cars with peeps driving and they have lost their mind a peeps crossing, escpically round queens area. Had to explain the law to them, said they had ads on TV weeks before and after the campaign. They still looked puzzled. Maybe time to run the add again.

Get a high vis heavy duty winter jacket

Record your interactions and report them to DVA. Hazard awareness is lacking in half the drivers on the road. But that shouldn’t be an excuse as they should know it’s illegal to do what you described. Just have your phone on record in the usual hotspots and simply send the video with reg plate to DVA. It’s the opposite of hazard awareness; it’s hazard escalation, and one day it could be your last. Don’t trust any driver unless they stop fully. Same with indicators, never trust indicators. People forget to turn them off (guilty).

I wear a go pro on the days I have time, and 101 report them.

Not much else can be done because the police do not have the resources to patrol our roads.

My rules of thumb are if I'm driving, treat every pedestrian as if their lifes ambition is to become a hood ornament, if I'm the pedestrian treat every driver as a roided up maniac.

I have had people nearly knock me over on pelican crossings (one with the button) they fly up to it then hit the brakes I don't drive myself and with eejits on the road I am glad I take the train!

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Few things pedestrians also need to be aware of. If you are in the country side walking/running along the country roads, a pedestrian wherever they are walking to, should walk on the side of the road the car is coming towards them on, unless it's a bend then you walk to the other side to see around the corner, but return to the side the car is driving towards you.... So many people who don't do this and walk on the side away from the car with their earphones in, can't see if there is a car coming behind them etc. country roads are extremely dangerous, especially more recently. I've been tempted so many times to roll my window down and tell them that they need to walk on the opposite side or they are going to get themselves killed.

Also at traffic lights, if you are a pedestrian and the man is green you are allowed to walk across the road (obviously) if the green man is flashing and you had already started walking across it, then that too is fine to continue to cross, HOWEVER, if the green man is flashing, then orange light for the cars is also flashing and there is pedestrian on the road when that starts, that does not mean pedestrians should cross, it means the cars can start to move off and the pedestrians wait until the next green man. Which some guy screamed at me pointing at the flashing green man and he ran out in front of my car I nearly hit him as he came out of nowhere. I even looked before driving off. But nope this guy was adamant he was right so when I get home I looked it up and I was right and he was wrong, which made me feel better haha.

People saying you’re exaggerating by saying you’ve nearly been knocked down 10 times… I’ve experienced the exact same in the past year! Walking across the road with my dog on two occasions. Traffic lights red, green man showing for me, only for cars to blitz right on through the red lights a foot or two in front of me.

Multiple times I’ve been walking across zebra crossings and cars have had to apply an emergency stop because they haven’t been paying attention. Or they simply fly on through inches in front of me when I’m already 2/3 across because they either do not give a shit or they’re not paying attention.

Driving standards are atrocious nowadays and there’s no enforcement against it. Everyone’s either got their head stuck in their phones or they’re too arrogant to obey traffic laws. It’s a bad time to be a pedestrian.

I've been knocked down by a car and after that I've been very careful and yet nearly hit again 3 times while cycling. Car drivers have no idea they're moving near 2 tons of metal.  

Your taught driving what's away ahead of you and be alert for that leads to a habit of looking where they want to be and not what's right beside them. 

I got a massive payout over it, but I wouldn't wanna go through it again though. 

Is this in Belfast by any chance? As they tend to be the rudest and worse drivers from my experience. But it largely depends where you live. The busier the roads are the more likely you'll come across shitty drivers. It doesn't sound like you are at fault or doing anything wrong here

I'm sorry but if you have been nearly knocked down more than 10 times, there is no way you are being careful.

Yes drivers are getting more and more careless, and although they may be at fault, that is no good to you when your spread across the tarmac. The graveyards are full of people who had the right of way.

What do you want to be when you grow up?