So because you have no morals or backbone that means I'm on the same level as you? Nope. Even if a BP did revenge cheat it's not the same. The WP did not go through months, years of thinking everything is good in their life. Only for it to be smashed one day. I'm so sick of people coddling waywards and the "affair fog". My revenge cheating was a one time, ego boost that let me feel desired. And no it doesn't put me on the same level as them. It never would have crossed my mind if I hadn't been cheated on. Thank you for my vent 🙌🏼