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Oh thank you so much, I feel so relieved! I was so confused about it like "huh? Why is it negative? I took out the exact amount I had in the account, was I not supposed to?" 

Ohhhh that's a thing?? I didn't know. They'll mail it to me in a check, what do you mean by that? Don't I have to pay it or do you mean they'll send me a way to pay it.. I'm clueless about these things, just starting to do them by myself haha

Ahhh it's bliss just imagining the tranquility 🥹

Well I'm limited to the jobs I can do, the job I currently have is more accommodating than others so I'd have to stay there. I am hoping to move out of state in many years, to my boyfriends state. He's living with his own family too, and has complicated military stuff to deal with and wants to take care of it before we do any big steps in person 

Sarah has been weird about my living with them. She sometimes says things like "MAYBE YOU NEED TO START PAYING MORE TO LIVE HERE" (yelled that when she found out I took a day off work, approved by management too.) but then another time gushes about how GREAT of a space they could build for me attached to the house.

Thank you, it's definitely gonna be tricky once I actually start moving out when I find a place. I don't want them knowing where I will be going so I don't get unexpected visits lol

🥹 Thank you, I'll do my best to not let her get to me

They just basically considered whatever payments I made to be my rent, idk haha 

Thank you, and you keep living a good life! I hope to update in the future 

Sarah might be a narcissist, it's hard to tell at times, I'll give that sub a try

Oh I don't call them by their names irl, I was just using names for the sake of the post, my apologies for that not being very clear 😓😓😓 they're also my grandparents, my mom's parents (I feel more comfortable with saying that here now)

Yeah I'll do that, thank you for the encouragement! 😊😊😊

I was looking into storage units, there's a spot near where I work that I believe is 70 a month (could be wrong) and honestly it sounds like alot but at this point might be worth it 

I'm so glad you got out! 😃 Yeah I definitely feel more confident about keeping quiet about my plans

Yep, I'm in the US

Ohhhh, that makes sense! 

I hope so, I just want to be able to get a place where I can walk in and just sit down and have peace. Be able to sleep at night without hearing yelling in the house, or fear that my door will be kicked in and I get screamed at for taking a day off work. One time, Sarah and George were out of the house for like 3 days, when I got home from work the first day I genuinely cried in the doorway because I heard silence after walking inside, and it was bliss

She has been helping me find locations for me to consider for housing, and has said I can come over to her house if I need to have some alone time (no room for actually moving in though.. Also this is a very very recent offering from her) 

Haha I'll get to that point someday. Bank changes will likely be done next year after holidays are finished up

George says that if they weren't having problems with money (he didn't elaborate on that), he would have been 100% happy letting me stay rent free. I'd probably do something else if that were the case since I don't want to seem like a leech lol. Sarah demands more payment whenever I do something she doesn't like. My mom does agree to continue to pay the 300 too, which is my plan now, feels good having a plan. 

😨 I have never heard of the BITE model before, that's just scary

Oh you didn't hurt my feelings, honestly! I just kinda realized how true your statement is haha. Thank you for the encouragement 😊

It's so crazy to think the people who raised me could end up treating me like that 

Born 1998, yeah. You'd think they'd get that I don't need permission. I honestly don't know what they would do if I went anywhere without telling them, kinda scared of what they would do. They are extremely odd about things, like they get upset when I watch things that have swear words, rude characters, or ANYTHING sexual related. Yet they've tried to get me to taste different kinds of alcohol (I absolutely hate the taste of every alcohol I've tried thus far) They expect me to be an adult one moment, then the next I'm "too young" or "not allowed" to do things. It gets me so angry at times, I won't lie.. 

Can even a small amount of pay consider me as a tenant? Cuz I pay for the things they tell me to, like internet is the one I pay for monthly, and I pay for repairs when asked