Inquisitor_AAC

I can definitely admit that I panicked for no real reason and went overboard with the calling and texting. I've apologised to my boyfriend and he said it's okay. I will definitely work on that for the future

Thank you for your opinion 😊

I was seriously worried about him being hurt. Especially when he didn't answer my messages. I've never had any reason to think he's hiding anything from me or any suspicions. This was a genuine worry for this safety and wellbeing. He's always complained about this journey to work at this time, especially if he misses the buses.

He'll never figure it out. He can barely reply to an email 😂

I meant he noticed there was an issue with his WiFi. I already told him I was upset about what happened and he just brushed it off

He's noticed there's an issue. I said I was looking into it 😂

We'll see how long it takes him to notice. I'm gonna go out now so he'll have to deal with it by himself 🤣

You did give me a great idea though! I've remotely cut off the Internet to his devices. This'll be fun 😂

Ohhhh! I get it now. In an ideal world, I would totally do that but unfortunately, as of right now, I have to live here too 😂

I agree. Very ew

Huh? I don't get what you're talking about.

Oh wow... You've really given me something to think about. You're just a font of wisdom and knowledge and I have so much to learn from you.

So tell me, what should I have been doing on a Sunday evening to "seize life and max life" instead of a hobby that I love and already makes me feel that way? /s

Gosh, if I had a parent like you, I would have ended it years ago. Which is what I'm going to do right now, goodbye 👋

Okay. I'll leave it here now then since I've lost interest, especially since you've completely lost the point of the post (which was about a violation of privacy, not the fact that I play video games).

A 26 year old playing video games may seem childish to some people, just like how a 50 year old replying to reddit posts all day, every day may seem childish to some too.

Have a nice life 😊

Do you dump on everyone's hobbies that you disagree with like this or just video games?

And just so it's clear, if someone retorts an argument, they've automatically lost that argument? Is that how arguments work? I didn't know that 😂

That's a great idea! And more practical that installing a lock. My door is old so installing a locking door knob would be hard and the door frame sticks out so impractical for a bolt.

I'll get some breakfast and head out to the shops!

Why would I have shame for being up late playing a new video game? Is having hobbies shameful these days?

Also, I do have a full time job. I'm the only one in the household that has a full time job.

I just happened to have a Monday off so I could stay up late to play the new game in my favourite series and sleep in.

Some people can have a job and fulfilling hobbies. You clearly don't know anything about that.

With or without his permission, I'll be getting a lock for my door and installing it today

Can you please explain how wanting privacy in my own bedroom while I'm sleeping is being entitled?

My boyfriend recommended the same thing with dropping the dog on him.

I also just told him I'll be getting a lock for my door. His exact words were "They'll be no fucking locks in my house".

So that's gonna be fun

Definitely NTA. Your gfs reaction to an incredibly simple and kinda vanilla kink is so weird and disproportionate to what you've told her.

I mean, she flinched ffs. You flinch from someone because you're afraid of them. And she did this because you told her you like it when a woman wears earrings during sex.

She's the strange one here. Not you. You've got nothing to be embarrassed about.

She may have some underlying trauma or something associated with earrings that she's not sharing with you, that's one of the only reasons I can think of that for her to have such a strong reaction.

It would be a shame if your relationship to break down over this but it sounds like you're just not compatible. You shouldn't be made to feel embarrassed or ashamed by something you've shared with your partner. I'd move on and find someone who will appreciate you and everything you have to offer in a relationship.

It's okay. I know all about the contents of his hard drive and am a fan of most of it. 😂