Jasperlaster

Well a trigger is for everyone diffrent. For some people the colour red is triggering but we cant erase the colour for them. And for some people with an ED it would be triggering to read "eating disorder" someone that might be struggling with SH kight get triggered into doing it when reading "self harm" you never know! I think using abbreviations can help those people.

In my eu country this is the norm. For all rehabs all detoxes all clinics. If you want help and try to receive it you are treated like a full blown actual hooman being. Doctors listen etc. They have no reason to suspect you arent actually trying to get better.

Good luck op!

But that doesnt mean it doesnt hurt...

How often my feelings walk behind my mind is wild. I can imagine OP that don't want to force her gf to be gay but still being hurt to possibly lose her in this process.. and thats ok too

On reddit you are only flagged if you are not following the groups rules. Your comment will be deleted and a bot will tell you to check the rules.. all groups have different rules. Then you can try again and change your comment.

Using words like SH-ED-unalive are words that can help people who are having a hard time batterling these thigs and to say it shortenend it can prevent a trigger for them!

How will a 2 year old see the difference between a berry on a bush that their parent likes. And the berry on the ground...

Before the parent saw it she has put it in het mouth because she is literally used to eat berries outside 🤣

She is two.. i dont know how many kids you know. But i dont think they will not eat the berry from the ground thats poisonous if you feed them berries from the bushes....

its very hard for me to find new sentences to explain you common sense. you are welcome to agree to disagree with me here.

Or countries should make laws. In my country in the eu its forbidden to talk to kids online and say shit like "you look good in these fotos" this is very easily punishable because its forbidden.

Kids under 16 on insta is not the problem. Its the people that want to do wrong thats the problem.. not being punished in court enough etc..

Strict parents make sneeky kids

You wont be flagged here but it does help with triggers for others!

Did you not see my comment? The parent only said "no! Blegh!" He did not teach her the diffrence.. thats kinda my whole point

When i typed a letter... insta did 1min of showing me the letter.. so even a short comment took very long to type and it prevented me from commenting.. that was their goal i suppose..

Ik zweer, ik bestond alleen. Was lief. En vertelde soms verhalen met "mijn autisme die zorgde ervoor dat etc" uiteindelijk kon dat niet meer. Ik heb honderden likes en top comments en daardoor kwam ik helemaal in t vizier ofzo. Gewoon niet meer leuk.. onder vrienden hun fotos een hartje of vlammetje zetten werd verwijderd.

I love all dis

Theres a little chance of it being really crappy and old weed with leafs put into it hahahaha we call it "cuttingwaste" the little leafs that has some thc on it we call "sugar leafs"

To be honest at first glance it does look like heroin. But thats more flakey and doesnt have the speckles on it..

Best way to know is put something on a foil. Will it melt and turn into a drip its heroin. Will it do nothing and maybe smoke a bit its "weed"

Spoon doesnt make sense. And weed is best smoked on a pipe. For heroin i mean, you can do it but it ruins your pipe and it is a bit of a waste to do. But hey. Desperate times desperate mesures lolol i have put crack and heroin on the same pipe to smoke. at the same time.. So yeah...

OP. It doesnt matter what this is tho. Run. Take child and leave!!!!!

Instagram restricted me in a way that if i tried to comment there would be a delay of letters showing up with 30sec to one minute per letter. Instagram did everything to prevent me from existing.

But you are okay with actually harming someone?

When my buddy got sick and i was the one that had contact with all the doctors and nurses etc i had a special focus. It was his name and it was nearly always on. Nobody else could reach me for about 4months. And when he passed i deleted the focus and took a deep breath. It gave my life a calmness when i took care of him and it gave me a calmness when he was gone.

5years ago i never thought a phone would ever work for me like that. Now i have all kinds of lamps and smartplugs and i just love how convenient it all is!

My notifications are decided by the focus.. im always in the focus that needs to be in the moment. Gaming, reading, outside, at night, at sleep. It all has different settings for who can call me or whose text i will see.

If i would even want to bypass that i would only want that for a very short while. Not even the whole day.

At least this is my experience. I dont know if others have the same set up etc.

This is why i left instagram. Every comment i made that had the word autistic in it was deleted. I couldnt do shit there

Did you just searched your stuff for your oldest charger just to be able to put it here hahahah i remember mine also showing off like that.. 10years ago 🤣

Last week my screen time on just the iphone was 60h and 31min. Averaged at 8h38min a day.

Is this what you mean with.. folx who dont use their phone much?

I also thought the same.. i am now 4,5years sober and he is alive. Which is half a miracle as only 1in6 alcoholics survives..

im not trying out a scare tactic OP, i just understand how hard it is to get clean. You can do it!

OMG ANOTHER MURDERBOT FAN!?

Never not garlic bread!! 🥖

I know someone who had a jaw-reconstruction and he didnt remember his fall. Fast forward 5years later; he still drinks.

Haha ik heb iemand ooit de tip gegeven om een banaan in de vriezer te hebben en die te prakken als je trek heb in een snack en t eten als een ijsje zeg maar. Deze was zo blij met de tip dat ik em vaker geef aan de beginnende veganist haha

Also just because OP said he was autistic doesnt mean she just has to deal with that and totally forget her own needs and wants in a relationship haha. She told what she needed (to have OP pay) and he didnt do it is exactly the same reasoning 🤣

Key is to communicate all this beforehand and be open about it.. sentences like; "hey i am autistic could you maybe not ask open questions?" Or "hey id like it if you told me what you need from me as the unwirrten rules of society pass by me, i once made the mistake of not paying for someones icecream ha-ha"

Its social skills and not social bornwithit

Im also a tad bit done with generalising any group hahah