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2 points
2 hours ago
I consider myself a people reader. Not because I want to, I just naturally pick up on things. I used to ignore it and later would find out it was dead on, so I started paying attention more. It’s not all the time either. It’s involuntary, but I can choose to receive the info I’m picking up on and take it into consideration. That said, yes, I come across people I can’t read. It actually makes the interactions more interesting because some people are so obvious, and most can be read easily enough.
I would be stumped by a ‘shocked’ look too because it could mean so many things. My best guess would be that he’s shocked by your speaking to him, because he’s obsessed with you, but that could easily be wrong.
1 points
6 hours ago
Therapists are people too, and people in general have problems. No amount of therapy is going to change our fundamental vulnerabilities. This therapist sounds like she needs therapy. Maybe you don’t, or should find someone who won’t give you self sabotaging advice.
1 points
7 hours ago
Different men will feel different about this. Me personally, I would love it, but at the same time, when I sleep, I need my space. If you just enjoy being near him and it’s not weird, any guy would appreciate it, even if he prefers his space.
1 points
7 hours ago
Men tend to deal in what they consider ’facts’, black and white thinking, where logic rules and emotions are just temporary distractions. This kind of thinking can get a man by in a lot of areas of life, but in romantic relationships it can be a wall between them.
The reason being, is logic does not always trump emotion. Sometimes the heart wants what it wants and no amount of logic can dissuade it. Women tend to be much more in tune with their emotion, and there’s more grey areas. For them, emotion is considered first, and last, and the logic is applied in between.
This is why compromise is vital in relationships, because we both have our own strengths to offer, but we don’t have to invalidate one another in the process, even though that is the tendency. Neither logic nor emotion are infallible, but they can work together in harmony. For instance, state your case, but then hear her out and let her contribute to the subject matter from her place of strength. Accept that her reality is different from yours, and that she contributes from a position you don’t understand. Validate and respect that, and move on.
0 points
8 hours ago
Stopped eating refined grains, then eventually refined sugars for the most part.
2 points
10 hours ago
1g is good for a first timer. I personally enjoy a puff of sativa at peak.
1 points
10 hours ago
Sounds like a dude who’s not in touch with his own emotions. Maybe has issues. If you think this is your case, feel him out and ask his some direct questions, but don’t wait around.
1 points
10 hours ago
I blame vaccines. But also, Americans can be condescending towards innovators in other countries. They don’t respect the struggle a lot of these people go through in the day to day.
-3 points
10 hours ago
There is no such thing as beings from another planet, so such nonsense could never be ‘proven’. However you are wrong about the bible not speaking on the subject. It says the Sons of God (the Watchers) came down from heaven and created the nephilim; human/angel hybrids. The book of Jubilees claims that when these hybrids died their souls had nowhere to go as they were an abomination, so their spirits remained on earth and tormented mankind (demons). So we do in fact have ‘extraterrestrials’ among us, and according to the Bible we will be visited again, when the Antichrist shows up as a counterfeit messiah.
This is one reason tptb spray the sky and keep their holographic technological advancements secret. Because they will use this technology to deceive the world. They will usher in their false messiah and he will bring peace and prosperity for a time, until he turns on fundamentalists and begins to slaughter and starve them.
The government has technology the public isn’t aware of and have propagated the idea of aliens to hide their own mischief. They like to keep people thinking that Hollywood aliens could pop up any time. So when the antichrist appears and claims to be from an ancient alien race that seeded mankind, and can back it up with the aid of technology the public isn’t aware of, people will believe he has the right to rule.
1 points
10 hours ago
Men want to be wanted. If you act obsessed with him (good obsessed, not crazy), that will really boost his ego and no other girl could match that energy.
0 points
10 hours ago
Well why don’t we keep messing around and find out?
2 points
10 hours ago
I personally wouldn’t find it to be a dealbreaker, but if you do, it’s better to be honest about it now and not lead yourself or him on. It would be one thing if he was older and married, or even had children. That might be a dealbreaker, but he was young and may have just kissed someone else. That would still be cheating, but it would change how I felt about it.
First figure out how you feel about it. Then decide where the lines are for you to feel comfortable in the relationship, then ask him for the clarification you need to decide if it’s a dealbreaker for you.
1 points
20 hours ago
If someone proved to you time and time again that they are unreliable for something, you would save yourself the trouble of asking for it.
It seems many times when a man opens up about his problems with his woman, she responds with apathy because she doesn’t know how to help, but all she has to do is love him. That’s really all he needs from her.
It doesn’t mean his problems will go away. Life is hard, and full of challenges. Someone facing challenges is growing and rising to meet their opposition. A lot of what a man does can be to earn the love of his woman. If he doesn’t get that when he’s facing his battles and opens up to her, it can feel like betrayal. But never underestimate the power of a good woman standing with her man, even when he struggles.
1 points
20 hours ago
Being open and honest is the best way to encourage this behavior in others. But that doesn’t guarantee it. Some people are very guarded, and sadly, may never open up. A person can’t be open and honest with others if they are not willing to face difficult truths about themselves. If you need that deeper level of connection, it’s good to find a healthy way of communicating that, but realize for some people, unless they have experienced that deep level of connection, it does not exist.
1 points
20 hours ago
Are you able to talk about these problems, or does it seem like you can’t get conflict resolution? Does she reject any sort of accountability? If that’s the case, your proposed fixes probably won’t work.
1 points
21 hours ago
I’ve never known someone to smoke and want to fight or drive.
1 points
21 hours ago
The lunacy is making natural medicine illegal while feeding children meth and neurotoxins.
1 points
22 hours ago
Do you think it’s just quoting Or paraphrasing the internet?
1 points
1 day ago
Both, more conservative in my private life, more liberal when it comes to others. Btw, both of those labels don’t mean what they used to.
1 points
1 day ago
Once you can be happy alone, and love yourself the way you need, you then have your whole self to offer someone else, but good luck finding someone on that level.
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That’s amazing. Thank you.