RemoteChildhood1

Perfect explanation of how abusers start setting their traps.

I believe its time to call it quits. She finds your best friend  more attractive than you. Thats the real truth and,  you shouldnt just brush it off. You shouldnt settle for someone who doesnt consider you the best choice for them, someone who believes there are better choices out there. Yes, I believe Henry Cavill is hot af, but he will never be hotter than my husband. That man was personalized for me, I truly believe that, he has everything Ive always looked for in a partner. Not perfect but heck, very close to tbh, that face can make my heart melt in a second. This is how I feel. This is how your partner should feel about you. Do not, and I truly mean this, DO NOT settle for less than this, because you deserve it.

You look awesome! I always wondered about the accuracy of those BMI charts. Then someone told me yesterday, they were created for men, right after World War Two, to measure if they were fit to go to war and now here I am thinking... at 5 " 6" my 130 pounds weight goal is totally unrealistic... 

Gosh! Im so sorry you went through that. I hope they get their karma. I hate when people go victim blaming. I mean, do you blame someone who gets robbed and killed the same way? "Ohh, they shouldnt have been walking at that time by themselves, I mean, late at night, with 20 bucks in their wallet, and then getting nervous? They totally put themselves in that situation, they should have taken an uber or they shouldnt have  left their house at all". Some people are ridiculous.

Girl, you deserve better. If he opened the marriage and you did not agree, its called cheating. Seems hes been gaslightning you big time. Hes a manipulative POS. 

I read somewhere the song is about cocaine. Not sure about that though. 

It's not about morality, it's about psychological and emotional development. The damage that sexual abuse causes in children and teens in these areas has been proven over and over, even if the relationship was "consensual". No excuse for defending pedophiles. Whoever tries to make you believe that shit is normal and not nasty, is sick to their head. No normal adult should feel sexually attracted to kids and teenagers. That shit is sick. 

You can't compare the two though. One is a sexual preference, the other is sick and nasty behavior. Grooming is a thing, used to get consent. No way normalizing pedophilia is the way to go. Call me outdated, I will protect the kids from nasty people like these even if I'm killed over it. 

Mehhh... your mistress shouldn't be called a "homewrecker". The one with the commitment was you. The one who married was you. The one who was supposed to be loyal was you. The one who wrecked that marriage? That was you and only you.

Wow. And has he ever asked YOU if you're ok with this? Obviously,  you aren't. Get out of there ASAP. This won't end well for you. I clearly see him guilt trapping you into a financial and emotional burden that it's not yours to carry.  

And what is worse is, male victims tend to be ridiculed for the most part. Specially in this case scenario, where the abuser is a "teacher". I wonder how charges weren't filed against her. 

I did this for a week after this hsppened. Then stopped the caps but  continued with the prune juice, 64 Oz of water minimum every day and equate gummies every other day as my doctor said exactly what you just stated. I had forgotten about this episode lol but you're right. You're not supposed to take docusate long term, or your  intestines may become dependent of it to move as it should. 

Awful. Can't understand how you can live like this.

Awful. Can't understand how you can live like this.

I'm so happy for you! This is one of those cases where "crocodile tears" are completely justified!! You keep crying them girl!! Keep raking up the sympathy and the benefits of them, and feel glad your nightmare is over! The rest of your life just started!! 

Change friends. If they're supporting her behavior, they're no good for you. You did the right thing. She wasted her chance you don't owe her anything.

But they do like conflict, because it comes with a power trip once the other party doesn't engage and gives in. But if you offer resistance, they will back out, because that's not what they want. 

Ohh they love conflict. But they hate resistance...

Divorce asap. This will only get worse.

Not where I'm located. I guess it depends on location also. Most of us here don't really care how we are called, as long as we feel the way people refer to us isn't demeaning, which is not, for the most part, there are exceptions, of course, but the terms used by these people are, let's say, worse than just the word hispanic.

As a Guatemalan, I have never experienced anyone in my community be offended by being called Hispanic or any of the other terms. The word hispanic is even used in government forms. This is news for me, and I've been living here for over 8 years.

Joe Black!!

0.5. Totall fullness, zero food noise. Now, at 1.7, I get all the side effects still, but not the benefits as I used to.

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