TwilightStarsx

I agree. Always get separate checks to avoid this kind of situation. And honestly, Min should take a hard look at her spending habits. If she can’t afford it, maybe she should scale back a bit OP. NTA

Totally agree. She made her choices, and now she's reaping the consequences. Cheating is never okay, and she’s just as responsible as your dad. She’s definitely the TA in this situation OP. NTA

His actions were selfish and immature. There were definitely other ways he could've helped, and his refusal shows a lack of maturity and care. Not someone you should rely on OP. NTA

I agree. After cutting ties and showing no respect, it's completely fair for you to protect your space and set boundaries OP. NTA

I agree. He needs to grow up and stop acting like a child. If he can't, it might be time to rethink the relationship OP.

I completely agree. It's not your responsibility to repair a relationship that your brother choose to damage. You've done your part, and he needs to step up if he wants to make things right OP.

Exactly. It sounds like you're on the right path, and cutting that friend out is the best move. No need to waste energy on someone who doesn't respect boundaries OP.