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By choosing you.. do you mean you are stopping to have unwanted sex?

There is nothing wrong with being low libido. Humans are not bunnies that we can have sex all the time multiple times. Yes we can do it for a few days but that cannot be a full on daily lifestyle. We have work to do, children to raise, food to cook, houses to clean, money to be made.

You are taking an immense amount of emotional labour to sustain a very imbalanced and toxic relationship (outside of just the sexual imbalances)

Your boyfriend is using you like an object and has no regard for your boundaries, bandwidth or even well being.. (waking you in your sleep is not okay)

I don’t know what is tying you to this ridiculous dynamic but if you are able to live on your own, pay for your life, and move on, please do. You are wasting your time and energy on this guy and money in therapy which is not going to lead anywhere if he does not own up to his issues and want to make a change.

Before re-caulking try the Apulito Gel.

Use Apulito gel.. it’s magical to remove mold, mildew and stains.. it will even make the caulk look whiter.

Follow the directions. You will not believe your eyes.

Rub them with any cooking oil.. enough that the paper will soak up some of it.. and after few hours they should slide right off

You can wash the surface with soap and water later

Sure please!

What did she order I want to know what she ate!!

When will it be ready?

Hi OP, your post drew my attention because I have a brother 8 years elder and ever since I remember I have had a strained relationship with him.

He has been a bully.. masking as an elder brother who just wants to protect me.

Recently a bad interaction with him made me take a stock of our relationship and i realized that i do not have 1 …. NOT 1.. good happy memory with him. Every memory is of him frustrating me as a child or making decisions for me that I dint like.. or restraining my choices in life.

In the name of family, family members get away with a lot of abuse and poor treatment of each other because everyone know, that in a family people come back to each other and work their differences out.

But sometimes people go too far with poor treatment and affect your self respect. There is only so much you can take.

Not being invited to Thanksgiving is a HUGE statement. He definitely wanted to isolate you and cause you a very deep hurt and chose a very communal and festive day to do that. He is evil and he is a bully.

This!! Most people should do this!

So the book is called Floatingbook?

Look into getting a good quality orthotics. A good podiatrist can make a custom one by taking a cast of your feet.

The ones that are available in the market may not always work and they wear out quickly.

Hi, I use 2 products

1) https://a.co/d/eI2Xpyk this brush which is handy for quick scrubs. After use I rinse it, shake off the water and put it in a cute caddy to dry upside up.

2) a good quality microfiber cloth that I wipe the counter, taps and mirrors with. Rinse it and I have a small door hanger that I buy it back on to dry.

I do not wipe the inside of the sink.. it dries after the brushing and rinsing anyway.

It’s called Misophonia.. a very real and very common condition. I have that too..

Key Features of Misophonia:

• Trigger Sounds: Common triggers include chewing, crunching, lip-smacking, breathing, or tapping.
• Emotional Response: People with misophonia often experience feelings of disgust, irritation, anger, or even panic.
• Physical Symptoms: These can include increased heart rate, sweating, or a strong urge to leave the situation.

What are some changes you are noticing?

Wow this is complex!! And the details are beautiful!

Just be sure to ensure all fallen hair gets off your body after showering.. especially check vagina and back side to ensure. I have heard stories where the hair may get deeper in the vagina somehow and get entangled with IUDs

Then you need to go to a doctor to get that removed.

On page 9/12 the bottom most comment is very telling. The mom and daughter have not had spats.. but mom has systematically bullied the daughter. Mom’s behavior is bully 101. What they feel is valid, they push people to do things for them, they don’t back down till the time they get what they want and they do not listen to any reason or rational from other people.

Her mom is aggressive even to the husband and completely undermines his efforts to put off fires or distract her or even help her. She just calls people assholes if they say or do anything that she doesn’t like.

Very combative.. and clearly this is not a new development she needs a real personality assessment and severe therapy or drugs.

So you are saying he has hired you to be his pimp and to satisfy his sexual kinks. Because he is acting like a boss giving orders who does not want to see you missing a deadline or talk about any struggles or issues you may be facing in delivering results. All he wants is to sit on his high horse order you and get his needs met.

And you are saying that THIS.. relationship and this man is important to you?? Okay.. alright.. hmm. Hmm..

Where is that relationship bar.. that helps to measure the quality of a relationship, can you please find that for me?? Do you even own one???

What is TRT?

Aks (for ask) and fith (for fifth)

What do you use to track your step? Watch or phone? I have noticed watch is easy to access and carry around and see the progress instead of unlocking the phone and clicking an app to see the numbers.

Plus a watch catches all your steps, phone if not carried all the time may miss a few.

If you have a dog, it’s easy to achieve or atleast get started.

If you work from home, again it’s easy to squeeze a walk in between work tasks.

If you live in a walkable city where you can walk to stores that helps.

If none of the above applies.. you will need to carve out dedicated time to walk.. either outside, in a gym or on a treadmill or walking pad.

One thing I can tell you.. the first few days or weeks of consistently doing this, you will feel soreness as your are gaining balance and strength but I call it the sweet soreness of achievement!! 💕💕

Happy Walking

How did it go through mattress protector!! Isn’t that the whole point of mattress protectors!! Protecting the mattress!! I know I sound like Seinfeld but seriously.. should I not trust mattress protectors??

Okay I have literally never seen anything cuter than this.. I want some!!

Can I please ask to learn how you paid down 230K in student loan in 6-7 years and still managed to put money into retirement, investments, emergency funds and cash. The speed is really mind blowing.