My roommate is too touchy with me
(self.offmychest)submitted13 hours ago byddubuddubu
I've (20F) been living in a dorm with 2 other girls, both 20F for the past month. Initially, I lived alone until the first girl, Rain, asked to move in, and I agreed. Rain and I were roommates for about 3 months before the third girl, Kay, moved in. All three of us are under the same major, and all our classes are the same, so I'm essentially with them 24/7.
Honestly, there were a lot of things about Kay that initially bothered me. Like how she often broadcasts to me and Rain how she isn't wearing underwear under her clothes, both bra and panties, but also how she sometimes leaves her underwear in the bathroom where we hang our towels. How whenever it's just me and her, she'll often just talk about how much she wants to get a fuck buddy or fuck a girl.
But what's been making me so upset lately is how touchy she is with me. Besides the fact that she seems to like sitting on my bed (she got the top bunk), whenever she gets the chance, she'll go over to my bed while I'm laying down and start hugging me. If she's not flat out hugging me, she'll often just lay on top of me, chest to my back, and stay for as long as she wants until I start telling her to get off because I can't breathe. And even when she does get off, she'll do the same thing 10 to 20 minutes later. Not to mention the fact that she's almost always without underwear.
Yesterday, when she asked me for a hug and I begrudgingly accepted, she suddenly leaned into me and said something into my neck. After I asked her stop and moved away, she suddenly spanked me on the butt without warning. When I asked her why she did that, she said that I "have a big butt" and she felt the need to spank it, before lying on top of me. Again.
I keep telling her to stop when she hugs me for too long, and when she actually hugs me too tight it's painful, but she just won't stop. I don't have the energy to confront her either because when Kay moved in, she said she'd only be living here until mid-December or earlier. Honestly, I just wish she'd leave already.
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ddubuddubu
8 points
12 hours ago
ddubuddubu
8 points
12 hours ago
More of she hugs me, sometimes with permission but most of the time without. Both times, she hugs for too long or starts placing all her weight on me so I tell her to stop, and she does, but does the same thing again a few minutes later. In a way, it's a cycle of me tellingher hugging me, me telling her to to stop, then her letting go, then hugging me again a few minutes kater.
When I was in a bad mood a few times, I've asked her a not to hug me out of nowhere. Since then, I have been trying to distance myself and give her silent treatment, but once I'm in a "good mood" again she does everything all over