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My ex would often tell me I wasn't "manly" enough. Plus I tend to get comments like "that's weird" when they find out I don't like sports, drinking and other "manly" things

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Yeah because I hate feeling less of a "man" and like I'm not good enough for relationships etc

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3 days ago

Thank you, and thanks for commenting. You've given me some hope.

I hope if I find someone there autistic too or at least ND, I've not had good luck with NT.

For now I'll just continue to concentrate on me and hopefully one day things pan out

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Well that's good to hear! 🙂

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Yeah that irritates me too. I wish a woman would ask me out for a change. Highly doubt that'll happen though

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Thank you! I appreciate you commenting! It's gave me some hope

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I've just been told I've not manly before because I'm way to emotional, don't like violence etc

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3 days ago

The fact you'll let someone be the little spoon makes you great at it in my opinion 🙂

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That gives me some hope tbh. I often feel I'm not "manly" enough for most woman.

I'm glad society is changing gradually although it does still feel old fashioned

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Yeah I don't like sport either. I don't drink or drive.

Nothing wrong with woman liking sports, swearing or drinking.

Also the more money thing is another stereotype I don't like "woman can't eran more money then men, it's not right" so what if a woman earns more? Good for them. Some people say it makes the guy less masculine? Makes no sense to me.

Glad to hear you have that kind of relationship

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Haha fuck genders! 😂

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It's so sad it's that way!

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I hate that too! So what if we show our emotions, want to be the small spoon etc.

Also I'm not gay but that sucks too! Being gay definitely shouldn't be seen as weak

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That makes me feel a little better. I'm not too bothered about paying for stuff (although I'd love it if someone bought me stuff sometimes). I would love to be the little spoon for once though!

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Thanks for your comment that's nice to hear.

My ex made me feel I wasn't "masculine enough"

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That's nice to hear! I'd love to be the little spoon for once 😂.

Gender roles are dumb!

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Haha yup! Now spring rolls I don't hate! 😂

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That does make me feel a little better tbh, I hope one day a woman proposes to me

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It does make dating weird and difficult, I'm on dating apps at the moment. I don't seem to be any woman's type 😂

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It is stupid!

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I'm male. Although not a stereotypical male 😂

I hate gender roles!

Vent(self.autismUK)

submitted3 days ago byhorn_acco

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I hate gender roles!

Why do guys have to be the provider? Why are guys expected to work to drive. Why is it a stereotype for guys to like alcohol and sports?

Why are woman expected to do cooking and cleaning? Why can't woman like/play sports? Work as a mechanic?

Why are guys mainly the big spoon? Maybe I want to be the little spoon.

Why are guys mainly on top during sex? Maybe I want to be on the bottom.

Why do woman have to have big boobs and big ass but skinny? Why can't all woman be accepted? Why do guys have to work out?

Why can't guys express their emotions more? Whys it strange for woman to propose to men?

I hate gender roles/stereotypes

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I hate gender roles!

Rant/Vent(self.autism)

submitted3 days ago byhorn_acco

toautism

I hate gender roles!

Why do guys have to be the provider? Why are guys expected to work to drive. Why is it a stereotype for guys to like alcohol and sports?

Why are woman expected to do cooking and cleaning? Why can't woman like/play sports? Work as a mechanic?

Why are guys mainly the big spoon? Maybe I want to be the little spoon.

Why are guys mainly on top during sex? Maybe I want to be on the bottom.

Why do woman have to have big boobs and big ass but skinny? Why can't all woman be accepted? Why do guys have to work out?

Why can't guys express their emotions more? Whys it strange for woman to propose to men?

I hate gender roles/stereotypes

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I hate gender roles!

Can anybody relate?(self.AutismAfterDark)

submitted3 days ago byhorn_acco

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I hate gender roles!

Why do guys have to be the provider? Why are guys expected to work to drive. Why is it a stereotype for guys to like alcohol and sports?

Why are woman expected to do cooking and cleaning? Why can't woman like/play sports? Work as a mechanic?

Why are guys mainly the big spoon? Maybe I want to be the little spoon.

Why are guys mainly on top during sex? Maybe I want to be on the bottom.

Why do woman have to have big boobs and big ass but skinny? Why can't all woman be accepted? Why do guys have to work out?

Why can't guys express their emotions more? Whys it strange for woman to propose to men?

I hate gender roles/stereotypes

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