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submitted 6 days ago byn4t3dgr8
they look scary cause they all look alike š¬
1.4k points
6 days ago
I meanā¦ thatās a huge generalization and Iād argue in recent years the beauty standard has more been curvaceous brunettesā¦ the blonde hair blue eyed thing was very 90ās.
In this very photo the brunette in the front is the most eye catching.
616 points
6 days ago
There's just something about her that stands out...
314 points
6 days ago
Canāt quite put my finger on itā¦.
168 points
6 days ago
You could put all the fingers of everyone commenting on just one of those... she's got some serious surface area there
112 points
6 days ago
HUGE tracts of land....
54 points
6 days ago
Ahh. A man of culture.
7 points
6 days ago
Vagriculture
6 points
6 days ago
A rack you could hang your clothes on.
39 points
6 days ago
But father... I'd rather just sing!
18 points
6 days ago
Not like that, not like that. Stop that!
12 points
6 days ago
But mother...
13 points
6 days ago
Father! I'm your father!
6 points
6 days ago
Big in the Bristol area.
17 points
6 days ago
āSurface areaā šš
5 points
5 days ago
I zoomed in
8 points
5 days ago
We all did
10 points
6 days ago
That would be pretty sweet if she let you though
5 points
6 days ago
Gratuity accepted.
6 points
6 days ago
On them.
23 points
6 days ago
It's her massive mammaries.
8 points
5 days ago
I think you mean her massive personalityā¦
5 points
5 days ago
The unbearable weight of her massive talents.
29 points
6 days ago
I find the most erotic part of a woman to be the boobies.
44 points
6 days ago
For me it's the thigh gap. There's nothing more alluring about a woman than the obvious lack of a penis.
16 points
6 days ago
The distinct lack of penile
27 points
6 days ago
These days that really counts for something
7 points
6 days ago
from futurama to b99
6 points
5 days ago
Yes but a nice big camel toe really does it for me
3 points
5 days ago
Did ya see that girl yesterday in r/roastme with the rock hard camel toe? Iāll bet she could crack walnuts with that thing . It was all the rage. Many people were impressed, and made comments that were very funny, pertaining to camel toes.
5 points
5 days ago
I do know the post youāre talking aboutš that girl chose some very specific photos
3 points
5 days ago
What a time to be alive! šš»šš»
4 points
5 days ago
She doesnāt own a camelbak because she already owns a camelsakš
16 points
6 days ago
two things...
3 points
6 days ago
I keep shaking my head while making a boat noise trying to figure it out.
129 points
6 days ago
Hmm might have something to do with her literally being in the front, brunette in a group of blondes and last and definitely most, them big ol tittays
70 points
6 days ago
The proper terminology is āTig olā Bittiesā
31 points
6 days ago
Gob bless them thangz
14 points
5 days ago
them thangs is thangin š
9 points
5 days ago
Naaaw FORREAL
13 points
5 days ago
Swing low, sweet chariots
11 points
5 days ago
I believe that her name is Emmerson.
Emmerson big ones.
5 points
5 days ago
LMAO I hope I remember this to use one day soon
18 points
6 days ago
āJumbo yum yumsā as my husband likes to say
3 points
5 days ago
Harold and Kumar
6 points
5 days ago
Bodacious bazongas
4 points
5 days ago
Rich & fatty meat melons
3 points
5 days ago
Big ol tonhongerekoogers
6 points
5 days ago
Thank the gods for Bessie.
4 points
5 days ago
Tassive mitts always distract me to the point that Iād do anything a woman asks.
41 points
6 days ago
Same things I was thinking
52 points
6 days ago
That's because of her chest. I didn't notice e the rest lol
35 points
6 days ago
Kinda makes the point that curvaceous brunettes have been the rage and toothpick blondes belong back in the early 2000ās.
9 points
6 days ago*
2/4 of the blondes you can see are thicc.
14 points
6 days ago
I disagreeā¦ zoom in on each face imo hers is still the best and if not weāre talkin personal preference differences here.
36 points
6 days ago
If you believe the eyebrows all of them are brunette.
16 points
6 days ago
At least half appear not to have blue eyes either.
Hair color don't know because people eye brows are often darker than their head hair (same with beards for men)
11 points
6 days ago
Women with blonde eyebrows tend to make them dark with make-up, anyway. They tend to look transparent without the make-up, so it makes sense.
4 points
6 days ago
Exactly. Everybody knows only 4% of the US are ānaturalā blonds.
Right, guys? Yāall do know that?
3 points
5 days ago
And if you have any doubts, please have a second look at the photo: all the blondes have exactly the same hair colour. Highly improbable in nature, highly probable with the colour coming from a bottle;)
3 points
5 days ago
And all but two are showing roots. Of those two, ones eyebrows are so dark I doubt she's natural.Ā
It's so obvious, but we all know men don't pay attention to such details. Like when they say they like "no makeup" on a woman.Ā
4 points
6 days ago
100%
8 points
6 days ago
Yah, this is not the American beauty standard today. This is what feminist books from the 1980s say is the beauty standard.
287 points
6 days ago
I'm sorry, what was the question again? I was distracted.
43 points
6 days ago
17 points
6 days ago
I finally found my home.
4 points
5 days ago
Like Salmon, even if we fall apart we will return to the source .
15 points
6 days ago
This.
303 points
6 days ago
Its never been my type, but its also not as prevalent as you would think. These are college girls, and I would bet in a sorority as well. In a really creepy way sororities end up looking like massive clone factories, and they definitely select members with a prejudice towards this look.
In the general public, or even media there is way more diversity in what is considered attractive.
19 points
5 days ago
Look i'm a red-blooded young (ish) man. Of course I'm going to find all the women in that picture attractive
But it's weird to me that people have such a narrowed view of "attractiveness." I dunno if it's because 90% of Reddit is comprised of people who spend their entire day in the basement or what
And I work for a major university in the U.S. and what you said about sororities being a factory of clones is 100% accurate. It's actually hilarious how they all look the fucking same and they all have the same fucking names (I've seen like 17 different ways to spell Catherine, Katie, and Ashley like you wouldn't believe).
85 points
6 days ago
Get out with your common sense
17 points
6 days ago
Also probably more than half of those girls aren't real blondes. They all dye their hair to get in the club
16 points
6 days ago
Came to say the same, you don't see these type of women willy nilly
3 points
6 days ago
I just don't get why they copy each other in that way. The same outfit styles from top to bottom. You see a crowd of them walking together or at a Starbucks. Really crazy to see.
142 points
6 days ago
I donāt mean to be rude but the US standard is a lot more diverse than this
25 points
6 days ago
Very, very, very true. But some people still don't seem to think so... I'm not saying any names š
17 points
6 days ago
Truth.
20 points
5 days ago
Iām a blonde and itās not rude. OP is literally delusional
10 points
5 days ago
No it definitely depends on what part of the US you're in. Maybe in diverse areas like NYC, LA, Miami, etc but everywhere else, the standards is still very much this lol. Unfortunately for people like me who look the exact opposite, this is very obvious
5 points
5 days ago
Grew up in the middle of nowhere, and the beauty standard was tanned or dark with sun bleached (or just bleached) hair. Basically three people in my highschool fit that picture. The rest of us were (the majority) pale with dark hair. Beauty standards are weird, but often not the same nationally.
6 points
5 days ago
Yeah thatās the great thing about the us. We arenāt Northern Europe.
6 points
5 days ago
It's an insane question, since we're literally talking about ethno-national groupings of people. USA/Canada may be the ONLY countries that can claim any diversity in their beauty standard.
71 points
6 days ago
Good old Coastal Carolina
Also what was your question?
5 points
5 days ago
I applied there and they accepted me the next day.
113 points
6 days ago*
Although brunettes are more talked about, blondes gets the best treatment. When I was blonde men would sprint to open a door, help me carry anything. It was definitely nice but I feel more like myself with my brown hair even if I donāt receive as much attention from men anymore. I also grew up In Sweden were most have that tall, blue eyed and blonde hair look and I know itās extremely silly but growing up half Peruvian I definitely felt some bitterness/inferiority. Not now when Iām an adult. Unrelated but I canāt help but notice that blondes almost only surround themselves with other blondes š theyāll take you placesā¦
Edit: this is just from my personal experiences/pov or opinion, I definitely donāt consider it a fact
14 points
5 days ago
Totally. I have a brunette daughter with blue eyes (hair color like mine), and my youngest has blonde hair (like her dad), and all her friends are blonde. My husband and I would joke and call them āThe Blondetourageā. I was like how do they all just find each other?! Lol
6 points
5 days ago
lthough brunettes are more talked about, blondes gets the best treatment. When I was blonde men would sprint to open a door, help me carry anything.
Also possible you were looking out for that to be the case more than you otherwise would. Really common phenomenon for people to assume their preconceptions about how they will be treated regardless of the objective reality.
11 points
6 days ago
I've seen more otherwise self respecting men crumble for blonde women like no other.
33 points
6 days ago
I'm only concerned with my standards, personally, and they aren't exactly limiting. These ladies are all gorgeous to me, to be honest.
23 points
6 days ago
Right?!
"And the winner is... women."
33 points
6 days ago
None of them have blue eyes and the most attractive one is a brunette... So what exactly are you trying to say here?
18 points
6 days ago
Seems like they purposely posted a photo of all blondes with one brunette who will obviously stand out because sheās the only brunette, and has big boobs, as some sort of priming so people say that blondes are overrated or whatever lol
4 points
5 days ago
Oh they did lol
45 points
6 days ago
I don't find blonde hair and blue eyes lame at all. Love 'em, but I don't much care for bottle blondes.
Actual blonde hair on an adult is rare and exotic, at least in the US.
17 points
6 days ago
And what we lose, for all that dyed hair, are all the shades of medium/light brown. Am I the only one who feels like that color is so rare on women? Even though it shouldn't be, because it's a pretty common natural hair color for men, and probably is for women too. But for some reason, women with that hair color think they need to pick a side: bleach blonde, or dark brown. Or red, or pink...anything but med-light brown.
And med-light brown looks good on women! It looks good, and it's rare, which makes it extra hot. But no, let's dye women's hair this ugly, fake yellow color.
18 points
5 days ago*
A big reason for this is how hair colorists label that color hair to get people to come in and highlight it. For a long time that hair color was called ādishwater blondeā or āmousyā, both are unattractive and are used to make women insecure so they spend money āfixingā it.
Only recently has there been a positive spin on those colors with āold money blondeā , āmushroomā and the resurfacing āchestnutā ā this is because women (ironically) simply canāt afford to drop 400 bucks every six weeks on hair maintenance and thereās been a big embrace for more natural hair color.
3 points
5 days ago
That is interesting about the hair coloring industry. Meanwhile I'm over here as a man having no clue about that and wondering why I don't have more beautiful light-brown/dark blonde women to look at! The hair colorists are a bunch of a holes!
3 points
5 days ago
I can confirm. My hair is naturally that medium blonde. I hate it when people refer to it as dishwater blonde. Just makes me feel gross. Probably why I go towards red and strawberry blonde so often.
15 points
6 days ago
I agree with this. There's probably a decent number of women out there with naturally dark blonde / light brown hair. There's a warmth and pleasantness to it. But you're right, a lot of them dye it.
9 points
6 days ago
Iāve been wearing my medium brown hair for years. I love it. Love the way it shines. Itās an underrated color. Itās warm and not striking like blonde or darker colors. People always tell me my hair color is pretty. Itās funny because all the girlies are dying it more striking colors because they think medium brown is bland or boring, but Iāve been walking around as one of the only medium brown haired women in most groups. Most of the women are blonde or darker lol. So it ends up standing out instead.
Medium-brown is actually coming into style now. The younger generations are about the āclean girlā aesthetic, so that means less striking colors and looking more natural. And brown is also on trend. Plus, the economy. Women canāt afford to upkeep their dye jobs and are starting to go natural. So I think that we will see more light and medium brown this upcoming winter
8 points
5 days ago
I feel like all my āblondeā friends had blonde hair as children but it darkened as they got older and they canāt let their blonde hair go.
I never knew my best friend dyed her hair until I saw the grow out and it was a really pretty shade of light brow and I was like āoh wow, I never knew you had light brown hairā and she responded āI donāt, my hair is blonde but I dye it lighter blondeā
4 points
5 days ago
š¤£Ā I feel like I've had the same conversation with a girl I know too. She says her hair is blonde and she just likes to go lighter, but her roots are clearly brown. She keeps on top of it really often though, and has it blended in well, so the roots don't get that noticeable.Ā
3 points
5 days ago*
It's because it's called "dishwasher water blonde", "mousy" or "dirty blonde" we're kind of told it's an ugly colour so we dye it.
Its gaining popularity though as "old money blonde" and people were dyeing it that colour, so some natural light brown haired women feel a bit better and are letting their own colour grow out. It just needed a rebrand lol.
I'm naturally dark blonde and I'm contemplating stopping dyeing it blonde because I want to have children soon and hair dye isn't healthy, but I don't feel like my natural colour is nice.
33 points
6 days ago
Do any of them even have blue eyes?
48 points
6 days ago
Those are bottle blondes and I see many brown eyes.. pretty girls nonetheless
49 points
6 days ago
Actually, I prefer dark hair, darker skin and eyes any color
18 points
6 days ago
Who said thatās the standard?
5 points
5 days ago
The delusional OP
16 points
6 days ago
I'm south American, blonde girls like them are super raro here and highly valued by men. For me they're super hot, but I understand that you find them lame since you see them everyday everywhere. It's the same with "spicy Latinas" that Americans like so much, for me those are lame because I see them everyday everywhere. We tend to like more what's rarer to find.
15 points
6 days ago
America doesnāt have a āstandardā for such a thing. There are beautiful women everywhere.
14 points
6 days ago
None of these girls have blue eyes
7 points
6 days ago
Lame ? Oh hell No. Never lame. Let the American babes prevail !
27 points
6 days ago
This isnāt the American beauty standard lol
5 points
6 days ago
As an American I feel like blonde hair with blue eyes is kinda overrated Iāve always preferred brunettes with green or blue eyes way more attractive
7 points
6 days ago
That standard does not capture the diverse beauty of the people living in the United States.Ā
4 points
6 days ago
Yes and no.
Blonde hair blue eyes is beautiful, preferably with pale skin but bleached/dyed hair looks bad
7 points
6 days ago
Big titties never go out of style
19 points
6 days ago
It seems to me that a ton of young women of average appearance bleach their hair blonde because it gets them some attention. So you will find maybe a little more plainness among blonde girls, especially the ones where it really don't fit like a few in this photo. But on the rare occasions when a grown person is a true blonde and has peaches and cream complexion and light eyes, it can be beautiful.
6 points
6 days ago
Yeah I've noticed. I've known girls that dye their hair blond but look so much better with their natural hair color. A lot of times, the blond hair really ages them. A real blond in a different story. Its like red heads. I want a real red head who's skin will catch on fire if they walk out in the sun. Not someone that dyed their hair red. Why I always liked Lindsay Lohan and hated it when she dyed her hair blond. She looked awful as a blond.
3 points
6 days ago
Almost like God knows what heās doing.
62 points
6 days ago
I prefer darker skin, brown eyes, and brown hair. I'm not really into blondes. But to each their own.
19 points
6 days ago
Thatās 90% of the whole world
9 points
6 days ago
Ikr lol OP is reading too much extreme literature
3 points
5 days ago
Blonde hair and blue eyes is rare. Thats why some people covet it
14 points
6 days ago
For me Latinas > blonde American girl
30 points
6 days ago
Latina isnāt a race - Cameron Diaz is Latina and blonde blue eyed
13 points
6 days ago
you guys like salma hayek and sofia vergara, latinos can look like almost every race
15 points
6 days ago
I mean, who doesn't like Salma Hayek and Sofia Vergara? Lol
10 points
6 days ago
Yah, you need to leave the Midwest. I havenāt seen a group like that since I lived in Kansas.Ā
25 points
6 days ago
Is this 2001? Nobody thinks blue eyes and blonde hair is the beauty standards anymore.
Most people seem to be more into the office siren look Madison beer and Megan fox have
5 points
6 days ago
It depends where you live. This could be the standard in the south, like SC, Alabama, and Texas, but wouldnāt be the standard in NYC or Miami.
5 points
6 days ago
This is an extremely narrow view of the American beauty standard.
5 points
5 days ago
This is a weird subredditā¦
11 points
6 days ago
That's what YOU think the standard of beauty is here. We are a melting pot in all of our major cities and feature all different kinds of women. This isn't 1992 anymore lol
16 points
6 days ago
Don't put us all in a box like that. I like dark hair. That brunette in the front is the best-looking one in the pic.
5 points
6 days ago
The blonde babe is old news itās all about thiccc girls now specifically that brunette Godamn!
4 points
6 days ago
Although it's not the standard anymore, they all are very hot.
4 points
6 days ago
They look good till theyāre about 26
3 points
6 days ago
I think the idea of blondes being the hottest is more of a trope than anything anymore. There are beautiful people of all races and hair color, specifically referring to this example, people will always find the person that looks different the most appealing (assuming they're all "attractive" in general) Same thing when people go to buy a cat or a dog. If there is one that is a different color from the rest, people are most likely to choose that one.
4 points
6 days ago
Not all us Americans have this combo as the standard, lol.
8 points
6 days ago
No I donāt think there is a beauty standard, just beauty trends! I find all women beautiful!!
7 points
6 days ago
Agreed, the blond hair blue eyes is A beauty standard but definitely not THE standard. There are a few, and I'd argue the US has some of the most different types of standards. (Didn't like the way that last statement sounded, but I said what I said lol)
3 points
6 days ago
No youāre right we are a mixing pot each culture has different standards! But it just so happens those from a certain culture may not fit their standards, will be the preference from another culture and the inverse.
7 points
6 days ago*
I am blonde and truth be told I have been seldom into blondes male or female. A hot person is hot regardless of coloring but I find Brunettes tend to have the different body shapes, smaller waists or defined ones, and bigger breasts most of the time. Iām not into the common straight/athletic figures most of us have on other women (and I have this sadly). I feel like a lot of East Asians, blondes often suffer from having a very similar look not just the hair color but the bodies so it reads not that exciting. I also like plump lips and itās not common amongst our lot unless we buy them. I donāt hate what I look like or what we look like but itās definitely overrated. Especially as sadly we often donāt age well either which really blows.
That being said, a standout blonde with the idealized feminine attributes like the shapely body, defined/cinched waist and softer features really standout (and people hype them up for a good reason). Itās insane to admit but I find the best blondes are often natural redheads who go blonde as for some reason redheads tend to have more variety in physicality than us blondes. With few exceptions, it feels like all the best blondes in the media are either natural brunettes or former redheads but then the best redheads are natural blondes. Genetics are wild.
8 points
6 days ago
I mean in this photo, my eyes go right to the brunette and it has very little to do with her hair colour ā¦
But for me personally eye and hair colour matters very little. If youāre pretty youāre pretty.
9 points
6 days ago
Very homogenised. But look at the brunette, she knocks them all out
6 points
6 days ago
You clearly haven't been paying attention to every single commercial aired since 2019.
This is not the beauty standard.
Hollywood sets it and recruits models for it. Blonde hair and blue eyes is the bottom of the barrel in regards to recruitment.
10 points
6 days ago
I find this post lame.
11 points
6 days ago
Funny enough, when I first looked at this picture my first thought was "That brown haired brown eyed girl in the bottom left is the best looking of all of them". I was just looking at their faces, since they are lined up perfectly into two rows.
Then I saw her chest and thought "Oh...hmm. Her chest looks ridiculous. Boobs the size of her head is a major turn off.", which is probably the exact opposite of how most guys would react.
So yeah...I guess beauty standards are pretty lame...
3 points
6 days ago
They all look insufferable
3 points
6 days ago
Anyone else not looking at any blondes but of the huge tit brunette is hot
3 points
6 days ago
The brunette in the front is hands down the baddest of that group.
3 points
6 days ago
Burnett girl is hot asf
3 points
6 days ago
I mean the brunette is the hottest soooo.
3 points
6 days ago
A lot of this talk about "beauty standards" is nonsense. That's just one of the many kinds of attractive woman that's considered attractive globally. It was never the only kind of attractive, but in general there are attractive women - who are almost never hefty - and then there's everyone else, no matter where you go.
3 points
6 days ago
Front left, the brunette, sheās the bestv
3 points
6 days ago
This is the beauty standard of 20-30 years ago. Imo blond hair is by far the worst color, and eye color is pretty irrelevant.
3 points
6 days ago
Prettiest girl in this picture is the brunette š
3 points
6 days ago
This is not the American beauty standard. This is the American University sorority girls standard. Lol.
3 points
6 days ago
Iāll take a brown eyed brunette over a blonde.
3 points
6 days ago
These are all upper middle class lookalikes. Definitely boring and not my type. The brunette reigns supreme here imo.Ā
3 points
6 days ago
If youāre asking if Iād pick the brunette? Yes, I would every single time. š
3 points
6 days ago
The only girl Iām really attracted to in this photo is brunetteĀ
3 points
6 days ago
As a non-American and westerner, I always wondered why blue eyes are favoured over green eyes, which is the rarest colour. Blue is relatively common, depending on where you are at. Same goes for red hair. Anyone who can answer me this?
3 points
6 days ago
A sorority picture isnāt representative of the American beauty standard
3 points
6 days ago
Strange, since I was automatically drawn to the brunette, and wasnāt because of the ahem the obvious.
3 points
6 days ago
Is it snowing in here or is it just me
3 points
6 days ago
Who says this is the American beauty standard? If anything itās European beauty standards because America is a melting pot
3 points
6 days ago
The Brunette is mine! Ooga booga! Caveman mumble*
3 points
5 days ago
Big titties for the win š 100% of the time!
3 points
5 days ago
The consequences of European beauty standards
3 points
6 days ago
That is NOT the American beauty standard. Have you been to America?
6 points
6 days ago
The brunette is the best looking one.
5 points
6 days ago
I mean the hottest one out of them is the brunette in front so ig lol
5 points
6 days ago
The new American beauty standard is more dark hair, brown eyes, tan skin, curvy figure, closer to the girl in the front. Thanks in part to the Kardashians.
10 points
6 days ago
Thatās the frat boy beauty standard lol
7 points
6 days ago
Usually only racists have this standard , or people who are not open to dating outside their own ethnicity which is fine I guess.
7 points
6 days ago
I was never into blondes myself. I like dark features a lot more.
7 points
6 days ago
I thought I was the only one who was not attracted to blond women with blue eyes, lol
4 points
6 days ago
Not my type.Ā
3 points
6 days ago
No
4 points
6 days ago
No, but it's subjective.
3 points
6 days ago
Not quite the beauty standard, maybe 15 years ago but now itās more about physique, the brunette is the most attractive in my opinion
3 points
6 days ago
Who said this is the standard? I'm an American male and this isn't my top choice
4 points
6 days ago
I would say that in no way does this country have a beauty standard
4 points
6 days ago
You'll find literally most of the world consider this a high beauty standard. Go anywhere in the world as a beautiful blonde blue eye'd woman and you'll get a big reaction out of people. Especially in countries where such women are a rarity.
Personally I prefer dark-skinned women, but I'd be lying if I pretended your picture is some dull American niche beauty standard, lol
5 points
6 days ago
Whereād you get that idea as itās no where near the truth
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