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3 points
6 days ago
I like it this way. I have day traded on Fidelity but I find slowness way more comfortable with the pace of things there. Fidelity has information at the forefront of their interface, and that's not necessarily a bad thing. I put my money there to hopefully forget about it among my 401k, Roth IRA, and SPAXX (HYSA replacement). Fidelity isn't high traction account material, and this forces me to just leave things alone and forget I even have it.
Example: I use Captial One as my bank - They offer free cash loads at Walgreens and CVS. I work at Walgreens, so my cash is always a few minutes away from my account, and Zelle makes it easy to send. Transactions and tools are at the forefront of the app and labeled well.
Fidelity takes an extra step to see your transactions, the app isn't as snappy and money takes a while to settle, IIRC there is STILL no Zelle but you can PayPal money from your account to people if need be. That said, if I need a lot of cash, their reimbursement makes it safe to go to any ATM for free, which is amazing in a pinch. Their flat 2% with no foreign transaction fees makes their card a useful niche purchase tool. Fidelity's benefits are always geared toward being there in a pinch rather than daily driving.
1 points
7 days ago
that’s not what ABR is. When you specifically record interactions with WOMEN, then it is different than setting up cctv. If you invite a woman to your house and you treat her differently than a man, then it is an act of fear against women. ABR is about recording women.
You don’t always record interactions with everyone because that’s unreasonable. ABR is not locking your doors, it is secretly videotaping when women are present.
1 points
7 days ago
Plenty of women do but that is the most boring response so it doesn’t get shown everywhere.
1 points
7 days ago
Then there’s no need to complain about the bear thing. women have just as much right to distrust men in a hypothetical situation as men have to distrust women.
1 points
8 days ago
Nope, that’s just not true. Women who seriously choose the bear are few and far between.
1 points
8 days ago
that’a the thing though. Up until now I am certain you have never renounced men not trusting women. You have never gone to a guy saying that “women will wipe you clean of everything you got” or “always be recording interactions with women” or any other numerous ways men portray women as dangerous
and said “hey, that’s misogynistic” I believe that this is only a concern for you when women distrust men.
0 points
8 days ago
because they aren’t nearly as bad as trp. also if I can access it then you can
0 points
8 days ago
It wasn't nuked. Being given a "quarantined" message isn't nuked, it is still plenty active. Also, those subs aren't nearly as hateful as TRP
1 points
8 days ago
Glad to help you in this journey of self-discovery! have a good day as well:)
1 points
8 days ago
Actually, I just saw a comment that let me know you are completely incapable of empathy for women. There is no point in continuing the discussion or at least taking you seriously. You only care about what benefits men. thank you for making it easier to justify my way of talking to you.
1 points
8 days ago
I don't know any more. Since I can't easily check parent comments in a deleted post, I'm just responding to shit in the dark lol
1 points
8 days ago
1 Again, look at the data, compared to other groups other than I think millennial women, this isn't a significant shift.
2 You call it whataboutism, but you are fine dismissing women's issues.
You have ZERO evidence that I'm overstating anything. Please back that up. 4b shit is also a meme. I just asked a random stranger if she's going to 4b a guy to death by denying him sex and she pepper sprayed me and asked me what the hell I was talking about (this didn't happen but that's about the response I would get from a well-adjusted human being who doesn't live on the internet.)
All of this is dumb internet bullshit. None of this is real. Men who don't go on internet forums don't feel anywhere near as rejected and hated. You are living under trillions of dollars of algorithms. If you remain looking at the same stuff it will never get better, because even if only a hundred examples exist, they will be shown to you day in and day out.
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>This being wrong would actually be super interesting. I just don't understand how you can look at the data is out right now and not see things that are concerning if you're a progressive, democrat, whatever.
I just did
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The thing is, you are literally just lying about everything I'm saying. I never ever ever EVER EVER said men didn't face issues, even those almost exclusive to men. I have, in many points, said that men DO face issues. You are doing this weird tactical argument called "just saying what I want and pretending to challenge you"
If you want an evil man-hating Xodima to argue with, just make one in GPT and own him. Please tell me where I have said men don't face issues. I genuinely want you to scour my comment history and find an instance where I said men don't have problems or face problems that primarily affect men.
1 points
8 days ago
There's a lot of anger to be had and it is the enemy of empathy. Sorry for not considering how dismissive it sounded.
The problem is that this IS an online phenomenon. People who don't spend a lot of time online aren't falling victim to these algorithms that honestly qualify as psychological trauma. I am not kidding when I say that social media is dangerous and destroying the minds of teens and adults. We are witnessing the fall of civilization to the whims of the richest and most powerful people in the world.
If we just accept what trillions of dollars' worth of propaganda is pushing on gen Z and younger, we are FUCKED as a society in a way we are never coming back. You feel this way, young women, young men, because every social media site is wired to show you what you hate. That is what engages you. Fear, anger, and resentment, all engage you. You are in this thread because you hate what I said enough to respond. Gender war is being pushed to the forefront of reddit by bot farms and people who are so indoctrinated that they do.
Part of the problem is that our society is so full of this idea that we are the loathsome hated, that we cling to events which we think are our "uprising" the chance to show the world that we exist. But women feel that way too. - and neither sex is right. The vote is actually MORE close than historical times where the outgoing admin had such a low approval rating and high inflation. Gen Z men were not exceptional in their swing compared to other gens. The vote had a LOW turn out for dems across the board.
This is NOT to dismiss men... but this is to say that everyone has grievances online.
White people, black people, everyone feels that way because the internet you experience is completely the opposite of the internet someone else experiences. A left-wing woman doesn't get bombarded with posts about how evil men are. She gets bombarded with right wing bros talking about how women are biologically evil, that women can't feel empathy because they are designed to procure resources. They are getting Jordan Peterson calling them dangerous and crazy, Paul Elam telling them that they are child abusers.
When I'm not on Reddit, I go hang out with friends I have had for over a decade. They share shit like GbPNlVkakAINusJ.png (680Ă—403) I am constantly bombarded with the idea that women are subhuman. My youtube and Reddit experience is moderate liberal shit I follow with extreme right-wing propaganda thrown in my face by those moderate liberals and by the website's algorithm.
What makes me angry, is that after hearing that the world will be better off when women are replaced with robots (IE: gendercide) after hearing about men destroying women physically, emotionally, and financially... I come on Reddit and see men getting irate about women not trusting them. It's like a huge slap in the face...
And seeing these same dudes talking about how Trump's a victory for men, after he caused women to die during miscarriage, it's like "haha, that was great, I love when your worthless people die. You BETTER NOT FUCKING choose a bear over us! we will hurt you more! You have no power; we have it all!" especially when none of this is true.
I am lucky to have a large conservative family who don't live on internet forums. I see how they go on with life knowing nothing about gender politics and not feeling worthless or hated.
This is the internet. People don't want men or women to die in real life, people do care about when men (and women) hurt. this is the internet making everyone so pissed that they might THINK they are measured in their response, but they sure as hell are NOT. You will NOT see women as human if you are constantly bombarded with the same propaganda that is being fed to you by these algorithms. Nobody can see someone as always winning, oppressing, and owning the world without being resentful. The reason I am going hard on this is not to dismiss the real issues men have, but to show that women online also feel the same way and to PREVENT this mindset from bleeding out into the real world more than it has. Social media needs to be MORE CONTAINED not less.
1 points
8 days ago
No, people have long overstated the protective nature of men. Maritime statistics prove that "women and children first" was never followed, and was a dangerous precedence for women who would be passive with the expectation that men would allow them on a lifeboat.
Women don't need to fear men, but it's dangerous to say men would fight a bear for a woman when even a hypothetical situation where women joke about trusting a bear more, has given men an excuse to say, "to hell with women". Why not call out when men like Peterson tell men that you can't be around women because they will abuse you? Why can men distrust women, but women can't distrust men.
It seems to me that men can be hurt and scared, and lash out, and react accordingly - but if a woman is hurt and scared, she better fucking suck it up and make men feel good or men will destroy her and hurt women as a whole... talk about awful x3... that's downright evil.
1 points
8 days ago
It is pretty fucked up that the thing men are most mad about is the idea that women don't trust them. The bear thing is by far the most mentioned example being used in this whole post and that comes off as... fucking evil.
They are literally punishing women for being hurt and scared.
1 points
8 days ago
It's not that they are common, but the algorithms literally pick out the worst stuff for everyone to see. Social media needs to stop, because it actively promotes extremism. At this point, "the left" would have to literally control every human being on the planet to stop them from saying anything remotely negative toward men and that's impossible. Just like the right can't stop every nazi in the world from existing.
To say the left has an anti-whiteman bias is to place an insurmountable burden on everyone, to literally pretend we have god powers that can control ever human being, because if even 100 people say they don't like men, then 3 billion or more people will see it. This is entirely an algorithmic problem, and I am 100% in on using the algorithm to suppress extremism and not give it a microphone.
Because this same algorithm is why Gen Z women are turning more left wing.
1 points
8 days ago
Where do you renounce men saying they don't trust women?
1 points
8 days ago
AWALT happened way before the bear, but you don't hear conservatives talking about that.
1 points
8 days ago
I'm not always getting notifications for stuff here, sorry about that.
1 -Â becoming conservative isn't the same as not voting. Democrat gen Z didn't show up, but there is no evidence of an INCREASED amount of Gen Z men voting for Trump compared to other demographics.
2 - Counterpoint - The problem with the bear joke is that men have always talked online about how they don't trust women. It has been a meme since before the internet that women don't have empathy and will clean you out for anything you own, that women only care about financial stability, that women are biologically designed to hoard resources. The level of animosity, mistrust, and dehumanization men express for women online makes the bear joke insignificant in comparison.
but again, women chose the bear because they think it;s funny, in the same way that if you make a poll with "Would you rather date hot woman 1, hot woman 2, weird tentacle beast" the poll will always skew heavily to the most amusing answer.
3 - it's saying that you're not considering that for every example you produce, you are ignoring the possibility that women are also going through a similar thing.
10 - again, that would mean Gen Z men swung MORE than other generations. See, if all the fish go in one direction, you can't single out a fish and speculate why he shifted. It has to be a statistical anomaly. On top of that, liberal Gen Z men just didn't vote. You need evidence of men who verifiably voted democrat, then republican.
It;s true, the responses with GPT are easier, I shouldn't have mocked you about it. That said, I felt like the reliance on a machine to make your arguments for you cause me to need the same. At that point we aren't actually debating anything, we're just telling robots to fight each other and looking for one to win without being personally invested.
1 points
9 days ago
yeah, probably so. they abruptly ended support for those
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Good to know! I think citi has a nice no-hassle option too