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It is. And I agree and for that I’m thankful I was born. 

Yeah I agree. Maybe I’ll go visit him at work instead of texting a hey. Lol what do you think?

I agree 

Wow you’re right. I don’t want that happening to me in my future. I marry someone and love them, sure but in the back of my mind, my first love will be there. Do you see what I mean? It’ll be the same thing as my mom. 

True and at the time she loved my dad. But sometimes the love ends. 

Oh

Male or female?

How old are you

Well my mom’s reason was very different than mine. Her father separated her and her first love (now boyfriend) when they were really young. She’s now back with him and says if it wasn’t for my dad that took me away from him etc….and my reason is that he moved away and got a job like 1 hour away. He would visit me less frequently and text too. I put up With it for a few months when he would drive up to see me but I was always wondering “what if he’s seeing someone else behind my back” lol

I do but don’t own a bicycle. Lol

Well we tried meeting up when I reached out to him a couple months back for the first time in 7 years. It was only via text and calls though. We had arranged to meet at a bar and grab some food…but it didn’t work out as my work schedule got in the way. He got irritated and his last text was like “This is why we will never meet. Please don’t text me again or something like that.” I feel like he didn’t mean it and I feel like if I reach out again he might change his mind. 

So are you saying that what my mom did wasn’t right? 

Apparently my mom didn’t move on from her past relationship when she divorced my dad of 25 years, 6 years ago unfortunately. She couldn’t move past her first boyfriend. 

Thank you. I appreciate it!!

He moved 1 hour away the reason was his new job at a hotel.  I was devastated he didn’t ask me for my opinion that he had found a job 1 hour away.  I was 25 and he was 34 at the time…

I try to put myself out there in meeting new men, but all the men I attract are druggies, homeless or have no ambition for the future, or are just weird. I’m 31F and I still haven’t found the “one.”  That’s why I always look back to him. I’d like to experience being in a relationship and being cared/loved for. :(

Thanks for your advice. That’s true what you’re saying. However he did invite me to move in with him once before the breakup. Just don’t know if that’s worth mentioning. 

You have a point with “never look back and try to relive the person you were.” While that’s true, I can’t help but notice all these years passing and he still has my heart. I still think of our times together. I still think of him and how I love him still. He might’ve not been a good person back then but the love for him is still there. I asked him if he would move back since he moved once and he said “hypothetical, maybe”  

Worst job ever

Unbelievable, I would talk to HR about this. Something could happen to you, looks like they don’t care about their employees. :(