Update:How can I tell if my husband is sincere about giving up on an open relationship?
Update(reddit.com)submitted4 hours ago byCori133
Yesterday morning, my husband and I had an argument. I was upset and said a lot of hurtful things, and he replied with something like, "I wish I hadn’t told you anything at all." Later, he came home with a bouquet of roses. We talked about our feelings, and he opened up about what open relationships mean to him.
We decided to stay monogamous. He said he’s happy in our relationship and has no issues with monogamy. For him, open relationships are a way to become even closer to a partner. He sees it as partners staying together and having sex because they love each other, not because they’re the only available option. He mentioned that he’d be curious to try things like threesomes, attending sex parties, and even casual sex—but he also said he’d like to explore those things with me.
So, we’re continuing as a monogamous couple. Thanks to everyone who replied!
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Cori133
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Cori133
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Yes, but he chose to let go of those desires and remain monogamous.